Bi or bi-curious?

[green white]

My friend ask me, he said:
"I attracted with girl and often with boy. I have 3 dreams about sex. My first dream i have sex with girl. My second dream i have sex with boy and my last dream i have sex with girl. I don't know i'm bi or gay or straight. I hope you can help me"
I don't know he is bi or gay or straight. Can you help him?
I hope you can help him, because he is my friend.

[Zachary G]

its hard to say definitively if he is gay or bi simply because he had dreams. it is normal for us to have sexual dreams about the same and opposite sexes, but it doesnt mean anything, its only a dream. chalk that up to hormones and puberty. if anything he is just curious. dont be so quick to label, he needs to find himself first.

[Indio]

My friend ask me, he said:
"I attracted with girl and often with boy. I have 3 dreams about sex. My first dream i have sex with girl. My second dream i have sex with boy and my last dream i have sex with girl. I don't know i'm bi or gay or straight. I hope you can help me"
I don't know he is bi or gay or straight. Can you help him?
I hope you can help him, because he is my friend.

Which he gets easily arouse with? With as guy or with a girl?

[green white]

Which he gets easily arouse with? With as guy or with a girl?

With all, but 1 year ago he just have friendship with boy

[Indio]

With all, but 1 year ago he just have friendship with boy

Whatever is his choice as long as he us happy!

[green white]

Whatever is his choice as long as he us happy!

No, he dosn't happy. He said, he worried about hell. He want be straight.

[Alex_3869]

I mean, if he feels as if he can be in a relationship with a boy and a girl and can feel sexual attraction to both sexes, then he is bi. However going off of dreams, I don't think it is an accurate measure of your sexual orientation. And in terms of wanting to be straight, it won't change anything. You can want to be straight as badly as you want, but it isn't going to make the same sex attraction go away, you're just suppressing it.

[James Dean]

Him wanting to be straight, I think I know the reason. I don't want to get into politics, because unfortunately being LGBT that is where issues become complicated and scary. The only way to approve on this, is acceptance. As long as he loves himself and is true to himself, then he can ignore the politics of it.

If he is true to himself and understands that he has bisexual attractions, he should be fine. There is nothing to worry about, just be a supportive and open minded friend to him. I wish the both of you luck with this situation though. :)