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EnterUsernameHere
November 15th, 2014, 12:46 AM
I have been masturbating lately, and I started getting curious about my sexuality, and if I am gay, or bi.
I am so confused about this, and I would like some help about it.

Karkat
November 15th, 2014, 03:16 AM
You really haven't given us a lot to go off here- do you find yourself thinking about men when you masturbate?

James Dean
November 15th, 2014, 07:28 AM
I'm sorry you are going through this issue. You shouldn't be confused, you cannot help what you are attracted to. It is up to you to accept and understand it though. Do research on sexuality if you have to, you're not alone on this. So once you accept yourself for who you are, then you should be fine. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable doing and listen to your heart. :)

Abyssal Echo
November 15th, 2014, 08:36 AM
There's no need to be in a hurry to label yourself. Right now if you come out as Bi or Gay with hormones raging you might regret it. Don't worry about it right now just go with the flow.

Captain Canada
November 15th, 2014, 08:42 AM
The amount you masturbate doesn't determine your sexuality. Also, like Mattie said, you shouldn't worry about labeling yourself even if you are bi/gay, and just "go with the flow". There's no rush to find out what you are

SethfromMI
November 15th, 2014, 09:58 AM
well we are going to need more details but do know many people are confused about their sexuality, esp at this age

Wyatt 13
November 19th, 2014, 08:43 PM
Dude some stuff here, give it some time dont label yourself.

Bull
November 25th, 2014, 01:13 PM
I was curious. I experimented. I enjoyed a short relationship with another guy (summer fling). We had fun together. I enjoy looking at hot guys but am not now finding a desire to experiment with them. Not saying I would never do it again, but right now am in a satisfying relationship with a girl. Give yourself time and space to experience life before to place any kind of label on your feelings/desires/experiences. Only time will tell your true orientation, in the meantime be safe and enjoy life as it presents itself to you.

Semi_IronMan
November 25th, 2014, 01:40 PM
I have been masturbating lately, and I started getting curious about my sexuality, and if I am gay, or bi.
I am so confused about this, and I would like some help about it.

You have thousands and thousands of teens ready to help you here on VT, all you have to do is ask. We could be able to help you if you gave us a bit more info about yourself and clearify your questions, 'cause right now I'm confused as to what u want to know.

Aajj333
November 26th, 2014, 12:30 AM
Do you like boys or girls or both? Take note if you like them romantically or sexually or maybe both! Could you see yourself going out with a boy? Or a girl? Or a transgendered person?

Rainbowfairy
November 27th, 2014, 12:10 PM
From what you have said it sounds like your bi-curious, just meaning your curious about it :D