So now what......

[ColinB]

I've considered myself gay almost forever.......never questioned it and never found girls the least bit attractive (pretty, but not....ya know)

My best friend is transgender (g to b, pre op)...

Here's my problem. I met a guy who is also trans (g to b), and I really really like him. He's into guys and seems to like me.........and the thought of sexual stuff is confusing the hell outta me. I don't get aroused by girls....never have....but he arouses and turns me on......but the "parts" are still wrong....but with him its like I don't care.....like I'll just ignore that one thing.....

I'm not bi am I? I mean I am beyond confused about this.......

Is it possible to just be attracted to trans guys and find girls gross? Does that even make sense?

Posts merged, next time please use the edit button. ~Hannah

[HockeyLovesMe]

I've considered myself gay almost forever.......never questioned it and never found girls the least bit attractive (pretty, but not....ya know)

My best friend is transgender (g to b, pre op)...

Here's my problem. I met a guy who is also trans (g to b), and I really really like him. He's into guys and seems to like me.........and the thought of sexual stuff is confusing the hell outta me. I don't get aroused by girls....never have....but he arouses and turns me on......but the "parts" are still wrong....but with him its like I don't care.....like I'll just ignore that one thing.....

I'm not bi am I? I mean I am beyond confused about this.......


I think when u love a person u just want to be with them no matter what they are.. don't be to confused or overthink it :)

[ksdnfkfr]

I think the fact that you're attracted to him because he's a boy even though he has girl parts is still gay. I mean think about it, the only girl you're attracted to is a boy. Thinking about it I could see myself getting aroused over a boy like that too, even though it seems like a contradiction. But yeah, what Sam says. You like him, he likes you, so just enjoy that and don't worry about technicalities.

[ColinB]

Guess ill just go with it and see.....who knows

[JamesSuperBoy]

Guess ill just go with it and see.....who knows


That is just what to do - :)

[ksdnfkfr]

Guess ill just go with it and see.....who knows

That's about all you can do. Liam is in a confusing friendship too. Same thing with both, just gotta see how it plays out.