Have this happened to you?

[BabyGMarie]

Go out with a guy for over a year and only made it to second base no third, fourth and so on ?

[Karkat]

I only kissed my ex fiancé. He wanted to wait to do more until we were married.

It was sweet in theory, but it didn't work out. I was too young to be engaged.

[Taryn98]

No this hasn't happened for me

[leahmae]

nope, can't relate to this one.

[churris]

That wouldn't be me. But if both of you are okay with it, I don't see any problems.

[biancachica]

I only lost my virginity to my ex bf after a year of dating. We did however get to third base before that. But I really dont see a problem with your situation.

[budapest]

probably will be me becauSE I'M TOO SCARED TO MENTION ANYTHING

[Luminous]

There's no problem with that. Do what you feel comfortable with! If you feel like you want to go farther, you need to have an honest conversation with your partner and discuss your limits. I haven't done what you've done, but I've done the opposite, I went all the way with someone I knew for 45 minutes.. probably not the smartest idea but whatever. We were both comfortable with it, so why not, right?

[Emerald Dream]

There is absolutely no problem with that. Everyone has different levels of expectations (both girls and guys), and sex is definitely a big thing - not something that should be rushed into unless you are both comfortable with it.

Also, Puberty for Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[SethfromMI]

things like that should not be rushed if one of the partners do not want to. it is something you should discuss though if it is bothering you enough to make a thread about it . still he should not have to do anything he may not want to just like you should not have to do anything you don't want to

[CosmicNoodle]

There is absolutely no problem with that. Everyone has different levels of expectations (both girls and guys), and sex is definitely a big thing - not something that should be rushed into unless you are both comfortable with it.


5 star response ^

[Vocabulous]

Try 2 years and not even 1st base (that's kissing right? I have no idea)

[leahmae]

there really isn't much wrong with your situation. i personally have never went that long before moving to those points, but we're all different. if you really feel like you want to be with him, then just hang in there, good things will come. if all else fails, try talking to him about it. a little communications is a good thing.

[BabyGMarie]

Try 2 years and not even 1st base (that's kissing right? I have no idea)

yes thats kissing