Frienship troubles

[kylez]

Hey guys, this is my first post on here.

Ok, so I have this friend, who is my BEST friend in the entire world, and means everything to me. He doesn't know, but i have a huge crush on him. (Yes im gay) Lately he has been saying a lot how he would rather get a bj from a guy then this girl who has been coming onto him lately.

He used to be and act SUPER straight, witch made me so upset because I LOVE HIM. Its honestly unhealthy, He's all I think about night and day. He's not popular, or even super hot but I just love him. Lately however he has been saying how he has developed feelings for someone who we both know, and this makes me even MORE upset because i feel like i have no chance at all.

Could you please give me any advice about this, I mean I have already told him how I feel, but not to the full extent. Honestly, I Thought he was asking me for a bj one time, but i dont know how to tell him that I would give him one without scaring him off.

Any advice would be appreciated. :confused::whoops:

[mrmee]

Well if you want to give him a bj, that would surely bring up some kind of conversation. IYKWIM


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[HockeyLovesMe]

Hey guys, this is my first post on here.

Ok, so I have this friend, who is my BEST friend in the entire world, and means everything to me. He doesn't know, but i have a huge crush on him. (Yes im gay) Lately he has been saying a lot how he would rather get a bj from a guy then this girl who has been coming onto him lately.

He used to be and act SUPER straight, witch made me so upset because I LOVE HIM. Its honestly unhealthy, He's all I think about night and day. He's not popular, or even super hot but I just love him. Lately however he has been saying how he has developed feelings for someone who we both know, and this makes me even MORE upset because i feel like i have no chance at all.

Could you please give me any advice about this, I mean I have already told him how I feel, but not to the full extent. Honestly, I Thought he was asking me for a bj one time, but i dont know how to tell him that I would give him one without scaring him off.

Any advice would be appreciated. :confused::whoops:

well I still think talking is the best answer when it comes up again I would just say something like hey if you ever need help in that all u have to do is ask :) something like ovious like that and it still gives you the option to say you were just joking if he freaks out :)

[SethfromMI]

it is tough. maybe wait till he brings something up similar then see if he is interested in ever doing something with a guy, then go from there. it is tough because you don't want to make things awkward. some guys wouldn't care, some would. there is no super easy answer in this. part of it is you just may have to accept he is not into guys (if he isn't). I am bi but I learned a long time ago it does no use to dwell on guys who are straight