View Full Version : Huge change in sexuality
MercenaryMarksman
November 30th, 2014, 01:17 AM
Im 15 and Ive started to look at dicks now. It been very recent and I keep coming back even though I say to myself I don't care for them. Just today I had a boner due to looking at some hung guy and it felt pretty good. Girls still interest me and I haven't lost interest in them at all. Ive come to accept that I may be bi and I'm cool with that but its just weird. Is this sudden and large change in interests normal?
James Dean
November 30th, 2014, 01:37 AM
Yes it is. You cannot help what you are attracted to. If you happen to like guys as well, there is nothing wrong with that.
However, it is up to you as to how you deal with it. Don't do anything you're not comfortable doing and listen to yourself. Accept who you are. :)
slopestyle
November 30th, 2014, 02:25 AM
It's normal and perfectly fine, just because it happens to some of us and not all guys doesn't mean it's not normal. It might be something that you move on from, or maybe you'll continue to look at guys and be content with being bi. Either way you seem comfortable with how things are and that's what counts.
DeadEyes
November 30th, 2014, 05:28 AM
You just realized you are bisexual, nothing wrong with that.
LokaChris
November 30th, 2014, 08:44 AM
Could just be a phase
kay_jay
November 30th, 2014, 10:30 AM
It is normal, you just realized that you are also turned on by guys.
Wyatt 13
November 30th, 2014, 11:03 AM
I thinks is pretty normal dude
Jaseblader
November 30th, 2014, 08:11 PM
Im 15 and Ive started to look at dicks now. It been very recent and I keep coming back even though I say to myself I don't care for them. Just today I had a boner due to looking at some hung guy and it felt pretty good. Girls still interest me and I haven't lost interest in them at all. Ive come to accept that I may be bi and I'm cool with that but its just weird. Is this sudden and large change in interests normal?
I don't want to say it's normal but it's not weird btw your bi
ComfortableInChaos
December 2nd, 2014, 04:52 AM
Well, there are some things to ask yourself before labeling yourself as "bi." Could you see yourself dating another guy? Would you be able to have sex with another guy or would you find all the details of doing things with another dude freak you out? Do guys turn you on sexually and romantically? I would say to try going on a date with another guy and MAYBE do some experimenting before you say you're bi because you might not be into guys. I'm bi and I'm more into guys than girls, so I know what it's like to think "Maybe I'm into guys, too..." lol when you get your 100 posts, message me if you have more questions. Maybe I could help you to figure things out?
SethfromMI
December 2nd, 2014, 02:46 PM
Yes it is. You cannot help what you are attracted to. If you happen to like guys as well, there is nothing wrong with that.
However, it is up to you as to how you deal with it. Don't do anything you're not comfortable doing and listen to yourself. Accept who you are. :)
this :)
Uranus
December 2nd, 2014, 03:27 PM
It's not weird at all! Around your age alot of teens who are going through puberty, still go through these phases wondering what their sexuality is. Besides, being turned on by a "hung guy" is fine. You are probably bisexual, or bi curious. You may end up being straight. Either way it's fine, and you shouldn't need to be concerned or worried.
DavidNorton
December 2nd, 2014, 06:16 PM
It's pretty normal. I've gone through this same thing so if you need any advice, just PM me :)
BlackMBaron
December 2nd, 2014, 08:40 PM
You are just curious about the dick, that's fine! When you have further step with girls , you will confirm it!
Silentslayer13
December 2nd, 2014, 10:47 PM
It's not weird at all! Around your age alot of teens who are going through puberty, still go through these phases wondering what their sexuality is. Besides, being turned on by a "hung guy" is fine. You are probably bisexual, or bi curious. You may end up being straight. Either way it's fine, and you shouldn't need to be concerned or worried.
I agree 100%
MercenaryMarksman
December 3rd, 2014, 04:37 PM
After reading your posts I think I just like dicks lol. Girls are still very much a turn on and I don't like anal sex. I would blow a guy but never date one. Thanks for the support!
Michael75
December 3rd, 2014, 04:40 PM
Yeah i'm the same myself but i've calmed down a bit, so it must have been hormones. theres one friend I have and everytime he comes over we jack together, i've blown him and jacked him off, but that was it. dont think i'd do anal or date or anything.
GeneralZoadka
December 3rd, 2014, 07:23 PM
I had this issue as well, Its normal and took me awhile to accept that I was attracted to guys, just take your time and don't rush anything.
Emerald Dream
December 4th, 2014, 11:44 PM
The OP is banned. :locked:
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