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Semi_IronMan
November 24th, 2014, 02:12 PM
Guys: would u ever date a bisexual girl knowing she could leave u for another girl at any time?

Girls: would u ever date a bisexual guy knowing he could leave u for another guy at any time?

Paladino
November 24th, 2014, 02:37 PM
Yes, because it's the same as saying she could leave you for another guy ...

Karkat
November 24th, 2014, 02:42 PM
Um, a bisexual person is no more likely to "leave" you than a straight person is.

Paladino
November 24th, 2014, 02:47 PM
Um, a bisexual person is no more likely to "leave" you than a straight person is.

They do have more options though :O

Karkat
November 24th, 2014, 02:49 PM
They do have more options though :O

Doesn't mean they'll pursue them. It is perfectly possible to be a monogamous and/or faithful bisexual person.

Paladino
November 24th, 2014, 02:50 PM
I know I know. I think I would rather being left for a girl than a guy.

everlong
November 24th, 2014, 03:59 PM
I would

Rainbowfairy
November 24th, 2014, 04:37 PM
Yes as don't matter if straight bi or gay you should trust ya boy or not be with him

If you think he may you have trust issues

Starling City
November 24th, 2014, 05:13 PM
Yes. It's all the same.

maniamsmart
November 25th, 2014, 12:10 AM
Interesting question, one that I have been asked before, and one that I have actually personally experienced before. I have dated a straight and bi-sexual girl, and to be honest there really isn't a difference. The only difference I ever saw was my bi-sexual girlfriend "fan girling" over women too, along with guys. The behavior of the person changes, but not their values in a relationship. I think that if you are bi-sexual you have more options on who to date, but it doesn't mean that they are going to leave you for someone. Leaving you for someone has nothing to do with your sexual orientation it has something to do with how happy you two are in your relationship.

Hence, it doesn't really matter what type of person you date, as long as you two are happy then you don't need to worry about anyone leaving anyone.would you ever shoot a person

BabyGMarie
November 25th, 2014, 01:54 AM
Well Im bisexual & my bf trust me & I dont think I'll leave him for a female, but only time can tell what happens l8r on in life

Semi_IronMan
November 25th, 2014, 05:15 AM
I mean... I'm just saying, what if he/she decides that she's not feeling the opposite sex anymore?

Semi_IronMan
November 25th, 2014, 05:24 AM
Interesting question, one that I have been asked before, and one that I have actually personally experienced before. I have dated a straight and bi-sexual girl, and to be honest there really isn't a difference. The only difference I ever saw was my bi-sexual girlfriend "fan girling" over women too, along with guys. The behavior of the person changes, but not their values in a relationship. I think that if you are bi-sexual you have more options on who to date, but it doesn't mean that they are going to leave you for someone. Leaving you for someone has nothing to do with your sexual orientation it has something to do with how happy you two are in your relationship.

Hence, it doesn't really matter what type of person you date, as long as you two are happy then you don't need to worry about anyone leaving anyone.would you ever shoot a person

I understand what you're saying, but what if the girl/guy decides that maybe the opposite sex isn't for him/her

maniamsmart
November 25th, 2014, 08:24 AM
I understand what you're saying, but what if the girl/guy decides that maybe the opposite sex isn't for him/her

So you mean the bi-sexual becoming fully gay/lesbian? Well then that is the choice they made and is something you're going to have to respect. However, I don't see that happening in a relationship that is serious. And if that's the type of relationship you want then you have to make sure the person knows that. And if by the slight chance that you are in a serious relationship and this does happen then I feel sorry for you, because that's some real bad luck then.

But from my experiences, this rarely happens in serious relationships that are going well. And if you aren't in a serious relationship, well then, you can't ask for someone to be definite about their sexual orientation.

brina
November 25th, 2014, 08:25 AM
I'm K ow I'm bi just haven't done anything but id be okay with dating a guy who is too

Melodic
November 25th, 2014, 08:38 AM
His sexuality isn't going to higher or lower his chances of leaving me. Our relationship together is what will determine that.

maniamsmart
November 25th, 2014, 08:48 AM
His sexuality isn't going to higher or lower his chances of leaving me. Our relationship together is what will determine that.

Exactly what I was saying. Good mindset!

By the way, it's "heighten or lessen" :P (no offense, just thought you'd like to know).

Uranus
November 25th, 2014, 09:06 AM
I mean I might, because anyone could leave, regardless of their sexuality. I'd prefer my girl to be str8, but if she was bi, I'd be okay with it.

Semi_IronMan
November 25th, 2014, 11:56 AM
So you mean the bi-sexual becoming fully gay/lesbian? Well then that is the choice they made and is something you're going to have to respect. However, I don't see that happening in a relationship that is serious. And if that's the type of relationship you want then you have to make sure the person knows that. And if by the slight chance that you are in a serious relationship and this does happen then I feel sorry for you, because that's some real bad luck then.

But from my experiences, this rarely happens in serious relationships that are going well. And if you aren't in a serious relationship, well then, you can't ask for someone to be definite about their sexual orientation.

thanks, your answers gave me new perspectives, if she decides the opposite sex isn't 4 her I should definetely respect her decision, maybe it wasn't meant to be.
Thank you very much.

trent1005
November 25th, 2014, 12:34 PM
I would

maniamsmart
November 25th, 2014, 02:46 PM
thanks, your answers gave me new perspectives, if she decides the opposite sex isn't 4 her I should definetely respect her decision, maybe it wasn't meant to be.
Thank you very much.

You're very welcome, always here to help :)

SethfromMI
November 25th, 2014, 09:45 PM
since I am bisexual I would be a hypocrite if I said I wouldn't.

but couldn't a straight guy be worried a straight girl would leave him for another guy? or a straight girl be worried a straight guy would leave her for another girl?

the same for gays.

I really do not see how this just applies to bisexuals