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Kjcj
November 19th, 2014, 12:20 AM
So for the past year or so I have jerked off every night (or almost every night) before going to sleep... Now I can't sleep unless I jerk off... If I do I usually wake up naked (when I go to bed with sleep Shorts) or I wake up in the middle of the night jerking off.. Like when I go to someone else's house where the time just isn't right I wake up jerking and don't feel right about it... So I'm wanting to break this habit and don't exactly know how... A little advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance!

Semi_IronMan
November 19th, 2014, 07:29 AM
So for the past year or so I have jerked off every night (or almost every night) before going to sleep... Now I can't sleep unless I jerk off... If I do I usually wake up naked (when I go to bed with sleep Shorts) or I wake up in the middle of the night jerking off.. Like when I go to someone else's house where the time just isn't right I wake up jerking and don't feel right about it... So I'm wanting to break this habit and don't exactly know how... A little advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance!

is it just me or is this whole thing not making sense?
So u go to sleep with clothes on and u wake up naked? And what do u mean when u say "I wake up jerking" do u mean u wake up 2 mastubate or...?

Honest Attempt
November 19th, 2014, 07:34 AM
If it's truly a habit you just have to resist. When you develop a consistency like this your body gets used to it after a while, until the point where it is expecting to be masturbating at a specific time of day. If you really want to fix the problem, then only masturbate on certain days (maybe on the weekends?) so that it doesn't develop into a habit but still provides you with a healthy amount of sexual release. That way you won't feel obligated to jack off during a sleep over but can still do it at home when by yourself.

HockeyLovesMe
November 19th, 2014, 11:10 AM
So for the past year or so I have jerked off every night (or almost every night) before going to sleep... Now I can't sleep unless I jerk off... If I do I usually wake up naked (when I go to bed with sleep Shorts) or I wake up in the middle of the night jerking off.. Like when I go to someone else's house where the time just isn't right I wake up jerking and don't feel right about it... So I'm wanting to break this habit and don't exactly know how... A little advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance!

o would suggest doing it at different times in the day mabey that will break the routine of it

Zachary G
November 19th, 2014, 12:18 PM
what you have going on there is sleep masturbation, you are so used to doing that it has become second nature for you and you mimic the motions in your sleep. i dont know how you can break yourself of the habit, but it is a real thing.

SethfromMI
November 19th, 2014, 02:44 PM
maybe try jacking off at different times of the day

Jaseblader
November 19th, 2014, 05:57 PM
I'd say stop jerking every night and do it every two nights slowly decrease your jpn or jerks per night XD

Kjcj
November 19th, 2014, 08:50 PM
is it just me or is this whole thing not making sense?
So u go to sleep with clothes on and u wake up naked? And what do u mean when u say "I wake up jerking" do u mean u wake up 2 masturbate or...?

no I don't wake up to masturbate... I literally wake up jerking off... like doing it in my sleep and waking up while still doing it... and yes I know its weird, but I have went to sleep with shorts on and waken up naked...

Pray about and have your father in heaven help you go through this trial

Believe me I have, and if it was that easy I wouldnt be on here asking about it..

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asrlem
November 19th, 2014, 10:02 PM
what you have going on there is sleep masturbation, you are so used to doing that it has become second nature for you and you mimic the motions in your sleep. i dont know how you can break yourself of the habit, but it is a real thing.
Yep second nature. Just try to control yourself. Like find a way to clean your mind before you sleep and it should go away. You can still mbate just before you go to bed then calm your mind of sexual thoughts.