More help.

[ABW17]

before reading this, if you haven't seen my previous post, view it now by clicking here. (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=218402)


So I have decided to give her the letter, But I don't know how. Like do I walk up to her and be like "here"? I can't like leave it somewhere because I am only in 1 class with here and on the bus and too many people would be watching.


Suggestions?

[KansasNavy]

I read your other post, and to be honest I really don't agree with giving her a letter, even if you are an incompetent communicator.

Here's why:
So let's operate on the premise that you've given her the letter in some way that is undisclosed, and she has then admitted openly to liking you romantically and wanting to date you. Fantastic so far right? So then let's say that you've messaged her on Facebook or texted her on your phone, and have arranged a date for such-and-such time at this place. Going great so far. So you go to the place and meet up with her. She says you look great. You say "askldjf."
Why? Because you said it yourself, you're can't communicate effectively.

How can you circumvent this? Actually talk to her. Simply ask an innocent question like "do you want to go study at the library later?" so you can simply get her alone. Then when both of you are alone, just come out and say it. Be calm, and even if you do jumble your words a bit, it's OK! You're human! You're allowed to make mistakes, have a foot in your mouth, and be nervous! It's what makes you human and not a robot! Girls don't want to date a robot! Quite literally, the foundation that a relationship is built on is COMMUNICATION.

So quit all this note nonsense, and just tell her. It's extremely difficult to muster up the courage and you're scared, I know. But it will work out better in the long run, trust me.

[maniamsmart]

KansasNavy stated the advice I would have given you in the other thread, and I do agree with it, don't get me wrong. It will be better for you personally and for her if you do tell her in person alone somewhere.

But, none of us can force you to be something that you can't be, have a hard time being, or don't want to be. All we can do is advise you to do what we feel is the right thing to do. Now if you think you can manage to pull off what KansasNavy said, then do it, but if you can't then your only option left is doing the letter, or else don't do anything, but what good is that?

As for you giving her the letter, just go up to her and give it to her, and say that you wrote this for her and ask her if she could please read it. She will most likely read it, even if she hates you, the human mind strives for information especially if it's about themselves.

[ABW17]

KansasNavy, I would do what you said, however I tried and failed miserably. As soon as I was near her, my heart just started pounding and I chickened out (she didn't even notice me.)

[SethfromMI]

well if it did not work in person and you are intent in giving it to her, try to find out what locker she has or something like that

[maniamsmart]

well if it did not work in person and you are intent in giving it to her, try to find out what locker she has or something like that

Good idea :)