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ZzeWatermelon
December 3rd, 2014, 10:57 AM
I texted my friend and asked him out. He said that he can't because he doesn't have time (and that was an excuse because he often goes out with a guy friend).
He's the type that really wants to look cool to anyone, show of, act stupid even if it attracts attention. It is mainly because of his new friend, let's call him X, that is not a good influence on him.
His rejection basically meant that he wasn't into me.
But I'm starting to doubt that, and I'm getting quite confused.
I don't particularly like him, I only think that he's cute, but I'm not THAT interested. His character is too childish, although he's turning 16 in February. He's quite racist and makes stupid jokes too.
First of all he's always nice to me, he smiles, he laughs (but that's common of him). He gave me a nickname (and then his friend - X that I mentioned before started calling me that as well). He didn't give a nickname to anyone else. He even reminded me that HE gave me the nickname. It does mean something... no?
I notice him staring quite often in class, he makes quite a bit of eye contact. He stares for long periods of time, and gets quite embarrassed when I catch him staring (smiles stupidly and makes up a stupid excuse) or just looks away (and I think he blushes too, but his face is quite red ... haha). He thinks that I can't notice when he looks at me, but I CAN. Mouhahahaha.
He doesn't brush against me too much but when it feels more natural for him to bump into me (like it was completely ''accidental'' than he does). We were walking all together - with him and X. He gave me a tap/kinda pushed me. He already did something weird: practically laid on my back when I was looking at something on the desk.
He doesn't do that to anyone else.
Lots of things happened but it's especially for the staring part. He shows ALL the signs, why didn't he accept my offer?
P.S: I asked him twice. He said yes the first time and cancelled (but I asked him in real life). It was a no on Internet :P (Internet messes up things hahaa)

So, what's the meaning? He's as confusing as hell.
Rock your answer! :metal:

Bull
December 3rd, 2014, 12:29 PM
He is a player. Move on to someone who really appreciates you. Just pay him no more attention than you do any other friend. See what happens. Let your VT family know how it goes, we care.

ZzeWatermelon
December 3rd, 2014, 01:07 PM
Thanks for answering. That is what I thought: that he was a player. Does it mean that he flirts with everyone to boost his ego up?

SethfromMI
December 3rd, 2014, 08:45 PM
He is a player. Move on to someone who really appreciates you. Just pay him no more attention than you do any other friend. See what happens. Let your VT family know how it goes, we care.

this. don't bother wasting your time on him. if you do think you may want to see where it goes though, be honest with how you feel about the way he acts, maybe he needs some people to help see the light X is not a good influence on him

maniamsmart
December 3rd, 2014, 11:19 PM
Thanks for answering. That is what I thought: that he was a player. Does it mean that he flirts with everyone to boost his ego up?

All those signs are of a player, or of someone who just wants to be liked by girls and be made the center of attention. He isn't interested in you the same way that you are interested him. You'll find someone that is a lot better for you and actually appreciates you more.

Semi_IronMan
December 4th, 2014, 08:09 AM
I Agree with everyone he does sound like a player