Why Why Why

[SuperVictor]

Oh why oh why do the girls go for the mean guys, and not nice guys like me. I go out of my way to be nice, yet they just scoff at me, and dont want to come near me or touch me. Yet they love the guys who treat them bad. Pls help :what: Some say its becsuse of the locker incident which i posted about earlier, but idk

[TroyH]

Every girl has their reasons for such things... all us nice guys feel the same way at times. But good things do come to those that wait. You're still young and as the mean guys take up the girls, they good ones will be left for you :)

[KansasNavy]

I'm going to be completely honest: most girls in middle and high school are attention-seeking, popularity-seeking, and rude. However it's just a phase, and they will pass through it and realize in time that the rude guys are no longer attractive.

Just wait brother.

[Elysium]

I'm going to be completely honest: most girls in middle and high school are attention-seeking, popularity-seeking, and rude. However it's just a phase, and they will pass through it and realize in time that the rude guys are no longer attractive.

Just wait brother.
Guys aren't exactly prizes either, let me tell you.

They can't help who they are or aren't attracted to. The harder you try, the less attractive you'll seem; you need to be confident in yourself and confident that you, on your own, are worthy of having a relationship. Work on yourself before you can consider having a relationship.

Also, don't put down other people. Other guys aren't "mean guys"; you just sound like you have your head up your ass, which I'm sure you don't. That's good that you go out of your way to be nice, but do that for yourself and for the sake of being nice, not for the sake of attracting girls.

[Thatcooldude]

Guys aren't exactly prizes either, let me tell you.

They can't help who they are or aren't attracted to. The harder you try, the less attractive you'll seem; you need to be confident in yourself and confident that you, on your own, are worthy of having a relationship. Work on yourself before you can consider having a relationship.

Also, don't put down other people. Other guys aren't "mean guys"; you just sound like you have your head up your ass, which I'm sure you don't. That's good that you go out of your way to be nice, but do that for yourself and for the sake of being nice, not for the sake of attracting girls.

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[SethfromMI]

I am a nice guy and I have a girl friend

[YuushaLoto]

Depends on what you mean by "nice".
A lot of guys are "nice" to the point that they appear needy and insecure, and that tends to be a major turnoff to girls.
Instead, make sure you have a rich life and don't crave girls too much first of all, and show some laidback signs of sexual interest without making it a big deal.

Simply giving a quick flirty, "cheeky" and kind smile to a girl you make eye contact with can have a powerful effect, and make her curious about you.
This kind of smile could look something like "haha, hey there, babe :) ;)".

Basically, be kind in a relaxed and confident way, and have a slightly more intimate and romantic attitude to them when you talk to them (deep eye contact, soft smile, physical contact etc).

[KansasNavy]

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I completely understand that concept. I'm in no way saying high school guys are by any means, nice.