How young is too young?

[deepshark]

Hi. I am a 15 year old guy and finishing year 10 this year at school. I am really attracted to two girls: one who is in the year below me and aged 14-15. I know she's not much younger than me but its just strange because she's a year below me in school and I feel like that would be weird if we went out. The second girl is a friend of my little sister who is 13. That means this girl is 12-13 years old and finishing year 7... That seems way too young when in reality we're only a few years apart. I just want someone else's opinion on this because I feel like its wrong to be physically attracted to girls finishing year 7...:confused:

[Uranus]

I know this is a short answer but I would say too young would be 12, and maybe 13, depending on the maturity of both you and her. I see no issue with them being a year below you and whatnot

[Karkat]

I don't think it's wrong to be attracted to someone so close in age, but dating someone who is 13 might not be the best choice. So it depends on what you're planning.

[Saint of Sinners]

15 and 13 is only 3 years apart, doesn't seem that big, however, she's 13, which idk feels a little strange. Just a little. Depends on your intentions.

[lilg]

I don't see a problem with that. Which one do you really like?

[cami]

Just 2 years, no big deal. I had 16 yo bf at 13. Don't worry, it's fine.

[NeuroTiger]

I consider kids below 15 to be dating too young

[Broken Toy]

it depends, its only a couple years but its weird because there is a lot of maturing during school which makes all the difference. like if a 20 and 23 year old were dating its normal, they'll probably be of the same maturity, like a lot of the same things, but a 15 and a 12 year old will most likely be very different. your call but just saying

[maniamsmart]

I highly recommend you read some of the posts and comments in this thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=218404). I gave a pretty detailed response on to how I feel about age differences, as well did others. You'll find them very helpful :)

In short though, I think either girl is fine.

[SonOfAnarchy]

Id say just be friends with the 12-13 and nothing else. Its ok to.be attracted to someone no.matter what age just with some u gotta keep.it look.but dont.touch

[cbm89031]

I can start dating next wee because I will be 16.... I say wait until you are 16 then start dating

[SethfromMI]

when you get older it is not as big of a deal, but at our age, i think the 12-13 year old girl may be too young

[Zachary G]

it all depends on her level of maturity. though you are 15 and she is 12/13, i dont see it being a good idea to date her because it could cause for some problems with the parents and all. ultimately you have to make the decision on what you are going to do, so think about it long and hard before you make any moves, and just be careful.

[Luminous]

It's not wrong to be physically or romantically attracted to the 12 year old, after all she really is only a couple of years younger. However, if you decide to get into a relationship with her, be wary. Chances are you'll find out that you're at much different places emotionally. You were probably a lot different maturity-wise when you were 12 versus now. She's still at that age. She's not even a teenager yet really. You can try going out with her if you want to, but I recommend you don't try anything sexual and really get to know her first and see how you feel then.

[Pablo]

I don't see a problem with it.