The good old friendzone...

[Will Grigg's on Fire]

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[HUSTLEMAN]

Don't make a move man. Its painfully obvious that she sees you like a great friend.maybe even as a older or younger brother and even though she may like you back she is boor blind to the fact that if you guys do get together if you guys have a rough breakup you will not be friends and she doesn't want that. Besides most people hate it if you continuously try to make a move even after you been friendzoned, trust me I know that from experience. Don't make a move. If she does like toy and wants to be in a relationship with you she'll let you know.

[queenofcontrariety]

Don't try to escape the zone, pleaseeee, if you're there it's for a good reason, and she gave you one. If you keep going for jailbreaks you'll be cut off entirely, and that's not going to be pretty. Just let her live her life, and be there in the role you were meant to play. Oh and props to king of the nerds and being a guy to realize this

[Anarion]

I seem to be in a similar situation. It sucks balls. If you really can't stand it, the options are to either make a move and most likely be rejected, or tell her that you can't stay friends and don't talk to her at all.

[leahmae]

as much as you think this sucks, you're much better off being friends. is it worth killing a good friendship for a couple months of fun?

[Babs]

If she put you in the ever-dreaded "friendzone" it's because she doesn't want you as more than a friend. If you can't respect that, then you don't deserve even her friendship, let alone a sexual or romantic relationship with her.

[RockyRoad]

yeah, sorry bud but you're better off as just friends:(

[maniamsmart]

Ah another one of these situations. Okay, well I am going to be a bit more open minded here and take thing from a few different perspectives. I understand how you feel first of all, I was in the same incident as you, and I was told straight up that she would rather be my friend, it did hurt badly, and I never did get to date her.

She is friend zoning you for a reason, in fact you probably can't even call this a friend zone because she is directly telling you, she only wants to be friends with you, you might as well call it a forced friendship. And this may suck, ONLY because you see her hooking up with other guys. You feel it's not fair, and that it should be you, and not those other guys. But think about what she said when she said that it will only last 3 months. This means that she is not ready for a relationship. And I don't mean to offend you, but I don't think you are either. You are trying to force a relationship that she clearly doesn't want, for a good reason.

This girl values you, she cares about you, and she loves you. Giving her the cold shoulder was a good idea to just make her see that you really do want to date her, but trying to force a relationship and constantly make moves or give hints is a bad idea, because she will feel as if you can't respect her decision. What I think you should do is just let her be. She already knows you're a good guy, and she values that. I think she just doesn't want to hurt you because she knows she isn't ready for a real relationship yet.

Let her hook up with the guys she wants, and let them break up, because in the end, when she is ready for a real and serious relationship, you will be there. I know this is such a sucky part of like, and I know it hurts a lot to see someone you adore so much to be with someone else, but just always try to be there for her. Try to show her that you love her and care for her and will always be there for her. Don't force her into something or make her feel guilty for something she isn't ready to be committed to.

You honestly have to play the waiting game, and pray that she doesn't lose interest in you. If you really feel like making a physical move is a good idea then go for it, but I warn you, it could ruin any chance you have left because she has already made it clear to you several times that she wants to keep you as a friend for now. Maybe you can pop the question about her dating you later in life? Maybe ask her how she feels about you as a boyfriend? These may be too direct questions, and if you don't have the confidence don't ask them, but if you can get around to them somehow it would really help build your confidence and self-esteem to see that you are the good guy here, and she is just trying to protect your feelings and your heart until she is ready.

Just a note, I don't believe in the friend zone, because I've seen countless relationships, great ones at that, evolve from friendships.