beebs
December 7th, 2014, 08:34 PM
My ex boyfriend used to sexually and emotionally abuse me. He used to pressure me into sex, pressure me into doing sexual things i wasn't comfortable with, he forced me to have sex on a number of occasions. He used to tell me I was doing everything wrong, every time we saw each other he told me a list of things i needed to work on, he blamed me for everything. It was awful and the worst thing is, my friends are still very good friends with him.
I understand this as none of them know what happened or what he was like, but its just awful for me. If we meet up/have parties he'll be there, I'll know that they are talking to him as if nothing happened, I know that he might be doing the same to some of them.
It makes me stick that I havent done anything sooner. But my question is, what should I do? Should I tell my friends about what he did to me? Or is that cruel? If I do tell them, how? Do I tell them all at once?
I just don't know what to do.
I understand this as none of them know what happened or what he was like, but its just awful for me. If we meet up/have parties he'll be there, I'll know that they are talking to him as if nothing happened, I know that he might be doing the same to some of them.
It makes me stick that I havent done anything sooner. But my question is, what should I do? Should I tell my friends about what he did to me? Or is that cruel? If I do tell them, how? Do I tell them all at once?
I just don't know what to do.