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Cognizant
November 30th, 2014, 03:07 AM
When you reflect on your friends, do you notice that most of them are one gender, or is it pretty well mixed?

As sad as it sounds for me, pretty much all of my good friends (outside of the 'online' realm) are female. I used to have some good guy friends, but we've drifted a bit and we never hang out anymore.

James Dean
November 30th, 2014, 03:53 AM
Now that you mention it, it's kinda mixed as I'm trying to become more of an extroverted person so I open myself up to different levels of friends.

I mean when I'm with other guys who are straight and don't know I'm gay, I meet from my cousins or at school, we just usually go to a concert or a sports game. It's kinda impromptu like that, just hang at the skatepark after school and we barely know each others names.

I'm more close with my female or gay friends though. We usually go to the movies, spend some time at the mall. Maybe it's because they want our fashion advice or feel more comfortable with us. They don't want guys hitting on them so they get gay guys to be with them. I don't know.

Very nice that you have brought this up because I haven't really noticed it really. Based on genders of friends and how it reflects you as a person and what gender you are more comfortable being close with as far as friendships go.

phuckphace
November 30th, 2014, 04:03 AM
guys because masterrace.

well, chicks are okay too. but guys though.

Melodic
November 30th, 2014, 04:11 AM
I tend to have male friends..

ImCoolBeans
December 1st, 2014, 08:17 AM
I think it's about 50/50. I've always hangout with about the same amount of guys and girls.

Semi_IronMan
December 1st, 2014, 08:26 AM
About 60% of my closest friends are males and 40% of them are females

NeuroTiger
December 1st, 2014, 10:19 AM
Most are males

Plane And Simple
December 1st, 2014, 10:52 AM
Say over 80 percent are guys. I have some female friends but they're not too abundant to be honest. I'd like this changed though.

Horatio Nelson
December 1st, 2014, 10:56 AM
Only guy friends.

I have no female friends that I could hang out with. You know?

Hideous
December 1st, 2014, 12:53 PM
Mine are all female.

Zachary G
December 1st, 2014, 01:03 PM
the majority of my friends are all male, i dont have reall any girl friends at all. a change id like to make

Emerald Dream
December 1st, 2014, 01:06 PM
Most of my friends are female. A lot of the guys I know don't like the idea of just being friends with a girl, as much as I would actually like that.

Karkat
December 1st, 2014, 02:47 PM
You know, since prolly sophomore yearish, it's been 95% guys. It's like I can't even talk to girls anymore, which sucks.

Uranus
December 1st, 2014, 02:56 PM
It's around 50/50. But I tend to communicate with my male friends a little bit more.

Paladino
December 1st, 2014, 03:18 PM
Mostly male.

PoseidonX43
December 2nd, 2014, 12:09 AM
mostly i'm friends with females cause they seem to understand how i feel, cause i really act feminine irl. i feel like they can understand me more than males can.

kay_jay
December 2nd, 2014, 06:49 AM
In primary school most of my friends were female but now most of my friends are male.

Hudor
December 2nd, 2014, 09:25 AM
About five years ago, the ratio used to be 70% female friends and 30% male.
Whereas now it is more like 80-90% males and 10-20% females. I prefer male company now. Although unfortunately almost all my guy friends are straight :P

cbm89031
December 2nd, 2014, 11:49 AM
Mostly girls I have some guy friend also

TroyH
December 2nd, 2014, 02:25 PM
At school it is pretty much 100% guys. I was closer friends with 2 girls last year but this semester we have had conflicting schedules and have no really been able to remain that close :/ the reason why its so high though is because I am on sports teams at school so all of my friends are from the team or their roommates and what not.

At home there is 1 girl that always hangs out with my group of about 7-10 guy friends and 2-3 more that will be around sometimes. Pretty much the same deal, sports teams are the reason I have almost all of my friends.

Babs
December 2nd, 2014, 04:49 PM
Pretty mixed, actually.

Dortmund
December 2nd, 2014, 07:12 PM
The majority of my friends are male though I have plenty of female friends as well.

Abyssal Echo
December 2nd, 2014, 08:46 PM
I do have female friends. Most of my friends are male.

SethfromMI
December 2nd, 2014, 10:03 PM
I am closer to 50/50 so I chose that, but if I had to chose one or the other, I do have more guy friends probably

Malibu_Barbie
December 3rd, 2014, 01:12 AM
I have 1 guy friend for every 10 female friends...

Perfectly Flawed
December 3rd, 2014, 02:08 AM
In person most of my friends are female, about 70-80% of them. Friends who I know exclusively online are mostly male.

Babiole
December 3rd, 2014, 07:52 PM
My friends are about an even mix, though I'm more likely to hang out with my guy friends. Most of my female friends are tomboys.

Remey
December 3rd, 2014, 08:18 PM
Mostly guys

maniamsmart
December 3rd, 2014, 11:39 PM
I'd say I have 60% girls, 40% guys, but still pretty mixed.

Living For Love
December 11th, 2014, 12:46 PM
When I was in primary school I was friends with guys, mostly. As I grew up, I started to have less guy friends and more girl friends, to the point where I would just have female friends. Right now, I have some guy friends I like a lot, but the majority are still female.

Princess Ariel
December 11th, 2014, 02:27 PM
Currently, I have far more male friends than female friends, at least from college. We're a pretty tight knit group. I've got 15 male friends, and 3 female friends from college. Prolly more when I move into on campus residence next month.

Desuetude
December 11th, 2014, 02:48 PM
When i was younger I used to be friends with predominantly boys, then at about 9 it was just girls. Now my friends are mixed pretty well. I tend to prefer hanging out with guys because they're so much easier to get along with than girls and I can relate to them better (definitely more of a 'lad' than a girly girl) but I tend to befriend on personality/interests rather than gender.

maniamsmart
December 11th, 2014, 04:20 PM
When i was younger I used to be friends with predominantly boys, then at about 9 it was just girls. Now my friends are mixed pretty well. I tend to prefer hanging out with guys because they're so much easier to get along with than girls and I can relate to them better (definitely more of a 'lad' than a girly girl) but I tend to befriend on personality/interests rather than gender.

Funny how a lot of people have that same progressive change in friendships, including me.

Elysium
December 11th, 2014, 04:22 PM
Mostly female, but I do have a few male friends.

Ryhanna
December 11th, 2014, 05:22 PM
A large majority of my friends are female. I only have a couple of male friends, and none that I really see or talk to regularly.

I'd like more male friends, but I just don't know where to start. Guys and I just don't ever seem to form bonds, unfortunately. Ironic, given my signature. Maybe I need to make more milkshakes.

BDOG
December 11th, 2014, 10:00 PM
My closest friends are male, but the majority of them are female.

Croconaw
December 11th, 2014, 10:22 PM
Mine are mostly female.

aaroncool123
December 13th, 2014, 02:57 PM
Well there are more girls than boys and I'm not sure why :P
Also my bestest best friend is a girl :P

Pilyk
February 13th, 2015, 08:06 AM
Have nearly only female friends in real life...
And yes, I'd want to have a few close male friends, would be cool :)

Katie96xox
February 13th, 2015, 09:21 AM
predominantly female as is the same with most girls i know

matt_tgr
February 13th, 2015, 11:34 AM
I think it's about 70% blokes, and the rest girls. I guess it's pretty well mixed

Vermilion
February 13th, 2015, 11:38 AM
I mainly have male friends but I do have 2 or 3 close female friends that I would tell things I couldn't tell the guys

Luminous
February 13th, 2015, 11:56 AM
It's pretty even. At school I have mostly girl friends and online it's a mix.

fairmaiden
February 13th, 2015, 01:47 PM
online - mixed
irl - 60 percent boys 40 percent girls

Omniscient
February 14th, 2015, 08:03 PM
Most of mine are guys, I only have like one or two friends that are girls xD

Hollywood
February 14th, 2015, 08:43 PM
Throughout my life, I've had far more female friends than male friends. It's still that way today, all of my closest friends are females.

sheep_shagger_55
February 15th, 2015, 08:25 PM
i have no friends lol *cries*

cami
February 15th, 2015, 10:08 PM
Girls a bit more. But just a little bit. It's almost even.

Meh Guy
February 15th, 2015, 10:45 PM
Male for sure. I only have like 3 friends that are female

Abhorrence
February 16th, 2015, 11:37 AM
My group at school consists of around 13 people including me. Five are males (six including me) and the rest (7) are females. I generally get along better with females but I am also friends with a lot of dudes. So yeah.

Failed Algebra
February 16th, 2015, 03:34 PM
it's roughly 50-50 or maybe 60-40 in favor of guys. but in terms of close friends, then it's all guys.

Alph4Num3r1c
February 16th, 2015, 07:56 PM
Just guys.

davidsp
February 17th, 2015, 02:12 PM
mostly dudes but I have some friends that are girls too.

Unknwn
February 17th, 2015, 03:39 PM
I would say I have more male friends than female friends lol

The Faulted
February 18th, 2015, 11:40 PM
mainly females, except my best friends are male.