Am I a Sex Addict?

[Preeece]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!

[Indio]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!

Wow! Minimize doing it!

[SethfromMI]

well that is a high number but it is normal at this age of your life to be really horny. also, you may not have reached the stage in your development to ejaculate yet.

[Skitty]

I highly doubt you're a sex addict. You probably just have too much free time, or an active sex drive, which is quite typical for someone your age.

[Jaseblader]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!

Wow welcome to puberty

[refrigeratorx]

i guarantee if you were occupied all the time that wouldnt happen. go do something and keep urself busy. its not a bad thing though....

[ComfortableInChaos]

I would say to try doing it 2-3 times a day, weekends and weekdays. Just try cutting down on it a little bit. It's normal for you to jerk off a lot. It doesn't mean you're a sex addict, it means you're starting to learn about yourself and jerking off is normal. I agree with refrigeratorx and I'd say keep yourself preoccupied and you won't have to worry about it that much.

[Uranus]

I wouldn't say you're an addict unless this affects your daily routine. If you do it so much you always stay at home just to masturbate, or something, then you may be an addict.
If it is not getting in the way of your daily routine, them happy fapping, my friend!

[Typhlosion]

Dude, yes, you do have an addiction. That is way, way beyond the norm and you might be hurting yourself. I know it can be very embarrassing, but talk to someone about this. Watching so much porn can also be bad for your future self. While yes, hormones are at a real high during puberty, you've gone overboard with it.

[Zachary G]

i wouldnt say that you were a sex addict because you havent had sex yet, but i would say that you might be slightly addicted to porn and that is what fuels your frequent masturbation. its normal for someone of our age to masturbate frequently, but i think 23 times in a day is a bit excessive even for me. all in all, you are just fine, perfectly normal. dont sweat it.

[Straya]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!

i wouldnt say your a sex addict but that i alot but if its not interfering with your life than it not too much only worry about it if your choosing that over other activities like seeing your family or friends

[jordanhardy]

Firstly I would suggest cutting back on the porn and eventually cut it out completely. It sounds to me that it's porn your addicted to. Watching to much of it can cause issues later down the line when you start having sexual relationships. Masturbation is normal, although 4 times a day after school borders the excessive. However that won't hurt you, whereas the porn will. Try doing something to take your mind of it and cut back on the amount of times you do it a day. Eventually it will work itself out. If not then speak to someone about the porn addiction as it is a real thing which many do suffer from.

[Wyatt 13]

i guarantee if you were occupied all the time that wouldnt happen. go do something and keep urself busy. its not a bad thing though....


Agree, you need to do other stuff man, like sports or outdoor activities.

[refrigeratorx]

Agree, you need to do other stuff man, like sports or outdoor activities.

thanks, yeah thats how i do it. when you have so much to do you will at least limit yourself to once a say which is the perfect amount in my opinion xD

[hockeyfan]

Ur "records" r higher than any of my own. Just try to slow down. The fact that u can't ejaculate has nothing to do with it.

[Dennis98]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!

Only I can say is , OMG . Have you even time to study ???

[CrazyPerson101]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!


I don't think you're a sex addict sense you're not ( from what you've told ) sexually active, I think your hormones are on overdrive which makes you horny all the time. There isn't really anything you can do to prevent it, I mean try to get busy and think about other stuff but you're going to have to just ride it out. As you get older, it gets easier. I don't masturbate so I'm not really qualified to say cut back and whatnot, I'll leave that to the guys that do. Hope this helped :)

[Pulp501]

It depends on if you can stop or not. Try going a couple days without doing it at all, if you can't do that, you might have a problem. There's nothing really wrong with doing it a lot if you have time, as long as it doesn't interfere with other stuff, and you can control it. anyone should be able to not do it for a long period of time of need be.

[kay_jay]

Just make sure it isn't distracting you from school and everyday responsibilities.

[Semi_IronMan]

4 times ? You should try 2 keep yourself occupied so you don't think about it

[riverboy]

You need a hobby or some thing else to stay busy.

[Hermes]

Tackling the last point first do you orgasm at the end of each masturbation session? if not then obviously this would be why you are no ejaculating and would explain why you remain so horny. If you are having an orgasm, just without the ejaculation then don't worry 14 is still within the bounds of normal, though a bit later than average.

Regarding the frequency it is quite normal for teen to masturbate lots but your frequency, particularly on weekends is high even by teen standards. You need to leave time for doing other things. I'd address that by not deliberately doing anything intended to make your horny, for example watching porn, as you will be quite horny enough as it is. Then I'd take an interest in other things. Arrange to see friends on the weekend or join a club, play sports or take up a hobby. The four times a day on school days is not so unusual but spending the whole weekend masturbating is not usual.

[DavidNorton]

I did that too. I've learned to keep myself busy and cut down on the number of times I do it

[Silentslayer13]

Firstly I would suggest cutting back on the porn and eventually cut it out completely. It sounds to me that it's porn your addicted to. Watching to much of it can cause issues later down the line when you start having sexual relationships. Masturbation is normal, although 4 times a day after school borders the excessive. However that won't hurt you, whereas the porn will. Try doing something to take your mind of it and cut back on the amount of times you do it a day. Eventually it will work itself out. If not then speak to someone about the porn addiction as it is a real thing which many do suffer from.

Took the words right out of my mouth

[TalenD]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!

I wouldn't do 23 times a day anymore if I were you, but I only do it max 3 times a day. I wouldn't call it a sex addiction either. I'm also in 8th grade too and it seems quite normal to masturbate a lot. Just find an activity to do or watch a new tv show or something to keep you occupied, and cut back on the porn. Only masturbate like max 3 times a day.

[Gizmo RC]

I don't know about sex addict. Maybe just masturbation addict. I'm a sex addict. I have sex at least 5 times a week, just because.

[Ivorystick]

Relax, at that age I was going crazy like you, just find a hobby to keep you occupied

[Uranus]

You aren't a sex addict. You a fappin' addict

[bskaoalncnfjd]

I'm a straight 14 year old male in 8th grade and I legit think I already have a sex addiction. I watch porn everyday and masturbate to it. On weekdays I masturbate about 4 times on average after I come home from school. On weekends about 10 times. My record is like 23 times in 1 day. I also don't ejaculate yet so I'm worried about that. please help!

I do it almost as much as u do it, but it just slowly goes off as you become more mature.

[Snydergate]

well that is a high number but it is normal at this age of your life to be really horny. also, you may not have reached the stage in your development to ejaculate yet.

What he said...

[Luminous]

I don't know about sex addict. Maybe just masturbation addict. I'm a sex addict. I have sex at least 5 times a week, just because.

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