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Baconator
November 25th, 2014, 06:44 PM
Alright, so before you jump the gun, this is not how it sounds. Me and this girl (I am male) used to talk in Grade 9 and then never really talked since. She said hi to me in the halls between classes and what not. I got a friend of mine and hers to ask her if she was interested in me (Friend of mine and hers is male). She was hesitant and about a week later she responded with a positive attitude and asked him for my Snapchat and right away started snapping me after school yesterday (Monday). Today at school her greeting with a smile was larger than usual and she seemed to want to be around me. Today after school she was flirty on Snapchat.

To my point. I am a shy guy when it comes to face-to-face conversations with the people I am attracted to, unless under the influence. I know she's interested and she knows I am interested, but I'm not sure how to confront her and possibly ask her on a date or just to hang out during lunch. I can't help but smile and possibly blush (Can't tell) when I am around her and her group of friends. She looks more welcoming but I can't tell how she is with these situations.

How can I talk to her in person to ask her on a date without being awkward af? I find it a struggle to walk up to them and talk without feeling like I am burning. I can easily message her on Snapchat without fear.

Ideas?

SethfromMI
November 25th, 2014, 09:40 PM
you could say hey got anything planned for this weekend? then if she gives you a tome for free say I was thinking about going out, want to go with me?something nice and simple like that

Uranus
November 25th, 2014, 09:45 PM
Seth has a really good idea. Just don't be worried about it. She's obviously interested in you. And she probably knows you're nervous, but she wants you to ask her. She probably knows you want to go out. Just do it. She doesn't have all year. What's stopping you?

Zachary G
November 26th, 2014, 09:59 AM
though it would be ideal to walk up to her and ask her in person, if you feel you will have trouble doing that, why not just do it through a snap -- maybe snap her a message saying you want to ask her something and can she meet you someplace, this way you can get her by herself to ask her to hangout or whatever without the embarrassment of doing it in front of other people.

Baconator
November 27th, 2014, 09:38 PM
Everything went as planned. We're dating now. Thanks for all the help, guys! c: