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WALLE
December 8th, 2014, 01:54 AM
There is this girl i really really like. Things didnt work out and i have absolutely no chance of ever dating this girl. I know this and i know i need to get over her but i cant. Im just scared that there will never be anyone else ill ever like and that actually likes me. how do i get over her and how will i know theres someone actually out there for me?
Horatio Nelson
December 8th, 2014, 02:15 AM
There is this girl i really really like. Things didnt work out and i have absolutely no chance of ever dating this girl. I know this and i know i need to get over her but i cant. Im just scared that there will never be anyone else ill ever like and that actually likes me. how do i get over her and how will i know theres someone actually out there for me?
Dude, I would not worry at all. There are over 7 billion people in the world. I'm certain there is one out there that will love you.
ImCoolBeans
December 8th, 2014, 08:24 AM
The only way that will happen is if you let it happen. You shouldn't even think that way, it only breeds negative thoughts that will make you feel bad, and won't help your cause at all. My advice is to get back out there and don't give up, even if you lost your chance with her, there will be another girl, and another after that. You're only 17, it's not the end of the road for your love life, just the beginning. I've gotten shot down before too, all you can do is pick yourself back up and move on.
maniamsmart
December 8th, 2014, 05:14 PM
Patience and time is the answer here. I have a friend who also is going through the same thing you are going through, and depression is hitting him. It's worse for him because he actually was in a relationship with the girl only to find out he was cheated on. He too thinks that he will never find anyone else.
But I assure you that there is always someone out there for everyone. My best advice is too keep your mind off of it for now, and focus on your life, goals, and hobbies. If you stay thinking about it for too long you'll get carried away with it and it will affect you more than it should.
Saint of Sinners
December 9th, 2014, 11:40 AM
Just don't give up hope:). As long as you're still trying there's always a chance!
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