Is she playing hard to get?

[Iamsolost]

Hi, this girl I like sleeps on my shoulder, writes on me, plays with my hair (I have a 60's style hair cut (use products + see professional hair stylist)), and she many times has said hey lean back and she fixes my hair, she acts kind of weird around me, she sometimes is nice but then sometimes makes rude comments, I.E the other day on the bus I was wearing a sweater vest with a button up shirt and she called me and my friend a f*ggot, even though she does what seems like flirting most of the time, (she says something mean and then in a really sweet sounding voice she asks me if I am mad at her which I always tell her i am not). She was going to sit next to me one day then it looked like she didn't because my bag was there so real smoothly she walked by so it didn't look like she was trying to sit with me then played with my hair from the seat behind me etc. She also was turned around and we kind of gazed into each others eyes for like 5 mins. I am very confused as what to do. I want to say I should just man up (buck up) and sit next to her, talk to her etc but I am afraid I am reading her signals wrong and will look like an idiot/pathetic. Thanks!

[WALLE]

i think she likes you, i definitely dont think shes playing hard to get i just think your not getting the hints XD well anyways i really think you should sit by her and see what happens XD

[PinkFloyd]

Alright so she flirts with you, she touches you and she looks into your eyes. The eyes part gives off that she wants an emotional connection and the flirting gives off that she probably wants to fuck you. Emotional + physical = awesome relationship.

I'd say your best bet is to straight up honest with her. Ask her on a date and see where that goes. Girls like it when you're up front with them but being shy isn't terrible either. Some girls think that's cute. I think she's crushing on you and you're crushing on her and both of you are too shy to approach each other. That being said, I think you should make a move and ask her out.

[Iamsolost]

Also I talk to my friend who is a girl about her (the girl I like), and told her I wanted to ask her on a date roller skating (I do jamskating which is a mixture of break dancing and footwork) and there is this really old sub who I know (had her in another class and we both like the beatles) long story short if the sub see's me she will knock and come talk to me and interrupt class so my math teacher said she follows poor myname around and the girl I like said "well you can take her on a date to the skating rink" which makes me think she told the girl I like... ( they are apart of the same group of friends and she makes jokes out loud which I hate her for.

I ain't no fortunate one ;)

[SethfromMI]

agreed, ask her out man

[maniamsmart]

She is into you. Even though she may say some rude things sometimes, it seems like its all just fun and games, and part of that is flirting in a way. I would say you should just take your chances and ask her out. I don't see any signs of being hard to get, but I do signs of her having interest in you.