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Kochanek
November 13th, 2014, 02:34 PM
Hi Girls & Boys!
What is masturbation like for you? Is it more some sexual pleasure of its own? Or is it more or even only a substitute to calm down the cravings for real sex? How do you feel about it?
Additional questions:
How often do you have sex or do sexual things with a partner?
How often do you masturbate?
How often do you miss sex with a partner while masturbating (always, never, mostly, seldom)?
I am curious, if the answers show a significant difference between boys and girls. I would suppose, that for most boys it's more a substitute and for most girls it's a pleasure of its own.
BlackParadePixie
November 13th, 2014, 03:13 PM
It's definitely pleasurable...but not really a substitute for anything. When I was dating and having sex...I would still masturbate. It's a big stress reliever too.
How often do you have sex or do sexual things with a partner?
Well I'm single right now, so nothing going on right now
How often do you masturbate?
usually every day
How often do you miss sex with a partner while masturbating (always, never, mostly, seldom)?
Yeah sometimes I miss it, but don't think about it all the time.
jordanhardy
November 13th, 2014, 03:30 PM
it's a bit of both for me really, I do it because I like the feeling and I do it because when I'm horny for sex and my gf isn't there.
How often do you have sex or do sexual things with a partner? Whenever we can, usually every day
How often do you masturbate? Probably twice s day
How often do you miss sex with a partner while masturbating (always, never, mostly, seldom)? Most of the time I'm masturbating I'd rather be having sex, but u don't always think about it.
Karkat
November 13th, 2014, 03:40 PM
What is masturbation like for you? Is it more some sexual pleasure of its own? Or is it more or even only a substitute to calm down the cravings for real sex? How do you feel about it?
It's kinda neither. I guess it's closest to a substitute.
I don't really like masturbating, just orgasming, so I masturbate to achieve orgasm, and to stop myself from being horny
Additional questions:
How often do you have sex or do sexual things with a partner? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ When I can
How often do you masturbate? About 3-5x a month
How often do you miss sex with a partner while masturbating (always, never, mostly, seldom)? Mostly- I'd much rather be getting laid.
Your Captain
November 13th, 2014, 04:40 PM
I definitely jerk off.
"Why? I want to. That's not why I do it. I do it because I fucking need to."
(The Wolf of wall street Marl Hanna quote)
EddieHoward96
November 13th, 2014, 06:21 PM
What is masturbation like for you? Is it more some sexual pleasure of its own? Or is it more or even only a substitute to calm down the cravings for real sex? How do you feel about it? BOTH
Additional questions:
How often do you have sex or do sexual things with a partner? WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP, EVERY TWO DAYS, SINGLE NOW.
How often do you masturbate? ONCE A DAY.
How often do you miss sex with a partner while masturbating (always, never, mostly, seldom)? SELDOM.
Hermes
November 14th, 2014, 08:50 AM
For me, I get horny and feel like I need to cum. I don't feel like that need is as specific as being a need to have sex or a need to masturbate. Either is equally capable of satisfying it and cumming is always intensely pleasurable however it happens. There are other differences, of course, between sex and masturbation and I don't think of one as a substitute for the other.
Additional questions:
How often do you have sex or do sexual things with a partner? It varies somewhat but on average a couple of times a week.
How often do you masturbate? Most days once. Some days twice or even more, some days none. If I am anticipating sex I will wait to see if that comes about first.
How often do you miss sex with a partner while masturbating (always, never, mostly, seldom)? Never. Of course I would choose sex when it is available but I still really enjoy masturbating and when I'm doing it am usually into some fantasy, enjoying the sensations and looking forward to the pleasure of cumming.
Zachary G
November 14th, 2014, 03:59 PM
What is masturbation like for you? Is it more some sexual pleasure of its own? Or is it more or even only a substitute to calm down the cravings for real sex? How do you feel about it?
masturbation for me is a sexual experience of its own, but it alss helps to cool down my cravings
Additional questions:
How often do you have sex or do sexual things with a partner? once a week
How often do you masturbate? 2-3 a day
How often do you miss sex with a partner while masturbating (always, never, mostly, seldom)? sometimes
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