What is my sexuality? Am I bisexual or what?

[Jade15]

I act very straight normally. Most people know me to be straight. But I have been sexually experimenting with my best friend like twice. We've both seen each other nude and it's gone as far as genital to genital contact. I like what we do but I always find myself looking at guys. I don't really notice girls. But I enjoy the sexual stimulation I get from my best friend but I have never been with a guy so I haven't got anything to compare it. So does that make me bisexual? Or am I lesbian? Even though I do think guys are attractive. What do you think?

[Voodoo]

Honestly,

The best thing you can do is think about it, I do not believe you are bisexual or lesbian it would help if we knew your age. A lot of times it is just the influx of hormones rushing through out your body. What this sounds like to me is experimenting. Experimenting is normal for a teenager to do in their years due to the hormones rushing in your body. The best way to tell is to be with a male during sexual contact. I am in anyway, shape or form telling you to go have sex but until you do you will not know if you're straight, bisexual, and or lesbian.


-- Sean.

[James Dean]

To me, you are showing signs of being bisexual.

It's different for girls in my opinion when it comes to being bisexual. This is just myself speaking and my opinion. Male and female bisexuality are different discussions and experiences. I know many people are gonna say regardless of gender bisexuality is still the same, and I have to politely disagree with that. Bisexuality is attraction to both genders, but I think guys and girls have it differently.

I will say that it's more common for girls to accept and to be accepted with it. So I would just embrace your sexuality, you cannot help who you are attracted to. If you come across a guy who is nice and you connect with him, good. If you come across a girl who is nice and you connect with her, great. Don't worry about what other people think. As long as you stay safe and healthy, that's all that matters.

But you would be considered bisexual to some. So don't own anything if you don't want to. Good luck. :)

[Semi_IronMan]

I honestly think you may be bisexual.I think u should give yourself some time to give guys a try before labeling yourself

[Zachary G]

i dont know if you are bisexual or not, but i wouldnt be so quick to slap a label on anything just yet. it seems you have some more experimenting to do to figure things out, so let it play out over some time and then you will be able to make a more sound decision.

[Jade15]

Honestly,

The best thing you can do is think about it, I do not believe you are bisexual or lesbian it would help if we knew your age. A lot of times it is just the influx of hormones rushing through out your body. What this sounds like to me is experimenting. Experimenting is normal for a teenager to do in their years due to the hormones rushing in your body. The best way to tell is to be with a male during sexual contact. I am in anyway, shape or form telling you to go have sex but until you do you will not know if you're straight, bisexual, and or lesbian.


-- Sean.

I'm 15. I have no boyfriend if I did I doubt I'd be doing this.

[Batman42]

I would think bi but not sure

[Meh Guy]

That definitely makes you, 100%, without question, normal. Like everyone else. It could mean you're bi, lesbian or curious. Only you can answer that. Just because you and your friend experiment doesn't make you bi. In fact from the story, it sounds like you might just be curious, but either way, only you can decide what your sexuality is.

[SethfromMI]

it sounds like bi

[Saint of Sinners]

You might be bi. Or just bicurious. Don't worry about labels haha it's no big deal. You're just you.

[txtwister13]

I'd say your probably bi but your also at the age where there's a lot of experimenting, there's no need to put a label on yourself yet, you'll figure things out eventually.

[Luminous]

I agree with what everyone else said, but there is one thing I'd like to point out. You don't have to try sex with a guy to see if you will like it. Honestly, that's a really homophobic thing to say. Would you ever tell a straight (NOT bi-curious) person to try having sex with a same-sex partner just in case? Probably not. OP, you are the only one who truly knows who you are attracted to, and if that group of people happens to include girls, that's great. If it doesn't, that's cool too. A lot of people go through phases of curiousity, and a lot of people really are bi. Also, you could like 90% guys and 10% girls or something, it doesn't have to be 50/50, so take that into account too.

[BabyGMarie]

I think you might be curious