Shower.

[SevenRhye]

Hi guys...

So, let me introduce myself, so you could more understand my problem.

I'm from Slovenia (not Slovakia xD), 14 years old and next year I'm going to high school (it's different school system than other countries). And I'm kinda scared to shower after P.E. because I never showed anyone my penis and I'm little bit shy... And i never saw penis from anyone else before. So I don't know if they'll be joking that I have small penis (right now it's 12-13 cm) or I'm scared if I'll get an erection... Pls help me...

Sorry for mistakes (if they are anywhere)

SevenRhye

[mcdaniels]

Youll be fine :) i shower after gym and its no biggy... youll be suprised, there will be different penis lengths and no one will make fun of you... and if they do say 'why were you looking down there then ?' :)

[SevenRhye]

I hope so... That's also because I get erection really fast. And when I go to shower after soccer training, we always shower with boxers, because some are saying, that if we are having shower naked, we are gays... kinda funny. But I remember that one one saw my penis and said, that I have really short one... So I dont' know

[mcdaniels]

I hope so... That's also because I get erection really fast. And when I go to shower after soccer training, we always shower with boxers, because some are saying, that if we are having shower naked, we are gays... kinda funny. But I remember that one one saw my penis and said, that I have really short one... So I dont' know


i recently started having a shower with my friend (i put up a thread if you want to see the replies in there) i also get semi boners and full ones but i kinda turn away from him... dont mind what size, its what you do with it that counts and people probably wont acknowledge you :)

[seanrome]

link to thread? :)

[Hideous]

Who cares about what they think. Just shower, don't pay attention to anyone and get out. That would be my advice, and try not to be so hard on yourself just because you might think you have a small penis.

[TroyH]

Just go for it and forget about the fact that you're naked. Just get in, do your usual shower business and get out quickly. Eventually you'll be more comfortable with it and it won't be a problem. And I know a few people with really really small penises and when anyone would say anything to them they would just be proud of what they have. You aren't even that small so be proud!

[SethfromMI]

you will get use to it pretty quickly. everyone else will be naked too. some will be bigger, some smaller, some about your size. you may get one or two dumb people making jokes, but turn it around on them and make them look stupid. sometimes you may get an erection it is not uncommon and happens to a lot of guys

you will be fine man, don't worry about it

[kissban]

Hi :)

[Jaseblader]

Hi guys...

So, let me introduce myself, so you could more understand my problem.

I'm from Slovenia (not Slovakia xD), 14 years old and next year I'm going to high school (it's different school system than other countries). And I'm kinda scared to shower after P.E. because I never showed anyone my penis and I'm little bit shy... And i never saw penis from anyone else before. So I don't know if they'll be joking that I have small penis (right now it's 12-13 cm) or I'm scared if I'll get an erection... Pls help me...

Sorry for mistakes (if they are anywhere)

SevenRhye

I would say don't shower or just don't care

[DavidNorton]

It's going to be all ok. I was just like you and if they say anything just ignore them. They are probably just insecure. And everyone gets boners at one point.

[fast8]

Most of them will just get in and out not look around the ones that look usually won't say anything because they don't want others to know they look

[Dortmund]

I used to be worried when I had to shower with people but it's something you get used to. People in general aren't that bothered and even if they are looking it's highly unlikely they'll say something.
I mean, it's gonna sound a lot of worse if someone admits they were staring at your penis in the shower.

[pjones]

after doing it a few times you should be OK. a lot of boys are very nervous about showering with other boys. some may look but i don't think they will say anything.
good luck

[GeneralZoadka]

Just don't worry about it, I have showed with other guys plenty of times through HS, one of the main causes of getting hard while Showering is nervousness, as humans we cant control EVERYTHING our body wants to do :P

[hockeyfan]

I think everyone's nervous the first time. You will be fine.

U heard Anze Kopitar?

[Silentslayer13]

Don't sweat it! Worst comes to worst and they make fun about you just say "Why are you looking at my dick!? Didn't think you'd bend that way!" That'll shut 'em up

[pconnor2001]

You will be fine. We all change and shower naked together after p.e class every day. Nobody says anything. Sometimes we all pop wood, it happens and no big deal.

[aussiepride]

Everyone's nervous the first time, and if really dont want to shower with them no one can make u

[Michael75]

You'll be grand! I'm sure your other classmates are just as anxious as you. Don't sweat it.

[Meh Guy]

You've got to be the billionth teen to be worried about this and honestly, there is gonna be people in that shower who are worrying the same thing. So you're all pretty much on the same level. So I wouldn't worry about people calling you gay or what not, just don't look around if you get one, that way it will look just random. Plus I doubt other "straight" guys will be looking at your penis unless they're a little curious as well ;)

[eggs2006]

When I showered in pe, I was too nervous to get a boner. I would have liked to at least get a semi boner so that it would be bigger. If I had ever got a boner, I would have said, "I was thinking of what the girls shower room must look like right now. "

[Johnking1996]

You will be fine, the people you will be showering with will all be your age, they will all be worried and it will be their first time too, you will all soon get used to it. Nobody will make fun of you because they dont want be be made fun of back! Enjoy high school! :)

[Curious.]

All will go fine any close friends you can stay near/share your concern?

[Zachary G]

you arent going to be the only one who is going to be shy about it and you arent going to be the only one who is worried about their size, so just go in take your shower and get dressed -- dont stress about any of it because you will not be the only one with those concerns.

[cbm89031]

You'll be fine..... My school district does have us shower after pe

[SonOfAnarchy]

Be confident

[Matey]

Hey, I'm also from Slovenia. So SevenRhye, I just finished high school, and we never showered after P.E. ;) But I wanted to shower with others once in a life and I didn't get a chance, so probably you won't shower together eather. Don't worry. ;)

[davidsp]

it's weird at first. some dudes are shy. i was a little bit. but i've done it at the YMCA where I swim and stuff. it's really not that big a deal. just go in, shower quick, and then you can wrap a towel around you. Try not to think about stuff that will give you a boner. No body will tease you about your size or anything cos they won't want to admit they were looking. But they might if they notice that you have a boner. At least that's what I think. I've never really seen much teasing.

[hudson19]

You are definitely in the average range! anyway everyone in there is gonna have a dick and probably be just as nervous haha so don't even think about it. Just get in and get clean and get out. Might be awkward at first but you get used to it!

[Jordanchance1]

I think you will be so nervous it will be impossible to get a. Erection

[guy1233]

shower in boxers

[Arsenalfan123]

Well I'm from UK so this doesn't happen, but if you don't want to shower then dont

[Jack-Han]

Jee thats bad! in my school in England people either just keep their boxers on or just shower in their Gym/PE shorts. If you don't wanna shower naked just keep shorts or boxers on and if anyone says anything bad about it, then just say to them to focus on showering themselves instead of looking at me - or along those sort of lines I guess :P

[Noody]

I used to struggle with this issue a huge amount myself at the beginning of this year. I'm not comfortable with being naked in changing rooms across the country :p

I wrote a pretty big guide with a ton of tips and my findings from the last year included, I've got some really nice reviews about it so I hope it will help. http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=215532

Good luck, it will be fine! :-)

[Pulp501]

Everyone at my school was nervous the first time, but then after the first time, we all realized it wasn't a big deal. People keep to themselves, just don't look at them, get in and get out. Everyone else is going to do the same thing. Also, I always got erections easily, but was always able to control myself and never saw anyone else with a boner.

[mychalo]

I have 4 brothers and we share a bathroom so being seen naked is not a problem for me. A lot of times we jump in with each other to save time.

[NickC]

Hi guys...

So, let me introduce myself, so you could more understand my problem.

I'm from Slovenia (not Slovakia xD), 14 years old and next year I'm going to high school (it's different school system than other countries). And I'm kinda scared to shower after P.E. because I never showed anyone my penis and I'm little bit shy... And i never saw penis from anyone else before. So I don't know if they'll be joking that I have small penis (right now it's 12-13 cm) or I'm scared if I'll get an erection... Pls help me...

Sorry for mistakes (if they are anywhere)

SevenRhye

You will be fine dude. I shower after gym sometimes. Here is how it usually is in the United States (at least, this is how it is at my public high school): you go into the locker room, and you go to whichever locker you want to go to (that is, if you guys are not assigned lockers) (and word of advice, do not separate yourself from the "group" if you know what i mean. Always go to a locker that is near or next to the lockers of a lot of other guys. Because if you go to a locker that is farther away from them, then that usually means that your nervous and you are also painting a huge target on your back. If you separate yourself from the main group, then kids will start picking on you, messing around with you, take your clothes, come up behind you and pull your underwear down or pull your towel from around your waist and expose your dick to the rest of the guys. But if you are with the group and if you get naked with them and act like everything is normal, then there is a very less likely chance that they will do anything or pick on you.), and then what you do is you open up your locker and you start undressing yourself and put your clothes in your locker (if you are showering after gym class, then i recommend that you bring some soap and your own towel from home, and also make sure you also bring a lock to lock your locker with from home too because you do not want other guys going through your stuff. And also, bring some deodorant from home too.) and anything else that you brought from home. Then, the moment of truth haha, you take off your underwear and you put your underwear in the locker (after you take off your underwear, dont try to cover your penis up with a towel or your hands. Just leave your penis alone and just let everyone see your penis. There is no reason to cover yourself up in the locker room. In the locker room, there will be tons of guys walking around fully nude with nothing covering their penises up. Guys view it as this, "we all have penises, so why try to hide our penises from other guys?".), now when you are fully nude, then that means you can just start walking around the locker room while fully nude, so like just go use the rest room (again, dont even bother trying to cover or touch your penis when you go to pee, just let your penis hang and just start peeing in the toilet or a urinal). And then, go back to your locker and go get dressed for gym class (now, idk if your school is going to give you like a school gym uniform, but if they dont, then just bring some athletic shorts and a tshirt from home to wear during gym class. And as far as underwear goes, either wear a jockstrap and a protective cup, or some athletic underwear, or briefs, or boxer briefs. Do not wear just boxers because then when you run, your penis will flow around and it will be very visable to other people). And then just go to gym. After gym class, come back to your locker and get fully naked again, then put all your gym clothes in your locker and grap your towel and head to the shower area, and then just turn on the water (again, dont separate yourself from the rest of the guys, just go to a shower that is right next to a bunch of guys and just start showering next to them like it is not a big deal) and start washing your whole body (oh, and btw, it is ok to look at other guys' penises in the locker room, just do not stare for too long because then you are just going to start a fight.), then turn the water off, dry yourself off, and start walking back to your locker (at this point, after you shower, you can put a towel around your waist to cover yourself up, but most guys do not do that, most guys just walk back with nothing covering their penises still), and then you just get dressed in your normal clothes and underwear, and you put your gym clothes and towel and gym underwear and soap inside your locker and then you just lock your locker up, and then you just leave the locker room. And, also, dont worry about getting hard. Since it is your first time getting nude in front of other guys, then chances are that you will get hard the first few times. But dont worry about it, some guys will make fun of you a little bit, but they will soon also get hard because it is like a brain response where they see you get hard and their brains are like "hey, that guys penis is hard, that means that i should make my penis hard", and their brain will send a signal to their penis and their penises will also start to get hard. Just do not be embarrassed, act normal, you are all guys and you all have penises, just do not cover your penis up and just act normal, just act like you have been nude in the locker room with other guys before haha. Hope this helps :cool: