Why do girls hate me for no reason?

[The_Superior_One]

Immerse yourselves in superiority. Every day I wake up to once again become the victim of my own never ending horror story. I am living in outer solitude and desolation because you girls aren't attracted to me. I don't know why you aren't attracted to me. I am gorgeous, sophisticated, an intellectual A* candidate, a grade 8 electric guitar virtuoso and innovative composer, the premium gentleman and yet instead of being attracted to me, girls are attracted to these invidious, unfilial reprobates, instead of me, the master of social etiquette. I am above the league of even supermodels. All you attractive girls OWE YOUR BEAUTY TO ME. For without me, you would have no reason to look beautiful. You would be as lost mice wandering around a pointless maze! I see these beautiful girls with their licentious persona and their cascading hair, walking with these hideous degenerates, instead of me. ITS AN ABSOLUTE INJUSTICE! You girls have NO REASON to reject me. One day, I was on the bus after performing a song that I had written. I was performing on guitar and vocals. Then two evil girls, who I recognised from the audience but didn't know, were there too. They then started pointing at me and laughing and whispering to each other. I was petrified. One of them then came up and said "hi." I knew she was coming up to antagonise me. I then swiftly got straight off the bus right before she could say anything more, shaken with sorrow. I then had to walk all the way home in the pouring rain and then went up to my room and cried all night. Those girls were very attractive too and I had no idea why they would torment me like this. I decide that I would punish girls for this by not writing any more songs about girls for at least 6 months. I just don't know why girls don't come up to me and talk to me. Why don't they give me a chance? I am 15 years old and have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I am absolutely spectacular, I don't deserve this. What could possibly be putting girls off of me?

[Luminous]

Please only reply to this thread if you have genuine, helpful advice. If you disagree with something that was said, leave it alone. This is not ROTW.

[Typhlosion]

Your... ego?

I was in a somewhat(?) similar situation at your age. I was a young teen filthy of academic arrogance. After my arrogance messed up my first (pratically guaranteed) attempt at a relationship, I slowly let go. And by letting go, I opened up to many more friendships and emotions that I had before. Probably the best thing that happened in life. To have real best friends. To go about careless about my destiny beyond the moment. Good times...

I hope you get my message.

[Melodic]

I will also note. Along with your ego, They could also be into someone else. You can't expect everybody to fall for you. Even celebrities don't have every girl or guy falling for them. But no worries, The right girl will come along eventually.

[Babs]

Um, your ego, and there's likely other reasons you're also painfully unaware of.
No matter how awesome you think you are, nobody is obligated to date you. If you cannot realize that, and if you still feel entitled to them, you don't deserve any sort of affection from women.
You're... so unaware... to put it lightly...
You are in no way entitled to women because you feel that you're superior to other men. That's a very childish outlook, and that can also be a reason why girls reject you.

[The_Superior_One]

Maybe it is something to do with living in the UK. The girls are all flawed here, they are attracted to the most asinine of species of chavs. They go for 6 ft degenerates who smoke and break the law and act like unruly animals. I reckon if I lived in the states, the girls would appreciate me there. Can some girl please explain why those girls on the bus were laughing and whispering at me? I was simply minding my own business. I go to an all boys school so I don't understand their wicked, abhorrent motives.

[Body odah Man]

Immerse yourselves in superiority. Every day I wake up to once again become the victim of my own never ending horror story. I am living in outer solitude in and desolation because you girls aren't attracted to me. I don't know why you aren't attracted to me. I am gorgeous, sophisticated, an intellectual A* candidate, a grade 8 electric guitar virtuoso and innovative composer, the premium gentleman and yet instead of being attracted to me, girls are attracted to these invidious, unfilial reprobates, instead of me, the master of social etiquette. I am above the league of even supermodels. All you attractive girls OWE YOUR BEAUTY TO ME. For without me, you would have no reason to look beautiful. You would be as lost mice wandering around a pointless maze! I see these beautiful girls with their licentious persona and their cascading hair, walking with these hideous degenerates, instead of me. ITS AN ABSOLUTE INJUSTICE! You girls have NO REASON to reject me. One day, I was on the bus after performing a song that I had written. I was performing on guitar and vocals. Then two evil girls, who I recognised from the audience but didn't know, were there too. They then started pointing at me and laughing and whispering to each other. I was petrified. One of them then came up and said "hi." I knew she was coming up to antagonise me. I then swiftly got straight off the bus right before she could say anything more, shaken with sorrow. I then had to walk all the way home in the pouring rain and then went up to my room and cried all night. Those girls were very attractive too and I had no idea why they would torment me like this. I decide that I would punish girls for this by not writing any more songs about girls for at least 6 months. I just don't know why girls don't come up to me and talk to me. Why don't they give me a chance? I am 15 years old and have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I am absolutely spectacular, I don't deserve this. What could possibly be putting girls off of me?

3 things.
Ur ego
The fact you feel you're superior to everyone
Ur arrogance

If you change those things and act humble from time to time I think you'll have far more luck with girls.

[Maiden]

wow... your view of yourself and other people iis just ditrubing

maybe it's time to take a good look in the mirror and realise you'r not what you think you are.
then again you seem to just be a troll

[Semi_IronMan]

Self praise sucks. Be less egotistic and self absorbed... I gurantee you, they'll come running

[Paladino]

If you think you are that perfect then there is your problem, girls like confidence, but over-confidence? No.

[Babs]

Maybe it is something to do with living in the UK. The girls are all flawed here, they are attracted to the most asinine of species of chavs. They go for 6 ft degenerates who smoke and break the law and act like unruly animals. I reckon if I lived in the states, the girls would appreciate me there. Can some girl please explain why those girls on the bus were laughing and whispering at me? I was simply minding my own business. I go to an all boys school so I don't understand their wicked, abhorrent motives.

It's not the girls, it's you.
Oh no, no girl wants to date you. Poor you.
You need to mature. You're ego is very off-putting. But I think you're a troll. Sit down, buddy.

[Paladino]

Tbh, if you're trolling then I think you should be banned for this post alone, if you really do think you are that perfect then maybe them girls were a wake up call, don't speak about yourself the whole time and how great you think you are, it is up to the girl to think if you are great or not.

[The_Superior_One]

Tbh, if you're trolling then I think you should be banned for this post alone, if you really do think you are that perfect then maybe them girls were a wake up call, don't speak about yourself the whole time and how great you think you are, it is up to the girl to think if you are great or not.

I did nothing to those girls. I was simply minding my own business. Hence why I was so perplexed. I was a mighty ox who was singled out by a pack of ravenous wolves. What do you mean it's up to the girl? If she is so asinine that she cannot even see how much of spectacular person I am, then she clearly has not earnt the right to choose who she goes out with. When I see other guitarists who can't even read music and perform songs that they didn't even write get embraced by girls whilst I write all my songs myself and don't get a fraction of that attention, it infuriates me. In fact I see indolent reprobates just simply play 3 chords and get attention from girls whilst I play complex jazz compositions that I created myself and are saturated with advance techniques like syncopation and don't even get noticed. I am also immensely versatile! I play in all sorts of genres too, from blues to funk to metal and even create unorthodox fusion genres which are innovative and original. Yet they choose the degenerate playing a four chord song over me! Don't tell me that is anything but totally injust. What makes him more worthy of a beautiful girls attention than me? And that's just the music side of things...

[Paladino]

You will find a girl one day, maybe just cut out the arrogance a bit okay?

[Semi_IronMan]

I did nothing to those girls. I was simply minding my own business. Hence why I was so perplexed. I was a mighty ox who was singled out by a pack of ravenous wolves. What do you mean it's up to the girl? If she is so asinine that she cannot even see how much of spectacular person I am, then she clearly has not earnt the right to choose who she goes out with. When I see other guitarists who can't even read music and perform songs that they didn't even write get embraced by girls whilst I write all my songs myself and don't get a fraction of that attention, it infuriates me. In fact I see indolent reprobates just simply play 3 chords and get attention from girls whilst I play complex jazz compositions that I created myself and are saturated with advance techniques like syncopation and don't even get noticed. I play in all sorts of genres too, from blues to funk to metal and even create unorthodox fusion genres which are innovative and original. Yet the choose the degenerate playing a four chord song over me! Don't tell me that is anything but totally injust. What makes him more worthy of a beautiful girls love than me? And that's just the music side of things...

you just carry on don't u? I think u really like attention and you're arrogant and egotistic. Even your username shows how arrogant u are. U don't deserve any bit of attention u recieve. Clean up your act 'cause right now u are digging your own grave

[Babs]

I'm absolutely positive this is a troll thread, but I've been watching it because it makes me laugh due to the absurdity.
I guarantee these people replying are being much more polite than they want to be. No point in it, though.

[lyhom]

http://i.giphy.com/qcHWSdYD0xqoM.gif

Seriously, this is hilarious. I just can't take a person who's username is "The_Superior_One" seriously with a thread like this. :P

[CharlieHorse]

http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/293/590/6f6.gif

I don't think this guy is posing a legitimate question. Perhaps he just wants people to be disgusted with his ideas... like attention

[Stronk Serb]

You need to approach them on their level, not above. They'll treat you better. What've you got agains us vandal law-breakers :O
In my case I'm just sick of the Serbian society so I say 'fuck your system, fuck your rules, we'll burn up all you fools!'. Also I get laughed at too. I sort of enjoy it because I get some kind of attention and making people laugh is fnny, within reason of course. Instead of being hurt by it, think why would a person of towering intellect be hurt by degenerate shenanigans.

[The_Superior_One]

You need to approach them on their level, not above. They'll treat you better. What've you got agains us vandal law-breakers :O
In my case I'm just sick of the Serbian society so I say 'fuck your system, fuck your rules, we'll burn up all you fools!'. Also I get laughed at too. I sort of enjoy it because I get some kind of attention and making people laugh is fnny, within reason of course. Instead of being hurt by it, think why would a person of towering intellect be hurt by degenerate shenanigans.

An interesting question! Why would such a spectacular person like me be hurt by such inferior reprobates?

Well picture this. You put yourself through drudgery and tribulation to win a competition. Despite all odds, you prevail. You win first place. The eminent trophy that you sought after, the trophy that testifies how spectacular you are, and then out of nowhere, some fatuous degenerate comes and steals that trophy as you reach out for it with zealous eyes. Like an opportunistic thief who is profoundly envious of how spectacular you are.

Well that's basically what is happening to me. I am hands down, worthy of ANY girl I see. Every pretty girl I see, I deserve. I EARNT THAT RIGHT! They should be immensely honoured that even look at them. THEY ARE MY PRIZED TROPHIES! So when these opprobrious, subnormal degenerates are able to get attention from attractive girls, they are STEALING from me. They are STEALING the PRIZED TROPHY that I am ENTITLED TO.

As for lowering my standards, well you just verified my point about girls being flawed in who they are attracted to. They trampled over a glorious diamond just to get to a cluster of dustbin. In your country however, girls seem more intelligent, more sophisticated and would probably appreciate someone like me.

[maniamsmart]

Well that's basically what is happening to me. I am hands down, worthy of ANY girl I see. Every pretty girl I see, I deserve. I EARNT THAT RIGHT! They should be immensely honoured that even look at them. THEY ARE MY PRIZED TROPHIES! So when these opprobrious, subnormal degenerates are able to get attention from attractive girls, they are STEALING from me. They are STEALING the PRIZED TROPHY that I am ENTITLED TO.

Ok, now that's just wrong and messed up. No one is a trophy. Be prepared for the hate posts from females.

[Stronk Serb]

An interesting question! Why would such a spectacular person like me be hurt by such inferior reprobates?

Well picture this. You put yourself through drudgery and tribulation to win a competition. Despite all odds, you prevail. You win first place. The eminent trophy that you sought after, the trophy that testifies how spectacular you are, and then out of nowhere, some fatuous degenerate comes and steals that trophy as you reach out for it with zealous eyes. Like an opportunistic thief who is profoundly envious of how spectacular you are.

Well that's basically what is happening to me. I am hands down, worthy of ANY girl I see. Every pretty girl I see, I deserve. I EARNT THAT RIGHT! They should be immensely honoured that even look at them. THEY ARE MY PRIZED TROPHIES! So when these opprobrious, subnormal degenerates are able to get attention from attractive girls, they are STEALING from me. They are STEALING the PRIZED TROPHY that I am ENTITLED TO.

As for lowering my standards, well you just verified my point about girls being flawed in who they are attracted to. They trampled over a glorious diamond just to get to a cluster of dustbin. In your country however, girls seem more intelligent, more sophisticated and would probably appreciate someone like me.

How to put it... They wouldn't. Not unless you shoot drugs, the majority I know at least. I admit there are some good girls here. Also, get to know some girls and don't say you're the best for them because you wouldn't be taken seriously. Also what you lack is the ability to socialise with girls. That's a thing you got to learn and master.

[Dortmund]

Girls like arrogance but only to a certain level. If you go about thinking you can have any girl you want chances are they aren't going to like you back. Girls aren't objects or 'trophies' to be won either. They're humans being just the same as you or I.

If a girl spoke to me the same way you're talking about women I wouldn't want anything to do with them either. People don't want an egotistical person who believes they're smarter and better than everyone.

I'm frankly unsure if your post is entirely serious or not. You might question why you can't get a girlfriend or why girls hate you but chances are it's down to you and your general attitude. If you're more calm, more nice, less possessive and frankly less arrogant you might get somewhere.

[The_Superior_One]

Ok, now that's just wrong and messed up. No one is a trophy. Be prepared for the hate posts from females.

It's nothing I am not used too.

The nightmare continues. I will be 16 in a few weeks time and I will still not of had the pleasure of even holding a girls hand. Its not just tht but I have been socially dejected. I have never been to a gathering, never been to a house party and I am constantly tormented by the sites of inferior reprobates being surrounded with girls. I long to bathe in that golden fountain of youth but the waterworks have been turned off before I could even place so much as a zealous finger in it. I am the ultimate reward a girl could receive and yet girls treat me like an animal, and when you treat someone like an animal, they eventually turn into one....

[Saint]

Why exactly are people taking this seriously? dude is delusional or has has issues with his ego,or most likely is a troll.

[Magenta]

And here we see a thread that has travelled to us from the Victorian era.



Or an online thesaurus.

[sunnieseason]

I think you need to understand how you come across to other people. What's your appearance like? Do you maintain good hygiene, are you in good shape, do you dress well? If you're like 500lbs, not saying you are, and you smell bad and you wear tee shirts that say fuck you, or you paint your face like a jugaloo, then people are going to be put off by you.

As for the arrogance, self confidence is great but being an asshole isn't. Maybe you should try some self reflection or just be honest and ask people how they perceive you.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

People generally don't like people who are full of themselves, if you want to even think about being ANYONE'S potential mate, I suggest you turn down the narcissism a little, take a seat and have a nice heaping slice of humble pie topped with some respect.

[maniamsmart]

I think you need to understand how you come across to other people. What's your appearance like? Do you maintain good hygiene, are you in good shape, do you dress well? If you're like 500lbs, not saying you are, and you smell bad and you wear tee shirts that say fuck you, or you paint your face like a jugaloo, then people are going to be put off by you.

As for the arrogance, self confidence is great but being an asshole isn't. Maybe you should try some self reflection or just be honest and ask people how they perceive you.

Well someone's been around hasn't she? I've never seen people paint there faces like a "jugaloo", or wearing those t-shirts :P

But yes, she makes a good point OP, you should follow this advice or at least read it.

[sunnieseason]

Well someone's been around hasn't she? I've never seen people paint there faces like a "jugaloo", or wearing those t-shirts :P

But yes, she makes a good point OP, you should follow this advice or at least read it.

lol, I'm only 13...but let's just say that boys at my school are a special kind of stupid. Two boys dressed as jugaloos threw water balloons at people in my middle school graduation.

[onewingedangel666]

Wow. This is a pretty good troll. 33 posts. Good, but not great. I've seen one get to like 550 posts over on Gamefaqs.com. It had two whole threads.

[maniamsmart]

Wow. This is a pretty good troll. 33 posts. Good, but not great. I've seen one get to like 550 posts over on Gamefaqs.com. It had two whole threads.

Lol! Auron! I've never seen many troll threads anywhere on here :P There was one about someone crying over GTA but... meh.

[lilg]

lol omg this is hilarious.

I seriously have to ask though what makes you say you "deserve" well. anything. lol

[The_Superior_One]

lol omg this is hilarious.

I seriously have to ask though what makes you say you "deserve" well. anything. lol

What makes me worthy? Was such an inane question seriously asked?

Let me count the ways.

When a girl first sets sights on me, she will see a pulchritudinous, winsome man with glistening light green eyes and thick brown hair. She will be left breathless and dazzled by my pulchritude. She should feel absolutely honoured that I would even consider looking at her.

Today I spent £120 out of my hard earnt disability living allowance to spend on a brown denim shirt which augments my radiant beauty. Yet when I walked out with it, none if the worthless whores tried to speak to me. I was in complete shock!

But unlike other attractive boys who are plagued by a lack of intellect, I am blessed with towering intelligence. I can pull out A*s without revising, I can play guitar in insanely hard time signatures such as 31/16, I speak with eloquence and I can thrive in every art that I wish to pursue, except one. Social skills.

Society doesn't want me, I see it. I am excluded from all the things that the typical 16 year old can enjoy. I have never been to a party, I don't have any girls number in my phone, I have never been complimented by a girl before, I am still a virgin, I haven't had my first kiss yet. People specifically don't invite me to things. There was once a gathering that my entire form was invited to except for me. They told me not and made slanderous slurs claiming that I was "a delusional nutcase" and that I'll "grow up to be a serial killer." I tried explains these predicaments to my peers and they said "you don't even deserve to be out in society, you should be locked away in a secure mental unit." I don't have one single friend. Despite telling my peers that I am the superior one and they should honour me, they do the opposite. They berate, hate and mock me. I have never been in a social outing with friends and despite being a guitarist, I have only ever performed solo because nobody wants to perform with me. I don't have any friends in Facebook except my family and every request I have sent out to people on my school has been declined and some subsequently blocked me. I also have no followers on instagram. When I walk down the corridor, my peers abhorrently mock me by bowing down and saying "it's the superior one" or "it's the master race" and people have made disgusting allegations about me such as that I "scream my own name during sex."

The reason I can't thrive socially is because it's out of my hands. I can thrive intellectually and musically because it's in my control. However in terms of social skills, it is not in my control. It is in societies control and society has decided to banish me. There I nothing I can do to avoid it or change it. It is out of my hands.

The figures of authority at my school also abuse their power. I once requested that all pupils wear sunglasses in school so that I could constantly see my beautiful face in them and instead of obliging he dared to guffaw and use profanity at me. What a disgusting misuse of power. What a travesty of justice!

Worse of all, I have to bare witness to several workers of iniquity at my school enjoy the life I should be enjoying on social media. On instagram, I follow 210 people at my school in my year and in younger years and yet none of them follow me back. I closely monitor these accounts to see them enjoy a social life that I should have been enjoying. It breaks my heart to see them get so many likes and for girls to embrace them when they are shut out. Allow me to tell you one story.

So one day I got wind of a major party that was occurring at a popular kids house who goes to my school. I found out the location and decided to spy on them there. When I got there I had to be crafty, I could always be one step ahead of them. His house was a detached house in a rural area. There were bouncers at the door so I had to be careful. I saw a few bushes near by and hid in them. The bushes were near his fence and there was a crack through the fence which I peered through. I saw a multitude of beautiful girls. Even though they didn't acknowledge my existence, I sure did acknowledge there's. I saw them talking to boys who oppressed me. I couldn't believe that they could ever even consider looking at any of those vile animals who bullied me. Then I saw one of the girls KISS A BULLY. I was so mortified that I stormed to the entrance where I demanded to be let in. I was met by two bouncers who refused me entrance stating that I "wasn't invited" and "wasn't welcome." I tried to barge pass them and I was wrestled to the ground where I suffered an arm injury which stopped me playing guitar for a few weeks. I tried to throw a punch but was overpowered and restrained. They then threatened to call the police. Some popular kids from my school then saw me and they were with beautiful girls. They then started insulting me and cussing me telling me that I should be "locked up in a mental home" and that "people like him just need to be put down to protect the rest of us." To my horror, the beautiful girls LAUGHED at these comments. One of them even went as far as to call me a "creepy psycho freak with no friends." I wanted to beat her up but I was restrained. The bouncers then told me to get out or they'd call the police. So I went home with a broken arm and a broken heart and cried all night. I am scarred by that day even now, one month after it happened.

I can't understand why girls hate me so much when I see them always posting pictures on instagram of quotes about wanting a loyal, respectful and caring boyfriend. Well ladies I am the answer to those questions. I am intelligent and handsome but I am also the ultimate gentleman. I have respect for women and wouldn't cheat on you and wouldn't use you for sexual gratification. I would cherish you as my trophy and take you on romantic dates to whatever you fantasised. I will make your life euphoric. Yet you avoid me like the bubonic plague.

I just can't understand why people treat me so bad. I could be such a great asset to humanity, yet humanity does not want me. All I wanted was to be your friend, I would help you and you would help me. I would bail you out I would comfort you and I would use my skills to help you, I would be such a great allie. All I'd ask in return if for a chance to be anointed as social dictator. Yet not only was I denied that but I was completely cut off from any social life what so ever. How can humanity be so wretched and cruel?

[tasminsmith]

Immerse yourselves in superiority. Every day I wake up to once again become the victim of my own never ending horror story. I am living in outer solitude and desolation because you girls aren't attracted to me. I don't know why you aren't attracted to me. I am gorgeous, sophisticated, an intellectual A* candidate, a grade 8 electric guitar virtuoso and innovative composer, the premium gentleman and yet instead of being attracted to me, girls are attracted to these invidious, unfilial reprobates, instead of me, the master of social etiquette. I am above the league of even supermodels. All you attractive girls OWE YOUR BEAUTY TO ME. For without me, you would have no reason to look beautiful. You would be as lost mice wandering around a pointless maze! I see these beautiful girls with their licentious persona and their cascading hair, walking with these hideous degenerates, instead of me. ITS AN ABSOLUTE INJUSTICE! You girls have NO REASON to reject me. One day, I was on the bus after performing a song that I had written. I was performing on guitar and vocals. Then two evil girls, who I recognised from the audience but didn't know, were there too. They then started pointing at me and laughing and whispering to each other. I was petrified. One of them then came up and said "hi." I knew she was coming up to antagonise me. I then swiftly got straight off the bus right before she could say anything more, shaken with sorrow. I then had to walk all the way home in the pouring rain and then went up to my room and cried all night. Those girls were very attractive too and I had no idea why they would torment me like this. I decide that I would punish girls for this by not writing any more songs about girls for at least 6 months. I just don't know why girls don't come up to me and talk to me. Why don't they give me a chance? I am 15 years old and have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I am absolutely spectacular, I don't deserve this. What could possibly be putting girls off of me?

your ego maybe?

I did nothing to those girls. I was simply minding my own business. Hence why I was so perplexed. I was a mighty ox who was singled out by a pack of ravenous wolves. What do you mean it's up to the girl? If she is so asinine that she cannot even see how much of spectacular person I am, then she clearly has not earnt the right to choose who she goes out with. When I see other guitarists who can't even read music and perform songs that they didn't even write get embraced by girls whilst I write all my songs myself and don't get a fraction of that attention, it infuriates me. In fact I see indolent reprobates just simply play 3 chords and get attention from girls whilst I play complex jazz compositions that I created myself and are saturated with advance techniques like syncopation and don't even get noticed. I am also immensely versatile! I play in all sorts of genres too, from blues to funk to metal and even create unorthodox fusion genres which are innovative and original. Yet they choose the degenerate playing a four chord song over me! Don't tell me that is anything but totally injust. What makes him more worthy of a beautiful girls attention than me? And that's just the music side of things...
please say this is trolling oml

[Abhorrence]

It's great that you think you're fantastic but maybe try to be less arrogant.

[lilg]

now i know this is a troll lol well written troll though

[lyhom]

this is one dedicated troll lmfaooooo

like there is no way that this is serious

[Saint of Sinners]

now i know this is a troll lol well written troll though


this is one dedicated troll lmfaooooo

like there is no way that this is serious

Naw mate, I think he might be serious. I swear I've heard of this condition before but I can't recall the name at the moment.

Ah! Thanks Google! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

People who are diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder are characterized by exaggerated feelings of self-importance. They have a sense of entitlement and demonstrate grandiosity in their beliefs and behavior. They have a strong need for admiration, but lack feelings of empathy.

DSM-5
Symptoms of this disorder, as defined by the DSM-5, include:

A. Significant impairments in personality functioning manifested by:

1. Impairments in self functioning (a or b):
a. Identity: Excessive reference to others for self-definition and self-esteem regulation; exaggerated self-appraisal may be inflated or deflated, or vacillate between extremes; emotional regulation mirrors fluctuations in self-esteem.
b. Self-direction: Goal-setting is based on gaining approval from others; personal standards are unreasonably high in order to see oneself as exceptional, or too low based on a sense of entitlement; often unaware of own motivations.
AND
2. Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):
a. Empathy: Impaired ability to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others; excessively attuned to reactions of others, but only if perceived as relevant to self; over- or underestimate of own effect on others.
b. Intimacy: Relationships largely superficial and exist to serve self-esteem regulation; mutuality constrained by little genuine interest in others' experiences and predominance of a need for personal gain
B. Pathological personality traits in the following domain:

Antagonism, characterized by:
a. Grandiosity: Feelings of entitlement, either overt or covert; self-centeredness; firmly holding to the belief that one is better than others; condescending toward others.
b. Attention seeking: Excessive attempts to attract and be the focus of the attention of others; admiration seeking.
C. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual's personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.

D. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual's personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual's developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.

E. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual's personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).

DSM-IV-TR
Symptoms of this disorder, as defined by the DSM-IV-TR, include:

Expects to be recognized as superior and special, without superior accomplishments
Expects constant attention, admiration and positive reinforcement from others
Envies others and believes others envy him/her
Is preoccupied with thoughts and fantasies of great success, enormous attractiveness, power, intelligence
Lacks the ability to empathize with the feelings or desires of others
Is arrogant in attitudes and behavior
Has expectations of special treatment that are unrealistic
Other symptoms in addition to the ones defined by DSM-IV-TR include: Is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends, has trouble keeping healthy relationships with others, easily hurt or rejected, appears unemotional, and exaggerating special achievements and talents, setting unrealistic goals for himself/herself.

Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by an over-inflated sense of self-importance, as well as dramatic, emotional behavior that is in the same category as antisocial and borderline personality disorders.

In addition to these symptoms, the person may display arrogance, show superiority, and seek power. The symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder can be similar to the traits of individuals with strong self-esteem and confidence; differentiation occurs when the underlying psychological structures of these traits are considered pathological. Narcissists have such an elevated sense of self-worth that they value themselves as inherently better than others, when in reality they have a fragile self-esteem, cannot handle criticism, and often try to compensate for this inner fragility by belittling or disparaging others in an attempt to validate their own self-worth. Comments and criticisms about others are vicious from sufferers of NPD, in an attempt to boost their own poor self-esteem.

Another narcissist symptom is a lack of empathy. They are unable to relate, understand, and rationalize the feelings of others. Instead of behaving in a way that shows how they are feeling in the moment, they behave in the way that they feel they are expected to behave or that gives them the most attention.


Hope it helps.

[The_Superior_One]

Don't try and shove the weight of your iniquity onto the innocent chariot of mental health. The blood is on all of YOUR hands. Don't point the finger unless you're in front of the mirror.

You see, humanity has ignited a malevolent fire and that fire will not placidly pass by and quench itself on crystal waters. You dare try and blame mental illness but I started out just like you.

I was an ordinary kid with extraordinary talents who, like you, wanted to achieve things in life. I wanted an A* when I took my maths and English language GCSE early, I GOT THAT. I wanted to reach grade 8 guitar in under 5 years, I GOT THAT. I wanted a scholarship to work with national and international recording artists for producing music I GOT THAT. I wanted to get an expert level chess rating I GOT THAT. I wanted a blissful social life saturated with friends, adventure and girls. I WAS DENIED IT! You see, I have the ability to thrive in any path I wish to pursue, except for a social life. Because that is out of my hands. It's within humanities hands and for whatever reason, humanity wishes for me to be cast into social desolation. None of it is my fault, none of it is in my hands, I cannot change it but I can fight back. Which leads me onto my next point.

You girls just love the alpha male don't you? That towering, pugnacious, muscular macho-man who will protect and shield your delicate, fragile body? But you have no idea who the "alpha male" is. The self-proclaimed alpha male of my school commits the most heinous acts of a coward. He once tormented a severely autistic kid in year 7, a defenceless little boy who will already struggle in life as it. He picks on people who have no defence. I tried to intervene so the kid had enough time to escape and he thanked me. The guy bullying the kid then turned his attention to me and shoved me against the wall, I head butted him and went to throw a punch but was stopped by teachers breaking the fight up. He is an abominable coward. Not to mention that he is obese, ugly and retarded. Yet he is embraced by girls and they REWARD his actions and coddle his miscreancy! They deem him an alpha male. It makes me sick to the stomach. I am a true alpha male. I walk into society every day as a might warrior as an oppressed maverick. I have to defend my self everyday and no matter what's thrown at me, I always fight back and defend myself. That makes me a true alpha male.

Society has waged a war against me. I have tried everything to try and make peace with society and fit in but it has rejected me and attacked me. So as the saying goes, if you can't join them, beat them.

You say that I'm mentally ill but I guarantee you that if you had to spend one day in my shoes, you would fall on your own sword. Your fragile shell couldn't take the constant battering that I am subjected to. But I am strong enough to keep fighting against social injustice, whilst others who receive half of what I have received have killed themselves. I am the way I am because I have been bullied, excluded and tormented my entire life and made to feel worthless. Despite all you have put me through I am still willing to forgive you if you can give me the social life I am entitled too and if girls can throw themselves at me and be my trophy. I have proven if anything that I am tolerant, patient and enduring. I have seen so many things pass me by. At the age of 16 I witness 12 and 13 year olds with girlfriends, 14 year olds going to raves and at the end of year 11, this summer, I will witness my peers go on lads holidays whilst I'll be all alone in my bedroom. I just hope that society will see the light. I can forgive you if you fulfil my desire of having a social, blissful youth, or whatever is left of my youth.

However one day my desire for vengeance will outweigh my cravings for a social life and girls. That will be the day when you finally cross the event horizon. That will be the day that I shall transform the fountain of youth into a reservoir of boiled blood and malignant fire.

[Hyper]

You are either a troll

Or a complete sociopath/narcissist/some other similar illness (in which case that would be the reason)

[That's the Spirit]

Maybe it is something to do with living in the UK. The girls are all flawed here, they are attracted to the most asinine of species of chavs. They go for 6 ft degenerates who smoke and break the law and act like unruly animals.

Most of the girls here are nasty, uneducated skets oh and don't forget short, fat, caked with makeup and overall ugly...

[The_Superior_One]

Most of the girls here are nasty, uneducated skets oh and don't forget short, fat, caked with makeup and overall ugly...

Exactly! Even the ones that are attracted are lascivious whores who berate amazing people like me but open their legs for the next reprobate chav. I think it's time that they change to suit my needs.

[SethfromMI]

I highly doubt they hate you for no reason at all

[luq_]

I'll bite.

There is a reason for everything. For every "why" there is "because". It's normal that there will be some people who won't like you. Or many. We are all different and we all like different stuff and traits in people.
Now, let's see: you say no girl likes you. The obvious reason: they are all stupid. I'm not saying that's impossible, just highly unlikable. But even if it's indeed the case, does it help you? You could be right, you're the smartest one around, which makes your life extremely boring. Well, enjoy your miserable intelligent life then, you aren't the first.
What are those girls looking for in a man, you might ask. Certainly not the extremely high intelligence. The truth is, most of them are looking for fun. They want someone with whom they will feel entertained, loved and protected (those big bad folks who break the law? Some like them because they feel as if they will never suffer any harm, some fear them because they assume that sooner or later it'll get them into trouble). The fact that your intelligence is above average makes a little to no difference, if you don't learn to use it in a social way.
Be interesting. Hell, copy what others do. The majority sets the rules. It has always been like that and always will be. If you want to be accepted, you have to fit in. No one will change to suit your needs. Just be sure to observe the majority, not just one group of people. Of course, you don't have to fit in - you can just sit in your study room and prepare to be successful, rich businessman and hope that you won't fail. If you'd like to spend the rest of your life working and spending money (it's not that bad combination, but I find it kind of dull).

If nothing else, get a good book on psychology. Everything makes sense, even human behaviour, and as a smart individual, I'm sure you can grasp it. It doesn't have to be rational all the time though.

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I apologize for any spelling, grammar or stylistic mistakes, English is not my native language.

[Leprous]

To all the people here still bothering on trying to help this guy, please stop. This is obviously a troll. Just leave him be people, don't give him the attention he is so desperatly begging for.

[KING_OF _99]

Allgood g bitches don't like me either. Im cool with it.

[Melodic]

Exactly! Even the ones that are attracted are lascivious whores who berate amazing people like me but open their legs for the next reprobate chav. I think it's time that they change to suit my needs.

Most of the girls here are nasty, uneducated skets oh and don't forget short, fat, caked with makeup and overall ugly...

Allgood g bitches don't like me either. Im cool with it.

Seriously? Do all of you think insulting and name calling girls are gonna get you these girls?

[Uranus]

Most of the girls here are nasty, uneducated skets oh and don't forget short, fat, caked with makeup and overall ugly...

Ohhh? Well if you like insulting women, how about you say that to your mom? She might fall into the category of "Most". Or are you too scared to say it?

Allgood g bitches don't like me either. Im cool with it.

If I remember correctly. Insulting members, even worse mods, is not a good idea. So if a "B" who's a mod bans you, you're cool with that ?

Where the hell did respect go? *facepalm*

[Living For Love]

This thread has ran its course, people are just bashing and insulting each other, so I'm going to lock it. To the OP, most people here agree that your lack of humbleness is the reason why girls don't like you, so if you try to be a little bit more modest, I'm sure you'll find the right person. Good luck! :locked: