Need advice

[johnf1998]

Hey,
I've been dating my girlfriend for close to three months now and all that we've done is kiss. Not even making out, just kissing. I want to move to some other stuff, and it's getting really hard to avoid thinking about other girls and to not watch porn. Is there a good way to talk to my gf about this? I'm 15 and a guy, I don't mean have sex but maybe move to oral or something. I want to be a good boyfriend but its hard when I want more than she does.

Any advice would be cool, thanks

[maniamsmart]

It's hard to give advice to these type of questions because none of us really know what type of girl your girlfriend is. Maybe she just isn't into that type of stuff yet at the age she is. If she is around the same age as you, 14, 15, and she is a good girlfriend with good morals and was raised the right way then I don't think she'd be into that type of stuff just yet. Most people at this age don't see relationships as so serious as you may be taking it. Most girls at this age just want a boyfriend because they want someone to love them.

I think that you should talk to her more about what she thinks about the relationship you have with her? Maybe try talking to her about some of her past relationships? Maybe try talking to her about how she feels about relationships and sexual activity? The key in relationships is communication, and that's what will give you the answers to a lot of your questions and will help you get to know the person more. So I think talking to her about some of these things will give you some more insight.

Without more details about your relationship or about her, it's hard to give an accurate and reliable answer.