I'm embarassed

[Awesomesauce]

All my friends at school have lost their virginity and I havent. I tell people I have to sound cool. When I ask the girls some of my friends have been with they say they have penises that are about as long as a pencil. I have a very small 4.9 inch penis. I want to loose my virginity I'm just embarassed. Is my size average for being 15 about to turn 16. Will I gorw more throughout puberty?

[basketball33]

First of all I don't really think you should be embarrassed about not losing your virginity but on the other hand I totally get it. And with your peniss size, It will grow different amounts for everyone but I'd assume that yours will grow more before your done with puberty, But your penis size shouldn't matter to the girl that your with if you really both love each other.

[TroyH]

You're not even 16 years old, don't worry about it! Plenty of people don't lose their virginity until they're 20 or older. And if you say you're lying maybe they are too, you never know! People always like to make themselves seem bigger and better especially at your age. Also about 5" isn't that small, the average size for fully grown adults is 5.5"-6" so you'll probably grow to be in that range maybe even more!

[mattjh-]

Don't worry man! Size does not matter in sex. It's about how you use it!
One of my friends lost his virginity a few months back. His dick is only about 5" long but the girl he did said he was amazing in bed.

[churris]

Some of your friends may be lying, just as you are, and some may be not. However the case, you shouldn't let their decisions to pressure yours, you don't have to have sex just because they are having sex, you start when you're ready, aware of the risk and how to prevent them (meaning STDs/pregnancy) and when you find somebody who you like, as well. 15 is okay, you're young, don't stress about it (I lost my virginity at 19, for example.)

About your penis size, girls normally don't care. Like, at all.

[hatsoff123]

I lost mine when I was 18 =) No biggie. I know a guy who is 19 years old and still a virgin =)

[biancachica]

Theres nothing embarrassing about still being a virgin especially at your age. Im 17 and a few of my friends havent lost it yet. And for your penis size I wouldnt worry about that. You re not even done puberty and girls dont care about penis size, and if they do they are not worth it. And plus youre not even small in my opinion, my first bf was about your size and he satisfied me even that sometimes it caused discomfort. Lastly girls are horrible for estimating penis size including me, and there is probably a bit of bragging in that too.

[saxmatic16]

It's not the size that matters too much but it does matter how you use it!

[kpeter]

I'm 15 as well, a few days to turn 16. Mine is 6" but there is no problem with your size. It will grow. And none of my friends at school have lost their virginity yet. :)

[SethfromMI]

you might grow more, but not having sex yet is nothing to be embarrassed about

[Karkat]

There's nothing embarrassing about that. I wasn't sexually active until I was 16, almost 17, and I'm just fine

[Jaseblader]

All my friends at school have lost their virginity and I havent. I tell people I have to sound cool. When I ask the girls some of my friends have been with they say they have penises that are about as long as a pencil. I have a very small 4.9 inch penis. I want to loose my virginity I'm just embarassed. Is my size average for being 15 about to turn 16. Will I gorw more throughout puberty?

First of all I don't really think you should be embarrassed about not losing your virginity but on the other hand I totally get it. And with your peniss size, It will grow different amounts for everyone but I'd assume that yours will grow more before your done with puberty, But your penis size shouldn't matter to the girl that your with if you really both love each other.

You're not even 16 years old, don't worry about it! Plenty of people don't lose their virginity until they're 20 or older. And if you say you're lying maybe they are too, you never know! People always like to make themselves seem bigger and better especially at your age. Also about 5" isn't that small, the average size for fully grown adults is 5.5"-6" so you'll probably grow to be in that range maybe even more!

Don't worry man! Size does not matter in sex. It's about how you use it!
One of my friends lost his virginity a few months back. His dick is only about 5" long but the girl he did said he was amazing in bed.

I totally agree With these people even if your friends have lost theirs the girls could've been overestimating due to it being their lack of pride in the size you'll grow as you get older

[suzzysmith2012]

Don't worry that you are still a virgin. Some people loose it at like 10 and some at 40. You only loose it once so wait for the girl to come along. If she loves you she won't really care how big you are and that.

[Zachary G]

if we based everything we did on what our friends have told us, we would all be in a world of trouble and really not know jack. dont be embarrassed about being a virgin in the midst of your friends, hold your head up high and dont be in such a rush to jump into something you may not even be ready for. wait for the right girl to come along and it will be even more special for you then. you are doing just fine.

[Saint of Sinners]

Don't worry about being a virgin, it's perfectly normal and it's nothing to be ashamed of:)

And honestly, at 15 you still will grow, and like many girls already said size isn't as important as you think.

[Bull]

I am a 17 yo virgin, and very proud of that fact. I plan to remain a virgin until I am in a totally committed relationship. It is not a religious thing with me, just a part of me that says intercourse is a serious matter and not to be done "just for fun". So do not be embarrassed, why would you? Losing one's virginity is a personal matter and no one's business but your own. It is not cool to brag about one's sexual conquests. It is cool to be a bit mysterious. Just my opinion.

[NeuroTiger]

There are lots of guys who are much older than you and still haven't lost their virginity.
Plus, you still have time to grow down there...

[Semi_IronMan]

U'll grow don't worry. And u don't have to be embarrassed that you're still a virgin

[benbeny]

don't worry, you'll lose it in an appropriate time.
anyway losing it is a big deal for you, you must always think about it very carefully.

[Meh Guy]

First off, don't believe what everyone says, especially teenagers, high school in particular. They'll say pretty much anything to sound cool and be with the "in" crowd. And most girls don't really worry too much about size, yours isn't small enough to cause any concern so don't worry too much. And the whole virginity thing, lose it when you feel ready. Don't give in to peer pressure.

[Michael75]

Yeah don't worry about it, you'll grow. up here where i am we dont loose are virginity to we're 17, at the school formal (prom for americans i think!). you're considered a bit trampy if you do it before hand, in the south its a different story apparently, your considered weird if you havent done it by your 14. but my cousin that told me this exaggerates alot lmao