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Ricky.h
November 23rd, 2014, 05:29 PM
When it comes to your sex life are you open or more conservative about it ?
When it comes to friends, parents, strangers, etc.

(And what makes you that way)

SethfromMI
November 23rd, 2014, 05:31 PM
as far as telling people? I don't tell parents or other family so much but i will talk about it with friends and stuff. my parents know I do it, but they also know I am smart about it

Ricky.h
November 23rd, 2014, 05:40 PM
as far as telling people? I don't tell parents or other family so much but i will talk about it with friends and stuff. my parents know I do it, but they also know I am smart about it


So What about condoms, do you hide them from your family or friends, or are you open with them?

(Like me I don't use condoms, which I don't advise for everyone. But I do every once and awhile and I have box on my dresser, so that's In the open)

Zachary G
November 23rd, 2014, 05:57 PM
i am pretty open with my friends about my sex life, but not my parents. as far as they know i am still virgin.

Ricky.h
November 23rd, 2014, 06:05 PM
i am pretty open with my friends about my sex life, but not my parents. as far as they know i am still virgin.

Is that how they set the atmosphere or do you just choose to be private about it. Do you have limits when it comes to sharing with friends ?

Zachary G
November 23rd, 2014, 06:31 PM
Is that how they set the atmosphere or do you just choose to be private about it. Do you have limits when it comes to sharing with friends ?

i choose to be private about it, though they are open to me talking to them about anything, i just prefer not to let them in on my sex life just yet. as far as my friends go, i dont have any limits, we are pretty open with eachother about stuff like that.

Jaseblader
November 23rd, 2014, 08:13 PM
When it comes to your sex life are you open or more conservative about it ?
When it comes to friends, parents, strangers, etc.

(And what makes you that way)

100% open

SethfromMI
November 23rd, 2014, 10:18 PM
So What about condoms, do you hide them from your family or friends, or are you open with them?

(Like me I don't use condoms, which I don't advise for everyone. But I do every once and awhile and I have box on my dresser, so that's In the open)

my parents have just told me it is wise to use them, which, I was using them, but since my current gf is on the pill I really haven't been. but I will talk about it with my friends

Cognizant
November 23rd, 2014, 11:45 PM
I mean I'm still a penetration virgin but I don't really tell people about my other rendezvous unless I was dared or someone asks me. In other words, I'll tell people (except my dad) about my sex life, but I won't bring it up myself.

Semi_IronMan
November 24th, 2014, 07:05 AM
I don't have a sex life

Buddy 912
November 24th, 2014, 07:44 AM
Since I live in a home nudist family, I/we are very open about our sex lives.

Ricky.h
November 25th, 2014, 05:15 AM
Since I live in a home nudist family, I/we are very open about our sex lives.

I live In a nudists household too. Do you have any limits ?

(My house doesn't someone can watch porn on the big screen)

Buddy 912
November 25th, 2014, 05:30 AM
I live In a nudists household too. Do you have any limits ?

(My house doesn't someone can watch porn on the big screen)

There are a few limits. Dad, mom, and my 2 sisters are very open when it comes to nudity and masturbation. Who is ther in your family?

Ricky.h
November 25th, 2014, 06:15 AM
There are a few limits. Dad, mom, and my 2 sisters are very open when it comes to nudity and masturbation. Who is ther in your family?

Me, my older and younger brother...my dad and mom

rioo
November 25th, 2014, 06:24 AM
I'm very closed. I've been caught by my dad once, but we don't talk about it. Yesterday night in dinner my mom tell me to never have sex tape, but I remained silent. My close friend never ask me question about sex, but if it happen I will reply with jokes.

jordanhardy
November 25th, 2014, 12:41 PM
I'm very open about my sex life with others, particularly my friends. Not as much with my parents, they know o have sex and we do discuss it often. I went through a stage where I was bringing quite a few girls home, they clearly knew what we were doing. They've also walked in and caughte at it a few times, so it's not really a secret. My dad did start buying me condoms when I first started having sex. I don't really use them much anymore as my girlfriend is on the pill, but when I run out I usually go buy some myself or if I have no money ask my dad to get me some. They seem okay with it as long as I'm sensible.

Bull
November 25th, 2014, 01:18 PM
my sex life is not something I talk about other than on VT I am not a kiss and tell kind of guy with my friends

Hollywood
November 25th, 2014, 01:19 PM
Well, it's pretty easy for me, there's nothing to tell. But if there was, I wouldn't have an issue sharing it with my friends. Family though? Hell no, I'm fine with them thinking I'm a virgin for the rest of my life.

Johnking1996
November 25th, 2014, 01:53 PM
Im really open with my friends, i can tell them anything, i dont talk about it with my parents but my dad knows i have sex, he has caught me a few times, he used to buy me condoms but i buy them myself now

dylan20072001
November 25th, 2014, 03:10 PM
My parents have always been open about sexual stuff(Especially my dad lol) And ive always just gone along with it. Its kindoff helpfull but sometimes it can be annoying. But yeah i can basicly tell them anything about this kindoff stuff!

Ricky.h
November 25th, 2014, 03:22 PM
My parents have always been open about sexual stuff(Especially my dad lol) And ive always just gone along with it. Its kindoff helpfull but sometimes it can be annoying. But yeah i can basicly tell them anything about this kindoff stuff!

Elaborate on that.

(I know in the beginning of puberty when it was time for the talk my dad did not sugarcoat on terms, what was what, etc lol. Now everyone Is fully open about everything)

the darkness
November 25th, 2014, 03:25 PM
I've never been open with my family about sex.

It's not really discussed that much between my friends. My two 'best' friends are going out, but neither have told me what they've got up to, and I honestly don't care as long as they're safe.

I've only just started talking to the lad tbh, but neither of us are scared of talking about that, I guess we just don't go into too much detail.

With the girl, I guess we've just never spoken about that kind of stuff.

Athom
November 25th, 2014, 04:29 PM
Even though its non existent, I would tell certain friends, but not my parents. it just depends on who I would be comfortable telling

Catholic Guy
November 25th, 2014, 05:16 PM
I tell my friends some stuff but not everything and I don't know what my parents do know about it to be honest, I think they've worked out I'm not a virgin though

Ricky.h
November 28th, 2014, 08:42 PM
Even though its non existent, I would tell certain friends, but not my parents. it just depends on who I would be comfortable telling

How come you wouldn't tell your parents ?

ThePhantasm
November 28th, 2014, 10:22 PM
Pft I don't have a sex life, so no need to worry

fast8
November 29th, 2014, 12:59 AM
I am mostly open

Ricky.h
November 29th, 2014, 01:56 AM
I am mostly open

Same here and I think it's good to be open because it's good because knowledge can be shared

hockeyfan
November 29th, 2014, 01:42 PM
Friends open. Family and strangers I'm closed.

Curious.
November 29th, 2014, 01:54 PM
We just jack but its secret

LokaChris
November 29th, 2014, 02:32 PM
Just open to my frends

kay_jay
November 29th, 2014, 02:49 PM
My sex life is non-existent but If was sexually active I would only talk about it to a really close friend but not my parents.

Ricky.h
November 29th, 2014, 02:55 PM
My sex life is non-existent but If was sexually active I would only talk about it to a really close friend but not my parents.

Why not your parents, you could learn a lot...especially from your dad

kay_jay
November 29th, 2014, 03:14 PM
Why not your parents, you could learn a lot...especially from your dad

Me and my dad are not really that close that I can talk to him about my sex life and most of the time he is at work anyway.

Ricky.h
December 1st, 2014, 05:28 PM
Me and my dad are not really that close that I can talk to him about my sex life and most of the time he is at work anyway.

Do you wish you and your dad had that bond?

kay_jay
December 2nd, 2014, 06:12 AM
Do you wish you and your dad had that bond?

Yeah I really do hey.

Jaseblader
December 2nd, 2014, 06:29 PM
When it comes to your sex life are you open or more conservative about it ?
When it comes to friends, parents, strangers, etc.

(And what makes you that way)

i am pretty open with my friends about my sex life, but not my parents. as far as they know i am still virgin.

Yup, I'll tell whoever asks

Dreminsu
December 9th, 2014, 01:24 AM
I'm not very conservative. My parents know and my friends know, and I'll tell people I don't know very well if they ask. It's nothing to be ashamed of in my opinion. My parents know I have condoms (they've even bought them for me!), and I'd offer them to friends if I thought they needed them.

GoGoDiego
December 9th, 2014, 01:33 AM
Sex life? Im all open.

SonOfAnarchy
December 9th, 2014, 02:45 PM
Im more conservative but sometimes I tell female friends that I talk to about it. Im more comfortable talking about that stuff with girls friends and strangers then I am with parent

Meh Guy
December 9th, 2014, 08:20 PM
I'm not very open about it just because its not for everyone to know... But I mean if someone really wants to know Ill usually tell them. Plus I like a bunch of stuff that's weird so ya know ;)

hudson19
December 24th, 2014, 02:17 AM
I'm very open in general, I'll answer any question and talk anything haha, with friends or online or whatever. With family, not so much, but I have asked a couple cousins for advice. My parents never really gave me the "talk" and my mom is pretty naïve but my dad has caught on and just told me to be careful haha

marko1707
December 24th, 2014, 07:58 AM
I think I am very open with friends but not that open with family members

Owen727
December 24th, 2014, 08:09 AM
I dont have a sex life except for my hand:P and i dont really talk to anyone about that even my friends
some times i will joke around with other guys about jacking off but nobody really talks about doing it. i sort of wish they did since i am sure we are all doing it.

Dortmund
December 24th, 2014, 08:31 AM
On the rare occasion something happens I'm quite open with people about things. I don't say anything to family members though.

Jay98
December 26th, 2014, 05:02 PM
Yes I am pretty open with my family. We openly masturbate at my house. Its a natural part of life and nothing to hide.