View Full Version : Tired and Guilty
Txfri1350
December 2nd, 2014, 03:07 AM
What the title is.... But anyways does anyone else get tired and feel guilty after jacking off and cuming? or is it just me?
ComfortableInChaos
December 2nd, 2014, 04:22 AM
I get tired after I cum sometimes but I don't ever feel guilty. Maybe it's because I've been doing it since I was 13 and I'm almost 17, but I've never felt guilty. A lot of guys do feel guilt, though.
Hermes
December 2nd, 2014, 05:28 AM
Certainly I feel very relaxed after cumming and, if the other circumstances are right, that can be good for going to sleep.
It's also normal to loose your horniness after cumming (until it gradually builds up again) and that can leave you with a kind of "why did I just do that?" feeling. Whether that translates to guilt depends on how your were brought up to feel about sex in general and masturbation in particular. Either way that will probably fade as you continue to do it.
kay_jay
December 2nd, 2014, 06:20 AM
Yeah it also happens to me. Its because when you ejaculate there is a hormone that is produced that makes you feel sleepy or tired.
Semi_IronMan
December 2nd, 2014, 09:05 AM
I don't get tired... I get relaxed. As for the guilt thing... I seldom feel that way
Uranus
December 2nd, 2014, 10:25 AM
I do get tired sometimes after ejac, which is normal.
As for feeling guilty??? No I don't
Bull
December 2nd, 2014, 10:34 AM
Masturbating makes me very relaxed and mellow, but not really "tired". As for guilt, I have never felt any guilt, just euphoria. Guess that has a lot to do with how a person is reared and how accepting they are of the teaching of their church.
mcdaniels
December 2nd, 2014, 10:57 AM
I always feel guilty after... i dont know wheteher its because i jack off to gay porn or that im kinda religious.. what do u think.. how can i make it stop :L
SethfromMI
December 2nd, 2014, 02:42 PM
i don't get super tired. some people do get guilty (religious reasons or whatever) it is not abnormal to be feeling either of those.
Quin
December 2nd, 2014, 04:10 PM
I do it at night so I get tired but the guilty thing yes and I don't think it has anything to do with my religion but it could
DavidNorton
December 2nd, 2014, 06:15 PM
I come from a very religious family so at first I felt guilt but now I'm over that. Now it just makes me sleepy so it helps when I can't sleep.
Jaseblader
December 2nd, 2014, 06:19 PM
What the title is.... But anyways does anyone else get tired and feel guilty after jacking off and cuming? or is it just me?
Certainly I feel very relaxed after cumming and, if the other circumstances are right, that can be good for going to sleep.
It's also normal to loose your horniness after cumming (until it gradually builds up again) and that can leave you with a kind of "why did I just do that?" feeling. Whether that translates to guilt depends on how your were brought up to feel about sex in general and masturbation in particular. Either way that will probably fade as you continue to do it.
I agree and when I masturbatedII used to feel tired and guilty
hockeyfan
December 2nd, 2014, 08:03 PM
I used to. U still get tired. Just remind urself that most other ppl do. U'll feel better
Silentslayer13
December 2nd, 2014, 08:13 PM
I used too, but not anymore. Tired is natural! We weren't made to be breeding like rabbits! To stop the guilt, you just need to personaly rationalize and justify what you're doing (in your mind)
TalenD
December 3rd, 2014, 07:55 PM
I get tired all the time after masturbating. It sometimes even helps me sleep. I sometimes might feel guilty after watching porn though. Other than that it seems normal to feel tired and stuff.
wfms
December 6th, 2014, 04:45 PM
I get tired all the time after masturbating. It sometimes even helps me sleep. I sometimes might feel guilty after watching porn though. Other than that it seems normal to feel tired and stuff.
Same here. I some time even make deals to myself to not watch porn. but never do i make it.:metal:
Meh Guy
December 6th, 2014, 05:19 PM
Haha yeah. Happens to me all the time.
GoGoDiego
December 9th, 2014, 02:39 AM
I sometimes feel guilt nowadays like when I used to feel it two years ago.
SonOfAnarchy
December 9th, 2014, 02:49 PM
I get tired after cumming but also get euphoric and as for feeling gulity ive never felt guilty after masturbating and I dont understand why anyone would feel guilty after but people are diffrent your fine
Nayef.al
December 9th, 2014, 05:23 PM
Yes i get tiered and when i start to masturbate i feel guilty but now not any more
green white
December 10th, 2014, 04:57 PM
Yeah, i always tired and guilt after JO. I think it's normally. And feel guilt is signal from GOD (I think) to stop JO
mattjh-
December 14th, 2014, 03:22 AM
Sometimes I would get tired after a long wanking session. I only got that guilty feeling in the first year when I started wanking. Then i got used to it.
Zachary G
December 14th, 2014, 08:33 AM
Yeah, I mostly get that tired feeling after I have an extremely intense orgasm, it just wipes me out. And the guilt feeling, I get that most times too, idk know where it comes from, but it settles in on my pretty good and I get over it just as quick.
ChrisA1998
December 21st, 2014, 05:36 PM
What the title is.... But anyways does anyone else get tired and feel guilty after jacking off and cuming? or is it just me?
you should feel guilty only if you think you did something bad
if you jack off onb your own, you're not causing any harm to anyone, so no reason to feel guilty ;-)
There is no bad doing yourself some good :D
Baseball1999
December 23rd, 2014, 12:48 AM
I feel the exact same way after ejaculating.
dpguy99
December 23rd, 2014, 12:53 AM
I almost always feel tired, never guilty. Most of the time, I fall right asleep after jerking off...
Owen727
December 23rd, 2014, 01:30 PM
i maybe felt guilty the first few times i did it, but not now. even though i am pretty religious i don't think it goes against God or anything, and its better than letting it all build up
i am a little tired afterward, but sometimes it helps to wake me up in the morning too :)
davidsp
December 23rd, 2014, 01:47 PM
I don't really feel tired afterwards. Maybe relaxed is a better word. I sometimes do feel guilty. Dad told me to try my best to only do it a few times a week. I guess I have a pretty wide definition of what a few is but sometimes I feel bad that I'm not doing what dad asked me to do. Like Owen we are pretty religious too and mom and dad talked to me about lust and 'sins of the flesh' and so sometimes cos of that I feel guilty that I want to do it so much.
Owen, wish I could wake up like that. ;) but with getting changed and my two brothers around I have to let my morning boner go down without a helping hand from me. lol.
Sam-9876
December 29th, 2014, 05:50 AM
If I'm in bed then the tired / relaxed feeling afterwards helps me go to sleep.
Sometimes I feel a bit odd afterwards - not guilty, but kinda "un sexy" if that makes sense? Erotic thoughts I'd had whilst masturbating lose their appeal.
Fdmember
February 2nd, 2015, 06:46 PM
Happens occasionally
Andy1998
February 2nd, 2015, 08:21 PM
it happens to me sometimes. would think it happens to most guys sometimes.
Ktothep
February 2nd, 2015, 08:27 PM
I don't ever feel tired, just satisfied, haha. I used to feel guilty after, but that feeling goes away. It's nothing to be ashamed of, everyone does it, its natural.
mattsmith48
February 2nd, 2015, 11:30 PM
tired yes
guilty no
sdude
February 3rd, 2015, 08:26 AM
Yeah, definitely can get sleepy, which is good or we'd never stop having sex...the guilt thing went away early for me, my cousin explained how that works and that he felt it too....but never stopped him or anyone he knows!!lol...the more you realize that everyone does it, the less you will feel guilty...but the tired or sleepy thing stays with you....just natural!! Your body just did an amazing thing! you deserve a rest!
Guitarguy9
February 3rd, 2015, 03:04 PM
No apologies and no guilt here.
NickC
February 3rd, 2015, 09:26 PM
Its normal. Idk why it happens lol
yatesy66
February 3rd, 2015, 09:30 PM
Tired yes
Guilty no
boytoynamedtroy
February 9th, 2015, 04:10 AM
What the title is.... But anyways does anyone else get tired and feel guilty after jacking off and cuming? or is it just me?
I used to feel really guilty when I masturbate, because I was raised Catholic, so I felt like I broke God's heart. But now, IDC anymore. It's fun, and fun is never bad for as long as you're not hurting anyone. But I still get tired though. I mean, masturbating is just like cardio.
Snydergate
February 9th, 2015, 12:01 PM
I did when I was younger, but I lack any guilt now. I have somehow been granted the ability to not feel any guilt for much of anything I do, whether it is good or bad
Josh75
February 22nd, 2015, 10:43 AM
I get relaxed. I've never felt guilty after jacking or sex.
Andy0308
February 26th, 2015, 09:54 AM
I felt guilty when I was young idk why lol but not anymore
Hercules
February 26th, 2015, 07:15 PM
I always feel guilty after I masterbate. My Christian faith tells me it is wrong, so I'm trying to stop now.
redjar14
February 26th, 2015, 08:45 PM
Yes it's normal. But just think of happy things
JVTeen
February 27th, 2015, 07:39 AM
dude i feel somewhat guilty haha
Failed Algebra
February 27th, 2015, 12:13 PM
tired or relaxed is normal and a biochemical reaction to ejaculating. That's why you don't feel horny right afterwards, although minutes before you might have been wildly horny. I don't feel guilty - that seems more like a personal thing to me - but i do sometimes think "OK , I am not gonna JO again for a while".
CRH99
March 7th, 2015, 11:43 PM
tired, sure, but not guilty. its a biological necessity, not quite a necessity, but close.
The captain
March 8th, 2015, 12:37 AM
well....tired sometimes so I prefer do it before sleep and guilty yep , sometimes happened me too
matt_tgr
March 8th, 2015, 01:13 AM
Idk, never experienced fatigue before, but definitely some sort of shame or guilt, every single time almost
Seth Green
March 8th, 2015, 01:03 PM
I use to get guilty after masturbating. Not so much anymore.
Pitsirikos
March 8th, 2015, 04:30 PM
I always feel relaxed and very pleased after jerking off and cuming. I don't feel guilty just a little weird sometimes if I have jerked off a lot during the day even if I had sex with my GF earlier the same day.
snowtrax
March 16th, 2015, 09:48 PM
I don't feel guilty but I usually cum then just lay there and start getting sleepy before I even clean up lol
ValentinClarke
March 17th, 2015, 01:10 PM
There are hormones which are secreted after orgasm, which are relaxing, and can make you sleepy. I don't get affected by these as much, because I've be j/oing for about 4 years. I do occasionally get the guilt feeling, but thats only once in a while.
VC
sdude
March 17th, 2015, 05:56 PM
I always feel guilty after... i dont know wheteher its because i jack off to gay porn or that im kinda religious.. what do u think.. how can i make it stop :L
Hopefully you can accept yourself the way God accepts everyone, we are not perfect and sexuality is something we have zero control about. God loves anyways....accept yourself, love that you can make yourself feel really good and someday make someone else you love feel that good...just chill and enjoy dude....
Baileyy
March 17th, 2015, 07:33 PM
Me too. :)
HououinKiyoma
March 18th, 2015, 07:54 AM
I do sometimes
Hicham azad
March 19th, 2015, 09:17 PM
I Do To Because Of My Religion And I feel That I M Wasting My Children HHH !!!
radiotoast
March 29th, 2015, 03:05 PM
I dont get tired just guilty
chiisaiaoiryu
March 31st, 2015, 05:37 AM
It's not just you. I'm sure it happens to a lot of guys.
The reason for that is that you're getting a lot of, for lack of a better word, "enjoyment" feelings when you masturbate. It's basically a sexual high. Once you've cummed, that high often takes a nosedive. If you're not used to the nosedive effect, then it's pretty easy to feel guilty over masturbating. Your body had quickly grown used to the feeling of enjoyment from the sexual high and is simply feeling the negative effects of it quickly going away.
Same thing with the tired feeling. The body is using a lot of mental and possibly physical energy to keep the sexual high. That and most senses such as tiredness tend to be dulled down when performing sexual acts. All of it is pretty normal; it just takes some time to get used to it. I know since I've once suffered from the same thing you are.
JVTeen
March 31st, 2015, 06:22 AM
I do actually and more on the religion thing, it makes me feel lustful idk
Grimfever
March 31st, 2015, 02:09 PM
I feel tirrd but not guilty
Mercy99
April 10th, 2015, 09:20 AM
i get tired sometimes, but never guilty
Buckeyefan11
April 17th, 2015, 09:30 PM
Eh not too much
EneasR
April 18th, 2015, 10:39 AM
When I was younger but now I don't have any problem
Olly
April 18th, 2015, 03:57 PM
You get tired because your body is losing a load of nutrients in each cumshot. The guilt thing is a different psychological issue you might want to look at
RavenR
April 19th, 2015, 03:35 AM
getting tired yes. but guilty, for what? never happened to me
jtbates
April 26th, 2015, 09:26 PM
I used to feel guilty about it when I was younger, but you'll get over it. I think you feel tired because you're relaxed.
teenpeck52
April 29th, 2015, 01:51 PM
I have never experienced this, but then again I am horny like 24/7...
euan35
May 2nd, 2015, 04:57 PM
Sometimes I do feel tired and guilty, but mostly tired.
steve3
May 2nd, 2015, 04:59 PM
Happens to me too, it's because you are not horny anymore
lambo420
May 2nd, 2015, 10:47 PM
When I was younger and would do it with a friend I got that guilt feeling only a few times but never solo & sometimes I get tired not always
Coleton
May 26th, 2015, 06:44 PM
I never feel guilty about jacking off and cumming! It's such a great feeling haha
Bluebyrd
May 26th, 2015, 06:46 PM
I sometimes feel tired but never guilty because I know that masturbating was what was right for me at the time.
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