How do you know when you're over someone?

[Lolbye]

It doesn't have to be someone you were in a relationship with, it could be someone you were almost in a relationship with, or just someone you were really into (even if they never knew it.)

I'm asking because I still think about this guy so much, when I get a text I wonder if it's him. But then when I think about it, do I really want to see him? Do I even care anymore? And I realize I'm a little indifferent now. If he comes back to town and wants to see me I'm down, but if he doesn't then I'll continue on. Before I wanted nothing more than to see him but now I'm kind of ready to just pretend he doesn't exist. But at the same time, I want him to wonder what I'm up to, ya know?

[Melodic]

I think if you totally moved on, you wouldn't be questioning about him at all.

[Lolbye]

Yeah I guess. But we all wonder about our exes right? (This guy isn't an ex, idk what we are currently) but I still do think about my exes, even though I know im completely over them, and don't want anything with them.

[Melodic]

Yeah I guess. But we all wonder about our exes right? (This guy isn't an ex, idk what we are currently) but I still do think about my exes, even though I know im completely over them, and don't want anything with them.

I do the same. I have an ex who I recently found out was sexting with an old friend of mine and I probably wouldn't care if I never saw him again. Yet, I still sometimes am curious of how he's doing.

But a question for you. You mentioned how you are curious if he texts you right. What would you want that text to say?

[Lolbye]

I would want the text to say that he wants to see me when he comes home and that he wants to clear up some stuff. Basically we live apart since he is away in college, so we can't be in a relationship, which is completely fine, but he was home last weekend. We were supposed to hangout, but he suddenly disappeared and we didn't get a chance to hangout in the 2 1/2 days he was here. It made me feel unimportant and I realized I should just move on. So at this point I'm not really caring about whether or not he contacts me over thanksgiving, but at the same time my pride and my curiosity wants him to ask to see me. It's hard to explain. Sorry that was a long reply lol.