Is this true?

[BabyGMarie]

Is it true guys are able to control their ejaculation because I have a guy friend who has sex with his gf unprotected & shes fine with it bcuz he told her that he knows how to cotrol his ejaculation, so every time they have sex its unprotected sex & she dont be having no worries about pregnacy bcuz of what he said, & I told her even thou he says that there still can be a risk but she didnt want to listen & now she pregnant & dont know what to do. So I just wanna can guys control their ejaculation?

[Emerald Dream]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Puberty for All

^only because of asking different sex^

[Luminous]

Honestly, what your friend told you is BS. Even if guys really could control their ejaculation (it's called edging, but it doesn't last forever), there's still sperm in fluids that come out of the penis before ejaculation (pre-cum). Even if there was no chance of pregnancy, she should probably get checked out for any STDs, if a guy is pulling stuff like that on her who knows how many people he's pulled it on? Tell her to use a condom next time.

[AlisterPSG]

Yea, BS all guys have pre-cum whist is sex they should be worried if they don't have it. Like what Hannah said he's edging and sooner or later he's going to shoot if anything he's only going to have more sperm come out and go a longer distance.
Of course he can't control it (for long) but some men are able to control they're erection, even if they have a girl playing with it they can keep it from rising. Pretty cool I think.

[Meh Guy]

Yes, with practice guys can control the ejaculation. Most guys do this to last longer, or also sometimes known as edging. However, this technique of sex is very hard to master and requires a lot of will power and timing. Even then, the precum can still contain sperm.its also known as the "pull out" technique.

[SonOfAnarchy]

Guys and girls can control there cumming its called edging. a guy can have sex or masturbate and hold back from ejaculating just like a girl can put of cumming. Its not hard to do something sexual and not cum or delay it

[Karkat]

Yeeeah they definitely need to use protection, because as others have said, the "pull out method" is not very reliable- all it takes is one time for him to slip up and she could get pregnant.

[nklarke]

Yes, we can control ejaculation but we CAN'T control that sperm that goes out before the final ejacultion makes her pregnant neither we can control sexual transmissions diseases.

[Aajj333]

I mean if you are having sex your going to ejaculate. Im sure that 1. He meant he would pull out and 2. He is an asshole and will probably be a horrible father. If he is willing to lie to a girl and risk HER life so his dick feels a little better than he should have no part in raising the kid.

Other than the obvious reasons, you can get pregnate from precum, which he definitly can't control.

[highschooler]

Just like girls might be able to slow down and edge off their orgasms, so can we. Similarly, if we pass that point of no return, we're going to ejaculate. If this guy can feel it coming on and slow down or pull out, it might work all right. The problem is when accidents happen and he forgets to or can't do so in time. That's why he should wear a condom anyway.

[Uranus]

It's basically BS what your friend told you....to a point.

There's a good and bad side to this.

Yes! Guys can control our ejaculation! It's possible. But if stimulated in the certain way, it's not so easy. Even if he can control it, you're still at risk of STD's HIV, Ect. So even if he can control it...it's not a good idea. Better safe than sorry. Just use a condom. You don't want to go to your mom next month and tell her you're pregnant or have a STD.

[Semi_IronMan]

Lucky guy. I can't

[Kochanek]

No boy can control ejaculation completely.

There is usually a little precum that the boy doesn't even feel and notice. This might only be a little drop, but it already can cause pregnancy.

The real ejaculation he feels coming and he can avoid it until that famous "point of no return". If he is stimulated up to this point, he cannot avoid ejaculation anymore. He inevitably cums!

And stopping stimulation short before that point of no return is a real torture. Because your hornyness is at such a high level. Everything is so tingly concentrating on your penis! You think you drive nuts, if you don't get released!

[Tony_777]

Yes, as everyone says it's BS... I've tried the edging and it's so hard to do BUT anyway, yes, there is pre-sperm which could also get a girl pregnant.
I didn't understand if your friend is already pregnant or not

[Your Captain]

There are two ways I control my ejaculation.
1. Is by edging which I stopping before cumming then carrying on
2. Is pushing down hard on the tube where the cum flows to stop the flow
Both these ways always include pre cum which can still get you pregnant

[ozteen]

He's bullshitting, the fact that she's pregnant should make that pretty obvious!

[SethfromMI]

Honestly, what your friend told you is BS. Even if guys really could control their ejaculation (it's called edging, but it doesn't last forever), there's still sperm in fluids that come out of the penis before ejaculation (pre-cum). Even if there was no chance of pregnancy, she should probably get checked out for any STDs, if a guy is pulling stuff like that on her who knows how many people he's pulled it on? Tell her to use a condom next time.

this. yes guys can learn how to hold it, but pre-cum is something which is not really controllable and even if guys do practice there is always a chance they will still ejaculate

[Guitarguy9]

Not even slightly true. Your friend is lying.

[jordanhardy]

You can learn to hold back your orgasm but you can still get pregnant without actually ejaculating. Pre-cum contains seamen too.

[Zachary G]

Honestly, what your friend told you is BS. Even if guys really could control their ejaculation (it's called edging, but it doesn't last forever), there's still sperm in fluids that come out of the penis before ejaculation (pre-cum). Even if there was no chance of pregnancy, she should probably get checked out for any STDs, if a guy is pulling stuff like that on her who knows how many people he's pulled it on? Tell her to use a condom next time.

total BS all the way. he was just giving her a line to get the sex, thats all there is to it.

[Sam-9876]

YES we can control our ejaculations, NO we can't control precum which still contains sperm and can transmit STIs.

There's only one type of totally safe sex, and that's with a condom. Your friend wants to try paying more attention in Sex Ed.

Also, even if she knew he was STI free and was happy having unprotected sex, has she never heard "it takes two to tango"? It's her responsibility to avoid unwanted pregnancy as much as his, why wasn't she on the pill?

Sorry for ranting, but you shouldn't have to deal with this. You told her not to do it and she carried on anyway, so your conscience is clear.