Baconator
December 17th, 2014, 12:00 AM
Hey, so as time goes on, the girl I am dating is getting closer to me and I am learning a lot more about her life too. We spend a lot of time together but still have a handful amount of awkward silences throughout each day we hangout with each other. I like her personality where she is open minded to new ideas and doesn't shoot them down immediately. I find once we start talking the conversation flows well, but once the topic comes to an end, things go silent for awhile unless I can think of something to actually talk about. We've discussed these silences over Facebook and both know it's uncomfortable for the both of us, even with that knowledge, I still can't keep up a conversation for that long.
To my question. I have been thinking and I don't know if I am being judgmental or wrong or if this is normal. I am the kind of guy who plays games and likes to chill and be comfortable with regular jeans, a tee shirt and a pullover hoodie. Which in my opinion I find a turn on if a girl wears comfortable clothing such as the basic blue jeans, or track pants or even leggings. Same goes for the tops such as tee shirts, tank tops or rocking the sweater game with a zip up or pullover.
The girl I am dating, or as she refers to me as her "boyfriend," only after one date, has a different taste in fashion than what I thought. We attend a catholic high school so the uniform masks her taste in clothing. But when we have the occasional civvies days (Street clothing) she wears things like bright red jeans with long sleeve, knitted sweaters. To me I find this kind of a turnoff. Insult me if you will on this, but this is just my opinion on this. I expected a girl with her personality to have a more laid-back fashion sense, one that I explained above.
I think I am being shallow on this, and I am not sure if this is normal for someone or not. It's only been about a month since I've started dating her and just this week I've started looking at the reality of this. I come here looking for a second opinion on my thoughts, is this something normal for a regular guy to have oppositions on or is it just me being very judgmental?
To my question. I have been thinking and I don't know if I am being judgmental or wrong or if this is normal. I am the kind of guy who plays games and likes to chill and be comfortable with regular jeans, a tee shirt and a pullover hoodie. Which in my opinion I find a turn on if a girl wears comfortable clothing such as the basic blue jeans, or track pants or even leggings. Same goes for the tops such as tee shirts, tank tops or rocking the sweater game with a zip up or pullover.
The girl I am dating, or as she refers to me as her "boyfriend," only after one date, has a different taste in fashion than what I thought. We attend a catholic high school so the uniform masks her taste in clothing. But when we have the occasional civvies days (Street clothing) she wears things like bright red jeans with long sleeve, knitted sweaters. To me I find this kind of a turnoff. Insult me if you will on this, but this is just my opinion on this. I expected a girl with her personality to have a more laid-back fashion sense, one that I explained above.
I think I am being shallow on this, and I am not sure if this is normal for someone or not. It's only been about a month since I've started dating her and just this week I've started looking at the reality of this. I come here looking for a second opinion on my thoughts, is this something normal for a regular guy to have oppositions on or is it just me being very judgmental?