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Leprous
November 13th, 2014, 03:07 PM
So I just had (another) nasty fight with my parents.
All they do is complain about how I'm on my pc too much and how I'm a horrible student. They know I'm depressed but they don't seem to know they're stressing me out, making studying even harder. As of right now I'm calm but I feel like soon I'm gonna snap and do bad things to myself. I really need help. Is there anyone with some advice?
queenofcontrariety
November 13th, 2014, 04:43 PM
Break things, not yourself. My mom does things that just send me into fits of rage and she doesn't believe depression or mental illness exist. Don't do things to yourself. Cry a little. It's not recommended but we all have to sometimes. Try to work a little more at school, maybe try to combine it with your pc a little, like make study guides, I have a friend who does this religiously. I can only learn my vocab by using quizlet. Take what you're doing and try to add it into what you actually enjoy. Don't harm yourself, please please pretty please (not sure why it's important how the please looks but this one is pretty). Try to do some other things, and if you need rip or cut some paper. go to like the opposite side of your house as everyone else, close a door, lay on the floor and scream into a pillow. Keep your head up, only 3 years left til you can get away.
Leprous
November 14th, 2014, 01:13 AM
Break things, not yourself. My mom does things that just send me into fits of rage and she doesn't believe depression or mental illness exist. Don't do things to yourself. Cry a little. It's not recommended but we all have to sometimes. Try to work a little more at school, maybe try to combine it with your pc a little, like make study guides, I have a friend who does this religiously. I can only learn my vocab by using quizlet. Take what you're doing and try to add it into what you actually enjoy. Don't harm yourself, please please pretty please (not sure why it's important how the please looks but this one is pretty). Try to do some other things, and if you need rip or cut some paper. go to like the opposite side of your house as everyone else, close a door, lay on the floor and scream into a pillow. Keep your head up, only 3 years left til you can get away.
Well, you mentioned another problem. My mom is way to over-protective there is no way she'll let me go in 3 years. I just had nightmares and I already feel horrible and it's 7 am. I really don't know what to do anymore.
James Dean
November 14th, 2014, 04:12 AM
Sometimes when we get yelled at, they are just showing us tough love. They just don't want you to be narrow and irresponsible. I'm sure most of it is just out of care. I suggest you chill down for now. Don't take it personal, it is their house and their rules. If it is in their best interest to make repercussions based on your schoolwork or grades, that is on them.
Try to talk about this with them. Try to come up with a resolution. Maybe you can do work around the house or chores or if you prove to them that you are doing well with school, they will be more lient with you.
It's fine to be upset about it, just understand the situation better. I'm sure they love you very much, just they want you to be more punctual. Keep your mind calm and pure. I hope things go well for you. :)
Leprous
November 15th, 2014, 01:03 AM
Sometimes when we get yelled at, they are just showing us tough love. They just don't want you to be narrow and irresponsible. I'm sure most of it is just out of care. I suggest you chill down for now. Don't take it personal, it is their house and their rules. If it is in their best interest to make repercussions based on your schoolwork or grades, that is on them.
Try to talk about this with them. Try to come up with a resolution. Maybe you can do work around the house or chores or if you prove to them that you are doing well with school, they will be more lient with you.
It's fine to be upset about it, just understand the situation better. I'm sure they love you very much, just they want you to be more punctual. Keep your mind calm and pure. I hope things go well for you. :)
Well, it is starting to feel like sometimes they enjoy yelling at me. It's breaking me.
SethfromMI
November 15th, 2014, 05:35 PM
Sometimes when we get yelled at, they are just showing us tough love. They just don't want you to be narrow and irresponsible. I'm sure most of it is just out of care. I suggest you chill down for now. Don't take it personal, it is their house and their rules. If it is in their best interest to make repercussions based on your schoolwork or grades, that is on them.
Try to talk about this with them. Try to come up with a resolution. Maybe you can do work around the house or chores or if you prove to them that you are doing well with school, they will be more lient with you.
It's fine to be upset about it, just understand the situation better. I'm sure they love you very much, just they want you to be more punctual. Keep your mind calm and pure. I hope things go well for you. :)
perfect advice
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