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RockyRoad
November 23rd, 2014, 08:57 PM
hey guys,

so there's this guy i know. We're really good friends, and our dad's are also best friends. The thing is, I like him and i'm getting a really good vibe that he likes me too . If it turns out that he likes me, do you think I should go for it and date him? I'm worried that since our families are so close, dating could be awkward. Also we're both 16, so there's a huge chance that we'd end up breaking up and that could make it awkward for us ( since we're such good friends) and our parents.

SethfromMI
November 23rd, 2014, 10:35 PM
I say give it a chance. I mean either you too will fall in love or you are going to find out you are just better off friends. yes I won't lie, if one feels strongly and the other does not it could get awkward. so you will have to decide just how serious you are though. if you are, then it is still worth the chance. sometimes knowing the person really well is perfect for getting together

BabyGMarie
November 23rd, 2014, 11:50 PM
You can give it try & see where it goes

maniamsmart
November 24th, 2014, 04:30 AM
Sometimes the best relationships come from the best friendships. The positive thing that you have right now which other relationships don't have is that you already know each other, and can pretty much trust each other already. This is a good thing, and it won't make your relationship awkward, in fact, it will just make it stronger.

However, if you are unsure about your "vibe", perhaps you should ask him if he likes you more than a friend. If you feel you don't have the confidence to, or feel it would be a weird question, perhaps suggest it in a jokingly way. I really can't tell you if he likes you or not, because I don't know what he does, or what signs he gives you for you to think that. Maybe if you explain a bit more, I can give you a more accurate answer.

If you do end up dating him, and you do end up breaking up, as long as you don't end up on the wrong foot, you should be fine. The worst that could possibly happen is for both of you to realize that you are meant to be friends more than a couple, and if that's the case then that's how it is meant to be. That won't make your friendship awkward though, it will just strengthen it.Think positively, and as long as there isn't any cheating, lying, back stabbing, or any harmful things like that, I don't see your relationship going downhill.