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joey23
December 6th, 2014, 07:54 PM
So on Monday at school Im gonna ask a girl out. I just want to know a few things before I do it. How do I approach her, and what do I say? What do I do and say if she says yes? What if she says no? Thank you. Please respond in detail

Luminous
December 6th, 2014, 07:59 PM
Make it short and sweet. The most important part is confidence! Don't stutter or beat around the bush, that's unattractive. Maybe, "Hey, do you want to go ___ sometime?" Naturally, people are attracted to confidence. How often do you see really shy, withdrawn kids insanely popular? Yeah I thought so. So play that! Even if you're nervous, make it seem like you're not. She'll want to know that cool, collected, confident guy. Good luck!

queenofcontrariety
December 6th, 2014, 08:00 PM
Well its hard to reply in detail if you've given people zero details about the situation you're in. I mean I'd like to think you've considered this for a while and are actually friends with her. Try to get her kind of alone, give her some kind of compliment and them ask. If she says yes, give her a hug and continue talking,if she says no just say alrighty I'm sorry, and leave her be for a couple weeks. I mean I really know nothing about your situation so I can't give you any better help than this

maniamsmart
December 7th, 2014, 03:04 PM
Well its hard to reply in detail if you've given people zero details about the situation you're in. I mean I'd like to think you've considered this for a while and are actually friends with her. Try to get her kind of alone, give her some kind of compliment and them ask. If she says yes, give her a hug and continue talking,if she says no just say alrighty I'm sorry, and leave her be for a couple weeks. I mean I really know nothing about your situation so I can't give you any better help than this

This. As I say to a lot of the people on here when I am giving advice, we can't really give you a detailed and accurate response to best help you and fit your situation if we really don't have much background information. Otherwise it's kind of just general advice that isn't very personal, you can tell to anyone, and you can just google and you'll get the same answers.

I think the neat thing about this site, is that you can personalize your questions, make them meaningful and get real help that can best fit your situation. So yeah... I do agree with the two above posts, but more detail would really help so that we can also give you more detail in our answers :)