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coll9502
December 4th, 2014, 08:16 PM
Is it ok to do things like grab her butt and stuff like that if she doesn't want to have sex until she's married

project_icarus
December 4th, 2014, 08:41 PM
Probably not. But it's up to you to find out (ask) what she's comfortable with.

SethfromMI
December 4th, 2014, 08:45 PM
you kind of have to ask her how she feels about it

Karkat
December 4th, 2014, 08:57 PM
Like others have said, you have to ask her. She may not want to, because it might be too big of a temptation.

maniamsmart
December 5th, 2014, 04:07 AM
Communication is key. And if you don't like to communicate then try it, and see how she reacts. But if you don't like to communicate then your relationship will most likely fail. Communication is key in relationships, so start with that.

Melodic
December 5th, 2014, 04:29 AM
I think you would need to have her consent on anything along those lines.

Semi_IronMan
December 5th, 2014, 10:16 AM
That's sexual harrasment. If she doesn't want to do it, I don't advice u to carry on with the butt grabbing, u might just lose her

fairmaiden
December 5th, 2014, 10:29 AM
Um, probably not. Ask her first before you attempt anything. Even some non-abstinent girls don't like having their butts grabbed alot.

Horatio Nelson
December 5th, 2014, 11:01 AM
Um, probably not. Ask her first before you attempt anything. Even some non-abstinent girls don't like having their butts grabbed alot.

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That is not a very respectful thing to do especially if it's in public.

Saint of Sinners
December 6th, 2014, 11:47 AM
Ask before doing anything is usually good practice.