Should i do it?

[alliancerules]

I'm not sure what to do, I have known for a few weeks that my friends boyfriend has been cheating on her with someone else for a while and I don't know if I should tell her.
Would you tell a friend even though you know it is going to hurt them, or is it best to stay out of it?

[Semi_IronMan]

I'm not sure what to do, I have known for a few weeks that my friends boyfriend has been cheating on her with someone else for a while and I don't know if I should tell her.
Would you tell a friend even though you know it is going to hurt them, or is it best to stay out of it?

You've really got 2 choices here. Either : be a snitch or be a good friend... It's your decision really, but I think you should definetely tell her. It would be better to hear it from a friend... And eventually if she does find out about it and finds out that you knew, you could lose her as a friend.

I mean think about it : You'd want her to tell you too if it was the other way 'round right...?

[Listener]

Tell her. Might be hard for her amd be mad at you at first. But then she'll come to her senses.

[Lost in the Echo]

Definitely tell her. In the end, it would be for the best. Nobody wants to be in a dishonest relationship. She deserves to know what's going on.

[riverboy]

If you tell her, make sure your facts are correct.

[maniamsmart]

Put yourself in the person's shoes and see how you'd feel. Would you want someone telling you if you were cheated on so you don't need to be even more hurt later? So you don't need to waste more of your time now? So you can move on easier? I think so at least for me. You should tell her, and also tell the cheater to learn right from wrong. Tell them both.

[purplehaze99]

Fuck yea u gotta tell her cuz even if it hurts her she deserves better then a cheating asshole and kick the guy who's cheating on her in the balls

[Melodic]

You need to tell her. You wouldn't be hurting her. She would be hurt, but not from you. She would be hurt from the guy who thought it was a good idea to break her heart.

[CreativeUsername]

If whoever you were dating was cheating on you, would you want your best friend to tell you. Do what you would want your best friend to do.

[Uranus]

TELL HER!

It's not fun being the bearer of bad news, but it is the right thing to do.
It will hurt her, but sooner or later, she will find out. And it's best she knows now, rather than wait a few months for her to find out then.

If my gf was cheating on me, and someone knew, I'd want them to tell me immediately before I get led farther into a bad relationship....so...tell her

[BabyGMarie]

Tell her ! its the best thing to do for a friend

[Cognizant]

Tell her. You would want her to tell you if your partner was cheating on you, right? When my first bf cheated on me, the other guy actually told me that my bf was trying to cheat on me, and I'm super glad he did tell me that.

[SethfromMI]

no question, tell her !