Don't know what to do

[Yarn]

This is probably gonna sound like something straight out of a TV show, so enjoy the ride

So I'll start this out by saying I'm a 16 year old Bi guy, although only a select few people know and anyone mentioned in this post DOES NOT know.

Just recently I got into a relationship with this girl who I had liked before but never really expected to happen and was just more of a mini crush, then we actually started getting close and somehow ended up dating, very recent tho, literally happened over this past weekend.

But now my guy friend that I've had a crush on for about 7 months now seems to be seeming more and more "gay" to the point where I'm just sitting here, thinking "if he's not gay or bi or whatever this kid is the biggest metrosexual I've ever seen in my life." The thing is tho, I don't know if he is or not. A couple days after I started dating this girl, the feelings I had for him that I thought were gonna go away came back even harder.

Right now, my conscious is saying stay with this girl, don't hurt her, and jump the gun on something you don't know for sure if it's onna work out. But on the other handI feel like my heart is telling me, go for what you want, take the chance and go after this guy and you'll be happy and i have no clue what to do, and I just want to get others opinions before I get to heavily invested into this relationship. If any of you seem to think the guy choice (best terminology I guess) is the best option, can anyone recommend how I'd even ask if he was gay or not?

I haven't been on this forum in a long time, but I've seen people help others with issues like this on here before so this was the first place I decided to turn to without feeling judged.

[Zachary G]

the only way to really find out is to ask. if you cant come right out and ask him if hes gay, try going around the bush on it by asking him something like what are his thoughts on the gay marriage issue, or something like that from the news. once you get his opinion, then you should be able to better tell where to go from there. if he responds in the positive, then kinda just ask him straight out if hes bi (dont say gay, he might get offended if hes not), but be prepared to answer that question yourself. its a tough thing, but you can do it.

[HockeyLovesMe]

I agree with zack I think you should have a normal chat with him and talk normal about ur gf and how it started with her and when he talks just be like hey I was just wondering are you bi? but say if you are that's completely ok.. if he says no then just be like oh ok I was just wondering :) now if he says yes then u can make a better decision about your gf :) im also in a similar situation so that is what I plan to do

[sweetcake]

I say stick with the girl for now, like you said, you don't want to break her heart. Though he may be gay, your find might not want to be gay with you. So it isn't a sure thing. Sorry if I don't make any sense, it's late night here..
At the end of the day, everyone should follow their hearts.

[CreativeUsername]

Like people have said, stick with the girl for now. zack said it best, just ask him. If you don't want to ask him directly then ask him about his thoughts on gay marriage. And give the girl a chance. You might find out that you really like her