Does it make u as bad ?

[Lifesreject]

When a person cheats on you all you really think about is them who did it. But doesnt it take two to tango? What about the person they cheated on you with? Does t make them as bad as who cheated on you if they knew that s/he had a b/gf. people always say they get angry at there partners who cheat but nenver about who they cheated with.

My x bf cheaed on me with a friend. me and the friend had only recentli started hanging out but had developed quite a good friendship. When i learned that he had cheated on me with her i was so upset with him but i alos blockerd her out. I let her explain wheat had happened but im no longer firends with her. it makes me wonder if i should have reacted differently with her. If i should have been harder on her or just left her alone.

[Gumleaf]

well i think that if you get involved with someone knowing they are cheating on someone it does make you as bad as the other person, because you are knowingly hurting someone. the only exception is if you don't know that they are cheating on someone to be with you. then you can't be blamed at all.

[steven]

ok cat... you know whats happened with me... i am pissed of wiv jeni... but i am seriously struggling not to hit roper... only thing thats stopping me is jeni saying that he will get his best matee (charlie) and his brother (shane) and all o his mates after me... she has told me that around 13/14 people will come after me if i do, i dont really care about that... but then a few friends have told me that its not worth it... in my eyes it is... im getting my own back on roper... but they wont let me...

so for me... i got more hate towards the person who jeni did it with... although it still hurts when i think about it... and it has made me a shit load more paranoid about losing her...

Steve