Casual SEX vs Relationship SEX

[Polo2847]

Hi! I'm 18, still a virgin, and I guess y'all know how much pressure virgin teens and young adults go through about this topic.

For those who have experienced both casual and relationship sex, can you describe how you feel after? Emotionally? Which one feels better (emotionally & physically)? Can you go through your personal experiences and compare these two together?

I always hear people feel "lonely" inside after casual one night stands, but I don't really know what that feels like. I'm imaging sex with the BAE/ the ONE, and it sounds so beautiful, two lovers becoming intimately close. The thing is, I've never been in a relationship, sooo it takes so much time and effort to reach that point. One nights seems so....cold....

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

It fits better here c:

[Zachary G]

Relationship sex is much more involved because there is more to it than just the "get in" and "get it done", there is more of the emotional connection with the making out and body contact, and lets not forget the after sex snuggle time.

Casual sex is more physical than anything because there is less of the kissing and making out, body contact. Its more about getting off than being together and when its all said and done, it does feel like something is missing, but this is the kind of thing that some people look for instead of a relationship.

Thats just my 2 cents.

[ImCoolBeans]

Relationship sex is much more involved because there is more to it than just the "get in" and "get it done", there is more of the emotional connection with the making out and body contact, and lets not forget the after sex snuggle time.

Casual sex is more physical than anything because there is less of the kissing and making out, body contact. Its more about getting off than being together and when its all said and done, it does feel like something is missing, but this is the kind of thing that some people look for instead of a relationship.

Thats just my 2 cents.

This is a good reply. In a relationship it's much more emotional and can have a lot of passion behind it. Not to say that more casual sex can't be good or passionate too, but when you're in a relationship it means more to both of you.

[SethfromMI]

Relationship sex is much more involved because there is more to it than just the "get in" and "get it done", there is more of the emotional connection with the making out and body contact, and lets not forget the after sex snuggle time.

Casual sex is more physical than anything because there is less of the kissing and making out, body contact. Its more about getting off than being together and when its all said and done, it does feel like something is missing, but this is the kind of thing that some people look for instead of a relationship.

Thats just my 2 cents.

I agree. casual sex can have a lot of making out and stuff, but relationship sex is way more emotionally satisfying as well as physical

[maniamsmart]

Relationship sex is much more involved because there is more to it than just the "get in" and "get it done", there is more of the emotional connection with the making out and body contact, and lets not forget the after sex snuggle time.

Casual sex is more physical than anything because there is less of the kissing and making out, body contact. Its more about getting off than being together and when its all said and done, it does feel like something is missing, but this is the kind of thing that some people look for instead of a relationship.

Thats just my 2 cents.

Best answer you're going to get, couldn't have said it better. Though one thing I will add is that, after casual sex, many people may want to think of it as relationship sex, or try to produce that feeling, but in reality it isn't the true feeling of it. So hence, relationship sex is much stronger, and it is what a lot of people yearn for, even after casual sex.

[CosmicNoodle]

I actually love 1 night stands, even more so if I'm all pent up after months (yes, I'm that man whore at the party, throw rocks if you want)

To me it seems like the best way to get it all out of your system with no strings attached (usually)

[maniamsmart]

I actually love 1 night stands, even more so if I'm all pent up after months (yes, I'm that man whore at the party, throw rocks if you want)

To me it seems like the best way to get it all out of your system with no strings attached (usually)

Haha, even though some may not like the idea. I think it's a great idea for those that may not be ready, or don't want to be ready to in a committed relationship. As long as both people are fine with it and single, heck, go for it!

[CosmicNoodle]

Haha, even though some may not like the idea. I think it's a great idea for those that may not be ready, or don't want to be ready to in a committed relationship. As long as both people are fine with it and single, heck, go for it!

I will say, committed sex is better, physical is good but when you have a strong emotional bond it is nicer, but fuck it, I don't do relationships well, more along the lines of go to party, listen to metal, everyone get high on acid, sex. A very vapid sex life.

To the OP, don't just throw your virginity at any old person I would recommend waiting till you find the right person.

[maniamsmart]

I will say, committed sex is better, physical is good but when you have a strong emotional bond it is nicer, but fuck it, I don't do relationships well, more along the lines of go to party, listen to metal, everyone get high on acid, sex. A very vapid sex life.

To the OP, don't just throw your virginity at any old person I would recommend waiting till you find the right person.

Well I won't judge you, I think it's healthy practice until you yourself are ready to be in a relationship. As long as you use protection and don't get diseases I think it's fine, along with what I said in the post before.

And good advice to the OP.