My dad is a hoe

[villager64]

I want to confront my dad on how he broke up with his fiancé and she still comes over and they have sex. I also found that he is apart of multiple no-strings-attached sex sites. I feel I no nothing about him. Please help.

[Karkat]

Erm, he's an adult. It's his life.

[Miserabilia]

I understand that may be a shock, but as long as it's not directly bothering you it shouldn't be a problem right?

[dirtyboxer55]

you should be following suit like your old man and chasing the poon

[Cognizant]

I mean, you could tell him it makes you uncomfortable, but it's not like he's cheating on his ex-fiance. I don't see anything morally wrong with what he's doing.

[Melodic]

I've had friends who've had fathers who cheated on like ten women and piles of women would move in their house every week. At least yours is honest and chooses to do no-strings attached.

[TroyH]

If you're close enough to him maybe just talk to him about it, but I wouldn't go in with the goal of "confronting" him. Having that attitude might turn things into an argument which is probably isn't desirable.

[SethfromMI]

you can talk with him, but unless it is greatly effecting you it is his life

[Second Chance]

I want to confront my dad on how he broke up with his fiancé and she still comes over and they have sex. I also found that he is apart of multiple no-strings-attached sex sites. I feel I no nothing about him. Please help.

It's the worst feeling in the world knowing that a parent is not as perfect as they seem or act the way they want you to be. It is truly frustrating when the parent acts like the teenager and the teenager has to be the adult as it seems it is in your case.

I know that there are going to be people out there who are not going to make a big deal about open relationships and having fuck buddies. Everything depends on how you were raised and what your family has taught you about sexuality and what to do and what not to do with your body. Assuming you are from a more conservative background in which you are being discouraged from having sex before you're an adult and not to have sex with random people, then you are just going to have to realize what your father is doing is not right for you. Sadly, you can't change your father, but you can definitely control yourself and decide what is the best way for you to live your life. Especially if your father is having sex when you're around and you're not comfortable hearing that, then you should go to someplace where you are not exposed to such things.

Far be it for me to impose any morality here, but strictly from a health perspective, it is really dangerous to have sex with random people especially hook-ups from the internet. You just do not know who has what kind of diseases out there, and internet hookups are really scary because people can hide all sorts of things including AIDS. When you're ready to have sex, then make sure the person is clean and is monogomous because if the person is sleeping around or if you are sleeping around, then you just don't know what you're exposed to.


As for your father, you just have to accept him as being an imperfect person who is probably not acting as responsible as you would like. You have the choice to be like him or to take another path. At this stage, you can only control yourself because your father has chosen on how he wants to live his life.

[omgwuut]

he has commit a lot of mistakes in his life. he's already an adult so it means he knew what it right and what is wrong . but that doesn't change the fact that he's your dad no matter what.

[CosmicNoodle]

Erm, he's an adult. It's his life.

Exactly, keep your nose out of it.

[Semi_IronMan]

It's his life

[Horatio Nelson]

Erm, he's an adult. It's his life.

Agreed.

As much as it bothers you, you really have no right to tell your dad how to live his life.