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Txfri1350
December 3rd, 2014, 01:19 AM
So is it normal to compare dick sizes with ur older bro? I'm 15 and he's 16, we aren't really close anymore. Would that just make it awkward? Anyone got any advice or things that they've done with their brother or friend? How did it happen? He never talks about girls or anything... It kinda makes me wonder. But I'm not gay so... :confused:
Catholic Guy
December 3rd, 2014, 08:28 AM
I've compared with friends before, I knew the guy was a bit gay and I trusted him so I asked to compare, if you aren't close with him then it's probably not the best idea, don't want to make things anymore awkward, I'm not close to my brother and I would hate to see him naked or anything, if you want to then perhaps you could 'accidentally' drop your towel in front of him or get caught wanking or naked, just so he walks in and sees you or you could try to catch him, good luck :)
ImCoolBeans
December 3rd, 2014, 10:16 AM
Eh... I wouldn't with a brother. It could make things awkward and that's somebody who will be around forever. Better not to take a chance of hindering the relationship IMO. It's pretty common for teens to compare (friends), if you and your friends are both willing then I don't see why not, but be aware that it could make the friendship awkward/could go badly. For that reason I would never with one of my brothers, not to mention that the thought of that is also just disgusting.
Bull
December 3rd, 2014, 10:51 AM
My brother is my best friend, he is 16 I am 17, we share a room and a bathroom so we see each other naked every day. The kind of relationship one has with his brother makes the determination. If you are not close I would say let it go unless it happens naturally, like in a changing room or something like that. If you don't share a room or bathroom you don't have much of an opportunity. Oh, btw, just because he doesn't talk about girls doesn't mean anything. So get on with YOUR life and let him lead his life. And, sorry you are not close. Work on building a positive relationship with him.
SevenRhye
December 3rd, 2014, 11:32 AM
I have also a bedroom with brother but we don't even talk about any girls or something, where is dick size... so I woud do it, if I trust him, that he won't say a word to anybody
Remora
December 3rd, 2014, 03:19 PM
My brother is a lot older than I am and he's the only person in my family that i know i can't mess with. I'm not proud of him being my brother because he drinks a lot and brings noisy friends home (resulting in the neighbors being angry at our family as a whole), so i'm not quite sure if i would ever dare to ask him something that personal, or actually, ask him anything at all.
We just avoid each other and he occasionally "hits" me for fun, but that's it.
Ultimately asking him a favor like that won't end well.
Michael75
December 3rd, 2014, 04:36 PM
Yeah I've compared with my friend - and jacked with him -But i don't think i'd talk to my sister about anything like that, because she'd take it weirdly.
Hardcatch
December 3rd, 2014, 04:58 PM
I share a room with my brother can't really say we compare. We just see each other naked all the time just notice. Were just use to it.
Uranus
December 3rd, 2014, 05:04 PM
Ummm, I'd say it would be a little bit weird. I mean he is your brother. But it's not something I would do if I had a brother around my age. But I mean you can if you want. It's just not something I would be interested in doing...especially with a sibling
Jaseblader
December 3rd, 2014, 05:07 PM
So is it normal to compare dick sizes with ur older bro? I'm 15 and he's 16, we aren't really close anymore. Would that just make it awkward? Anyone got any advice or things that they've done with their brother or friend? How did it happen? He never talks about girls or anything... It kinda makes me wonder. But I'm not gay so... :confused:
in your case it would be very awkward because your relationship isn't that great and he might think you are gay if you ask
Nayef.al
December 3rd, 2014, 06:15 PM
I have older brother and younger brother sometimes we se each other naked by accident but we not compare or have sexual discussion at all
pjones
December 3rd, 2014, 06:52 PM
share a room with my brother. we both sleep naked and wake up hard, so know what each other looks like
nklarke
December 3rd, 2014, 07:56 PM
My brother is my best friend, he is 16 I am 17, we share a room and a bathroom so we see each other naked every day. The kind of relationship one has with his brother makes the determination. If you are not close I would say let it go unless it happens naturally, like in a changing room or something like that. If you don't share a room or bathroom you don't have much of an opportunity. Oh, btw, just because he doesn't talk about girls doesn't mean anything. So get on with YOUR life and let him lead his life. And, sorry you are not close. Work on building a positive relationship with him.
What he said.
Silentslayer13
December 3rd, 2014, 08:06 PM
My brother is my best friend, he is 16 I am 17, we share a room and a bathroom so we see each other naked every day. The kind of relationship one has with his brother makes the determination. If you are not close I would say let it go unless it happens naturally, like in a changing room or something like that. If you don't share a room or bathroom you don't have much of an opportunity. Oh, btw, just because he doesn't talk about girls doesn't mean anything. So get on with YOUR life and let him lead his life. And, sorry you are not close. Work on building a positive relationship with him.
Well said man, well said
football matt
December 3rd, 2014, 08:16 PM
I've compared with my older bro. He is the one that taught me about jerking off. As long as your both ok with it it's not a big deal.
countryboi9
December 3rd, 2014, 08:16 PM
sure its normal to compare dick sizes with your brother, me and my brother did it all the time
SethfromMI
December 3rd, 2014, 08:23 PM
it is not abnormal because a lot of brothers do it but i don't know. if your not close to him, might be better to just leave it alone. you will probably get a chance one day when your in the same room changing or whatever, but I would not recommend going out of the way to make it happen
Semi_IronMan
December 4th, 2014, 07:12 AM
I've only compared with friends. I don't think that just because he doesn't talk about girls he's gay. He might just not want to talk about them with you
Meh Guy
December 6th, 2014, 05:46 PM
Well, normal for comparing, yes. But with your brother, I mean I wouldn't do it but if that's all you're doing I guess it's okay. Just because inter family things are usually frowned upon and kinda weird at the best of times. But hey, if it works for you, all the power to you.
HSJock206
December 6th, 2014, 08:24 PM
I dont really compare with my brothers but we do see each other nude all the time changing and showering for school and stuff at home. Its not like we stand next to each other and measure or anything. Its just something that happens.
mychalo
December 13th, 2014, 06:24 PM
I dont really compare with my brothers but we do see each other nude all the time changing and showering for school and stuff at home. Its not like we stand next to each other and measure or anything. Its just something that happens.
Me and my brothers are the same. We are naked in front of each but don't make a point of comparing
hockeyfan
December 13th, 2014, 09:34 PM
Since the two of u are not close I would advise against it.
Crona
December 14th, 2014, 02:54 AM
depends on your relationship with him. if your comfortable enough to do it and you think he is too, then go for it
Zachary G
December 14th, 2014, 08:37 AM
My brother is my best friend, he is 16 I am 17, we share a room and a bathroom so we see each other naked every day. The kind of relationship one has with his brother makes the determination. If you are not close I would say let it go unless it happens naturally, like in a changing room or something like that. If you don't share a room or bathroom you don't have much of an opportunity. Oh, btw, just because he doesn't talk about girls doesn't mean anything. So get on with YOUR life and let him lead his life. And, sorry you are not close. Work on building a positive relationship with him.
I dont have a brother, but this is the best advice i have read so far, so I would go with it and get on with your life.
JerseyGuy
January 15th, 2015, 06:09 PM
It's fine and it's normal. My bro and I have compared and it's no big deal.
rguevara12
January 23rd, 2015, 04:34 PM
I saw my brothers once and he saw mine, it wasn't really that awkward but we don't talk about it.
Frank from Jersey
January 24th, 2015, 07:07 AM
My brothers and I have seen each other a lot, and we will say something or compare. At the gym I've seen my dad and I'm sure he looked, so it's normal.
Leon03
January 24th, 2015, 08:11 AM
I compared to my older brother when I was younger because it was fun to talk about stuff to him.
Now I realize my younger brother is eager to compare and talk to me the same way :)
Frank from Jersey
January 24th, 2015, 10:22 AM
It's all part of growing up
Wyatt 13
January 24th, 2015, 10:23 AM
I don't think is right doing that stuff with bros.
Frank from Jersey
January 24th, 2015, 12:03 PM
wyatt I respect you. I do think it happens alot more than people will admit though.
Country Cowboy
January 24th, 2015, 05:14 PM
I share a room with my younger bro and I make it a point that he not see me naked. Not that I have anything to hide but I don't want him to see what puberty is. He's still really innocent because he's only 9. When he's older though, i might show him, but probably not
Seth Green
January 24th, 2015, 05:43 PM
Personally I would never compare with my brother, I would find it weird, but that's just me.
Dami
January 25th, 2015, 01:08 PM
i've compared with cousin before... usually the small one except with younger cousin
NickC
February 4th, 2015, 12:03 AM
I have compared dicks with my friends and my older bro (im 16 years old and he is 18 years old) before. Me and my friends and my bro, we are all extremely open about nudity, so we dont hide our dicks from eachother at all lol. We all walk around nude and stuff.
built chris
February 4th, 2015, 01:49 PM
Me and my brother are very close so we have compared. He has asked me questions bout sex and stuff and we always talk openly.
alphus
February 4th, 2015, 08:46 PM
I don't have a brother but I probably wouldn't compare unless you were super close, which you've said you aren't. So maybe if you have a really close friend try that?
randyboy
February 4th, 2015, 09:09 PM
it is not abnormal because a lot of brothers do it but i don't know. if your not close to him, might be better to just leave it alone. you will probably get a chance one day when your in the same room changing or whatever, but I would not recommend going out of the way to make it happen
Totally agree build on a relationship remember he could give you a kidney if you ever needed one:cool:
Good luck on the relationship alll about giving and taking including personal space doing your own thing and the coming back together as brothers, dinner time breakfast etc.
Josh75
February 22nd, 2015, 02:02 PM
So is it normal to compare dick sizes with ur older bro? I'm 15 and he's 16, we aren't really close anymore. Would that just make it awkward? Anyone got any advice or things that they've done with their brother or friend? How did it happen? He never talks about girls or anything... It kinda makes me wonder. But I'm not gay so... :confused:
I'm a little confused. You said you two aren't really close anymore. So how does comparing dick sizes even come up? Did you two used to compare? Are you wanting to compare with him or is he wanting to? I'm not clear on the situation.
It's not at all uncommon for brothers relatively close in age to compare or even do more. Same with cousins. I have no judgment on it, to me the idea is kind of a turn-on. But just the same, it happens a lot with brothers & cousins.
herokidd
February 22nd, 2015, 04:04 PM
I share a room and bathroom with my bros so seeing each other flaccid is normal and I think if you have the same relationship it's fine to compare flaccids. But, I think boners are another story. I've never seen my brothers with boners nor do I want to
WengMan3397
February 23rd, 2015, 11:27 PM
My brother and I were pretty open with one another, but there was an age difference. So I had some questions and he answered them. It wouldn't have been a fair comparison really lol He was already grown and I was a boy haha
redjar14
February 24th, 2015, 12:38 AM
Did cupboard have a close relationship with my brothers but I wish I could. I hadn't compared with anyone. Wish I could doe
NoahKeen
February 24th, 2015, 07:50 AM
Me and my older brother are very close. He taught me about wanking. We have seen each other naked a lot of times and have seen each others dicks. His is huge (he's 18) and he's very hairy. I asked him one day (i was 14) if he could tell me about it all, i was very nervous but he was very open. He taught me how to wank by showing me and I joined in. We both cummed in front of each other and admittedly we have given each other blow jobs...ONCE...but we are very close to each other and i am always able to talk.
Having an older brother is amazing, i don't know if i could ever live without him.
bskaoalncnfjd
February 24th, 2015, 09:13 AM
I've compared with both of my older bros, lol they were amazed how big i was.
nish.dexter
February 24th, 2015, 09:28 AM
Is it very common for brothers to jerk off together?
WeathermanSam1
February 24th, 2015, 06:49 PM
Well said man, well said
very well said
megatime
April 28th, 2015, 05:15 PM
Yeah me and my bro had to share a room for a month or so last year and when we went on holiday we shared a room.We saw each other nude all the time..showering..changing..we walked round nude with boners sometimes.
Dreamer98
April 28th, 2015, 05:19 PM
I have identical twin brother , and we masturbate together ordinarily . I don't see problem in that , I mean , comparing or jerking off together , it's quite usual among brothers . :D
teenpeck52
April 28th, 2015, 10:08 PM
I have done it with my friends, but would never do it with my brother
colesixteen
April 29th, 2015, 02:18 PM
I masturbate with my brother, so obviously we have seen the size of each other's penises, and I think it is no big deal. It's not like we are competing or anything.
jacshamy
April 29th, 2015, 08:10 PM
I never did with my big brother. I have with my little brother a couple times. Mostly it's because we talk about everything together so we talk about sex sometimes. And I have a with two of my friends.
Coleton
May 26th, 2015, 07:09 PM
It's not super common but if you share a room/bathroom with your brother than it's not uncommon. If you aren't close with your brother then I wouldn't compare with him as that may make your relationship awkward. If you and your brother are close then go ahead and ask him!
Bluebyrd
May 26th, 2015, 07:12 PM
There's nothing wrong with it but I personally wouldn't do it as I think it would be quite awkward with a relative. I've heard a lot of people on here do it so if you're both okay with it then go for it grasshopper!
Georgysmith
May 27th, 2015, 08:34 AM
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the darkness
May 27th, 2015, 08:37 AM
If I had a brother I would ;)
Snydergate
May 27th, 2015, 01:20 PM
Its not an abnormal thing, but it really depends on what kind of relationship you have with him. Personally I would never be caught dead naked or anything of the sort around my brother, I don't share things with him nor ask him about things. So it would be extremely odd for me
Jaffe
May 27th, 2015, 06:31 PM
I think its normal to want to compare sizes with your brother. I've never really "compared" or asked either of mine. But I have seen them both naked, so I could kind of compare.
Thomas01
May 27th, 2015, 11:05 PM
It depends on how comfortable you think you and your brother will be
My brother and I don't have a good relationship, so i wouldn't. But I don't see a problem with brothers doing it. It's just curiosity and as long as you two are both comfortable, why not?
Gopher
June 2nd, 2015, 07:49 PM
Me and my brother did it plenty of times among other things, its totally cool.
fast8
June 2nd, 2015, 08:12 PM
Its normal for guys wanting to compare aslong u comfortable with it
Airrd
June 2nd, 2015, 10:25 PM
I don't have a brother so I can't say i did but it depends on the age I guess and whatever you are comfortable with like it's not a big deal
Jdog5513
June 2nd, 2015, 11:17 PM
Me and my brother did it plenty of times among other things, its totally cool.
What other things have you guys done?
Gopher
June 3rd, 2015, 09:35 PM
What other things have you guys done?
PM me mate.
mcloete
June 9th, 2015, 02:14 AM
I think it is normal!
Hey_123
June 10th, 2015, 10:00 PM
It's only weird if you or him make it weird.
Zerg
August 26th, 2015, 03:27 PM
Nothing wrong with experimenting
steven_boi15
August 26th, 2015, 03:33 PM
It seems normal to me. As long as both u and ur bro are comfortable with it, then it's normal.:)
So is it normal to compare dick sizes with ur older bro? I'm 15 and he's 16, we aren't really close anymore. Would that just make it awkward? Anyone got any advice or things that they've done with their brother or friend? How did it happen? He never talks about girls or anything... It kinda makes me wonder. But I'm not gay so... :confused:
JavierDolan
August 27th, 2015, 04:03 AM
I say if you're both fine with, and you both feel like it would be okay, there should be no problem doing it. Have fun? or something..
PaleBoy
August 27th, 2015, 04:59 PM
I donīt think there would be anything wrong with it. I have compared with a friend of mine, but you just need the right situation/relationship with that person to propose it.
hairy balls
August 28th, 2015, 03:29 AM
yea we have compared
Sports Boy
August 28th, 2015, 11:06 AM
I've shared a room with my younger brother (by 2 years) forever. While we don't actively compare, there is nothing we don't know about the other.
niklas
August 28th, 2015, 05:18 PM
I share a room with my younger step-brother, he's a year younger than me. We've compared and stuff, and it hasn't gotten awkward so that's good.
JavierDolan
August 30th, 2015, 11:32 PM
I'm pretty sure it's okay just as long as you're both comfortable doing it. I've been doing it with my 13 year old brother for about a year now. and we're both fine with it.
Colton8
September 4th, 2015, 06:03 AM
Just ask him to compare
sam99
September 4th, 2015, 08:27 PM
i'd just ask him the questions you are wondering then ask him at he very end. if he says no it isn't like he won't talk to you anymore
JustinG
September 4th, 2015, 08:33 PM
My brother is my best friend, he is 16 I am 17, we share a room and a bathroom so we see each other naked every day. The kind of relationship one has with his brother makes the determination. If you are not close I would say let it go unless it happens naturally, like in a changing room or something like that. If you don't share a room or bathroom you don't have much of an opportunity. Oh, btw, just because he doesn't talk about girls doesn't mean anything. So get on with YOUR life and let him lead his life. And, sorry you are not close. Work on building a positive relationship with him.
I def agree with Billy ! Something like that can either bring you closer or drive a deep wedge. Naturally, it's prob gunna be fine. But I wouldnt push it unless it came up in conversation. (no pun intended)
I share a room and bathroom with my bros so seeing each other flaccid is normal and I think if you have the same relationship it's fine to compare flaccids. But, I think boners are another story. I've never seen my brothers with boners nor do I want to
I think if I saw my bro with a boner, I wouldn't be able to control my own and would get one too. In that case if you didn;t openly compare, it would be difficult not to look !
lliam
September 4th, 2015, 10:33 PM
So is it normal to compare dick sizes with ur older bro?
That depends on who compares with whom for whatever reason and such. So ask him if he does it or ask yourself if it's just you.
karl1999
September 11th, 2015, 10:16 PM
my brother is 2 years older and we have never actually compared but he bigger in length and my dick is thicker
niklas
September 18th, 2015, 11:29 AM
It's normal as long as you feel comfortable doing it, I've done it with friends and brother. Don't do it if you don't want to, but it's cool if you do.
Just JT
September 18th, 2015, 02:04 PM
If you not close might seem kinda awkward, I don't have a brother, but have compared with friends, and they have brothers, and we did all together sometimes, but I don't think it's weird if you do.
If you ask, it might seem weird because your not close from what you say
Emerald Dream
September 18th, 2015, 02:06 PM
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