Stopping...

[Hello. Justaquestion]

Hi I've been to this site before and I jerk off almost everyday. I try to stop myself because I don't like the guilt after. I tried several times to stop but I just can't seem to stop coming here or jerk. You probably are thinking no it's natural but I really want to stop because I liked my life before this happened. Thanks!

[Catholic Guy]

I'm the same, what I try to do is fill my day with as many distractions as possible, watch Netflix in bed and then go to sleep, don't give yourself a chance to do it and hopefully you should be able to stop.

[Hermes]

It's up to you but most guys do j/o from puberty onwards. Stopping is hard and most of those who dry don't suceed at it.

if you have some religious conviction that you shouldn't do it then you have to decide how much weight you give that but there is certainly no point in trying to wind the clock back. You can't go back to being the child you were before puberty.

[Zachary G]

It's up to you but most guys do j/o from puberty onwards. Stopping is hard and most of those who dry don't suceed at it.

if you have some religious conviction that you shouldn't do it then you have to decide how much weight you give that but there is certainly no point in trying to wind the clock back. You can't go back to being the child you were before puberty.

Hermes has a good point here, if you do have some religious convictions then you should really decide how much weight that carries in your daily living, it could be one way to stop. then the only other way to do it is to use self control, and that is a lot of work to do. its like once you have opened that door, its a hard one to close.

[SethfromMI]

I guess if you want to just try to find as many other things to keep you busy as possible

[Deiform]

Distract yourself, go for a walk, put porn filters on computer, and take cold showers. That really helps

[Soldier212]

Dude ik how you feel. your hormones are going everywhere. you can occupy yourself enough to where you are to tired to masturbate, and this will cause you to do so less often

[Athom]

Just find other things to do, thats what I do when I want to but don't want to

[Nayef.al]

When i want stop to masturbate i go running in the evening when i go to bed i feel tiered and not like to masturbate at all maybe try that.

[floekan]

Good Luck stopping. It's not going to happen. Once you masturbate a while, you no longer feel guilty afterwards. I know because I did, but now there is no guilt what so ever. Just let it happen and do it as often as you need/want to. Its just nature.

[hatsoff123]

lol why would you come here and m...bate? I mean I have no idea how this site turns you on but dude, its normal. Just don't become an addict at it.

[mcloete]

Yup, I also feel guilty!

[bootyhadmelike]

I always feel guilty too and I think why do I do this but hormones pull me back into doing it more... if you truly wanna stop you can but it'll be near impossible being a teen

[Wyatt 13]

find other stuff to keep you busy man.

[NeuroTiger]

Find other stuffs to do such as sports, movies, video games

[hockeyfan]

For the first yr I did it I felt guilty. Then italkedtk friends and realized that we all did it. I haven't felt guilty since.

[JokerMother]

I know right, the guilt is such a bad drawback. If you really want to stop, just distract yourself as much as possible, e.g hang out with friends, watch television etc.

[Silentslayer13]

Two things a.) keep yourself occupied, youtube finny videos, go for a walk , joim a school club, etc.
b.) If you can't stop, just justify and rationalize with yourself. What you're going through is fairly normal.

[Silentslayer13]

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[Meh Guy]

Well if you want to stop jerking off, fill your day with things to do, such as hobbies, chores, sports. Something that keeps your mind off of sex/masturbation. Or just learn to accept the guilt and realize that there is nothing wrong with it and continue. Either way, hope this helps

[aaroncool123]

Hi I've been to this site before and I jerk off almost everyday. I try to stop myself because I don't like the guilt after. I tried several times to stop but I just can't seem to stop coming here or jerk. You probably are thinking no it's natural but I really want to stop because I liked my life before this happened. Thanks!


That happens to everyone, happened to me too when I was 13, but seriously calm down. IT IS NORMAL. Just don't waste your time doing it all the time, do it when you're free or when you're actually aroused.

[SonOfAnarchy]

Do whatever you can to not get those erges and to take your mind off it but you cant stop your hormones