more sexuality issues

[daskaiser]

Good evening.

( I'm a formal basta*d so yeah :) )

This is , I'm afraid , yet another " am I bi , gay etc thread. I'm here because I sort of need or want to know and you people seem more clued up about this stuff than me.

So : I'm attracted in my mind to women , I get on well with them and I often end up having feelings for them. In this sense I'm definitely straight. Never , not once have I felt an attraction to a man , and I've been round a few.

However , downstairs is where things start to go slightly wrong. I feel no sexual attraction to women. I cannot get a hard-on to female porn , I cannot ejaculate to the thought or sight of a women. This is totally the opposite of men. ( Jake bass is to die for :)) - yet I feel no attraction to them.

This isn't me repressing homosexuality either , but what my wingman does is just totally opposite to what the rest of my body does

Thoughts , ladies and gents ?


M

[Calliope]

Romantic and sexual attraction are different things. You might be heteroromantic homosexual.

[Karkat]

I agree with Ava. You're probably a heteroromantic homosexual.

Which is...Probably gonna be complicated, awh.

[Indio]

Good evening.

( I'm a formal basta*d so yeah :) )

This is , I'm afraid , yet another " am I bi , gay etc thread. I'm here because I sort of need or want to know and you people seem more clued up about this stuff than me.

So : I'm attracted in my mind to women , I get on well with them and I often end up having feelings for them. In this sense I'm definitely straight. Never , not once have I felt an attraction to a man , and I've been round a few.

However , downstairs is where things start to go slightly wrong. I feel no sexual attraction to women. I cannot get a hard-on to female porn , I cannot ejaculate to the thought or sight of a women. This is totally the opposite of men. ( Jake bass is to die for :)) - yet I feel no attraction to them.

This isn't me repressing homosexuality either , but what my wingman does is just totally opposite to what the rest of my body does

Thoughts , ladies and gents ?


M

Thought us different with feeling Feeling is the effect while thought us the cause. I mean your conscious mind says its a girl but your subconscious mind is a guy. Mind is so powerful.

[James Dean]

You could probably be bisexual. Which is having sexual attraction to both genders. It could start with just only having thoughts and emotions of being with someone of the same sex, then it turns into attraction. Sexuality is what you make it though, I agree it's hard to understand. If you don't want to label yourself, you don't have to. You can't help who you find attractive and you should embrace your sexuality that you can find love with both genders or at least have sexual feelings towards both and are willing to be open minded about your sexuality. :)

[daskaiser]

Thanks for the replies people :) - as one of you said " this is going to be complicated :) )

Thanks

[Zachary G]

You could probably be bisexual. Which is having sexual attraction to both genders. It could start with just only having thoughts and emotions of being with someone of the same sex, then it turns into attraction. Sexuality is what you make it though, I agree it's hard to understand. If you don't want to label yourself, you don't have to. You can't help who you find attractive and you should embrace your sexuality that you can find love with both genders or at least have sexual feelings towards both and are willing to be open minded about your sexuality. :)

excellently presented. this says it all right here.

[HockeyLovesMe]

I don't think u shld bother putting a laber on yourself.. just accept who you are and if its confusing well just do what is fun I guess :)

[xXMajor_PancakesXx]

Here's what I suggest, get a girlfriend to satisfy your romantic needs as a human being, then (with the permission of said girlfriend) get sort of like a friends with benefits deal goin' on with a guy to satisfy your sexual needs. Idk, this sounds really complicated and I'm sorry you're going through it, but you are you and that's ok. Good luck man

[daskaiser]

Here's what I suggest, get a girlfriend to satisfy your romantic needs as a human being, then (with the permission of said girlfriend) get sort of like a friends with benefits deal goin' on with a guy to satisfy your sexual needs. Idk, this sounds really complicated and I'm sorry you're going through it, but you are you and that's ok. Good luck man

Aha that made me laugh for some reason ... But its a sound proposition :)

What would be fun in being normal eh ?

[Jaseblader]

Good evening.

( I'm a formal basta*d so yeah :) )

This is , I'm afraid , yet another " am I bi , gay etc thread. I'm here because I sort of need or want to know and you people seem more clued up about this stuff than me.

So : I'm attracted in my mind to women , I get on well with them and I often end up having feelings for them. In this sense I'm definitely straight. Never , not once have I felt an attraction to a man , and I've been round a few.

However , downstairs is where things start to go slightly wrong. I feel no sexual attraction to women. I cannot get a hard-on to female porn , I cannot ejaculate to the thought or sight of a women. This is totally the opposite of men. ( Jake bass is to die for :)) - yet I feel no attraction to them.

This isn't me repressing homosexuality either , but what my wingman does is just totally opposite to what the rest of my body does

Thoughts , ladies and gents ?


M

Romantic and sexual attraction are different things. You might be heteroromantic homosexual.

Exactly

[Semi_IronMan]

Good evening.

( I'm a formal basta*d so yeah :) )

This is , I'm afraid , yet another " am I bi , gay etc thread. I'm here because I sort of need or want to know and you people seem more clued up about this stuff than me.

So : I'm attracted in my mind to women , I get on well with them and I often end up having feelings for them. In this sense I'm definitely straight. Never , not once have I felt an attraction to a man , and I've been round a few.

However , downstairs is where things start to go slightly wrong. I feel no sexual attraction to women. I cannot get a hard-on to female porn , I cannot ejaculate to the thought or sight of a women. This is totally the opposite of men. ( Jake bass is to die for :)) - yet I feel no attraction to them.

This isn't me repressing homosexuality either , but what my wingman does is just totally opposite to what the rest of my body does

Thoughts , ladies and gents ?


M

I can totally relate, the same thing's happening to me