I think im bi but dont want a gay relationship

[mcdaniels]

I Love gay guys.. only gays my age or younger tho, really turns me on when i see half naked or more. But i can only imagine myself sexually with them, not emotionally.... like all i would like from a guy is sex but all i focus on is relationships with girls.. any help??

[SethfromMI]

lol well I guess you have to ask yourself what you want out of life. do you want a relationship?if so you are going to have to learn to love guys emotionally or just focus on girls . a girl is not just going to want to be with you only emotionally while you have sex with other guys

[mcdaniels]

lol well I guess you have to ask yourself what you want out of life. do you want a relationship?if so you are going to have to learn to love guys emotionally or just focus on girls . a girl is not just going to want to be with you only emotionally while you have sex with other guys


Well like i would also like a sexual relationship with a girl too... maybe i just want to see what sexual relationship with a boy is like. Like i want kids and all that you know :P

[SethfromMI]

Well like i would also like a sexual relationship with a girl too... maybe i just want to see what sexual relationship with a boy is like. Like i want kids and all that you know :P

lol I get ya. If you want to do experimenting that is up to you (I am bi after all) but you just have to make sure the person you experiment with understands it is just for the sex

[mcdaniels]

lol I get ya. If you want to do experimenting that is up to you (I am bi after all) but you just have to make sure the person you experiment with understands it is just for the sex


yeah me and a friend jacked off together before but nothing else.. wouldve liked to go furthur but thats all :)

[SethfromMI]

lol I totally understand, although I have went all the guys with guys before

[hockeyfan]

R u sexually attracted to girls as well? If so then I think girls r for u. If not u probably want guys more. U could b going through a stage. It's also possible that u don't feel an emotional connection because u never have.

[Silentslayer13]

It's fine! Just means you're curious! Experiment, fool around, the. Decde if you really could see yourself falling (emotionaly) for a guy.

[Cognizant]

It's possible to be bisexual but heteroromantic (meaning you only fall in love with girls).

I'm in a somewhat similar situation to you - I think I'm bisexual, but I think I'm homoromantic (only fall in love with guys).

[Meh Guy]

That's not entirely abnormal. There are straight people who can't see themselves in a relationship with girls/guys. So if it works for you, find someone else who is like you, and have at it. Or, maybe down the road you'll change you're mind and that's okay too :) whatever floats your boat.

[joelthezombie15]

I used to be like this. The older you get and the more you accept your orientation the more you realize you will grow into it.

[Saint of Sinners]

Don't worry too much about labels. Just be yourself, it's perfectly ok if your sexuality is different

[Zachary G]

its not an uncommon thing for bisexuals to feel this way. they are emotionally charged more by one sex, while physically attracted to the other. there is nothing wrong with wanting to have an emotional relationship with a girl, but keep in mind she is going to want more than just your emotions at some point, while having a purely sexual relationship with a guy -- being that he is okay with the arrangement. the decision is yours to make, only you really know what it is you want. good luck

[Lost in the Echo]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

Anything to do with sexual orientation is best suited there.

[Pablo]

I'm kind of in the same boat you are. I feel only sexually attracted to guys, but feel an emotional connection with girls. After experimenting with guys, I still continue to feel the same.

[Babs]

There are kind of more complicated terms for that. If you're attracted to guys sexually, but girls romantically, then you're homosexual-heteromantic, or if you're also sexually attracted to girl then you're bisexual-heteromantic. Whether to call yourself bisexual or straight is up to you.

[Karkat]

Now see, a lot of people seem to assume that when you're bisexual, you have to "pick a side"

Erm, polyamory exists. That, and people do not always stay in monogamous married arrangements their entire life. That isn't to say bisexual people can't be in perfectly happy monogamous relationships, but you're also not limited to them. Nothing is stopping you from having sex with men before you get into a serious relationship with a woman.

I mean, it's not so cut and dry, but it's a lot less like Sophie's Choice than people make it out to be.