What can I do?

[BabyGMarie]

Okay so me & my bf been together for 13 in a half months & we agreed that we will take each other virginity bcuz we're both virgins & he seem to really want to "do it" bcuz he talks to his friends how he cant wait & how he's gonna make me feel good etc. But the only time he really bring it up too me is when we're texting he never seem to talk about it in person. I have been ready to have sex like 2 months ago & for 2 months I've been watching porn bcuz I wanna kno how it feels to have sex with your partner. I ask him about having sex soon but I dont want to keep on & he feels like I'm rushing him or pressuring him. So what do I do ? Just wait or just let it happen when it happen.

[jessie3]

I think that if you are ready, try giving him hints to let him know you are ready.

[CreativeUsername]

Like Jessie said, keep giving hints. He may also just be nervous. If you give him hints, and he doesn't want to have sex, then he may just be bragging to his friends.

[SethfromMI]

just come out and ask :)

[samlove]

Is there a reason why you haven't given him head yet? That might make it more comfortable for both of you.

[Saint of Sinners]

Well I guess it's ok to ask him, just be sure not to pressure him into doing anything he's not ready for.

[maniamsmart]

Is there a reason why you haven't given him head yet? That might make it more comfortable for both of you.

I agree with the above post.

As for my own personal advice to you, it seems like he may just not be ready or comfortable, or even confident. Why don't you ask him if he is any of those? If you already asked him to have sex, but he says you are pressuring him then I don't think you should continue to ask that question. Maybe ask if he is confident or not, and give him confidence. Or how about you start off by sexting? That could be one way of giving him hints in a way that he may be more comfortable.

[SonOfAnarchy]

Let it happen when the time comes (no pun intended lol). He may not be fully ready yet even tho he talks to you about having sex. Talking and doing are two diffrent things. When he wants to and is ready he will

[BabyGMarie]

Thanks Everyone

[maniamsmart]

Thanks Everyone

No problem, if you have any updates or any other questions let us know :)