Virginity

[Close102]

Simple question. Are you stil a virgin if u have anal or oral sex?

[Underground_Network]

In my opinion: If you have anal, you are no longer a virgin. If you have oral, its questionable, but I'd still think of you as a virgin.

[Dolphus Raymond]

Virginity is supposed to represent some kind of purity, right? Well, to me, oral is pretty much losing your purity...but then again, I know a lot of incredibly impure virgins.

Virginity seems like an outdated concept to me. But I guess on a technical level, I put handjobs/fingering/oral at a lower "trust level" than vaginal/anal. There's something more formal about allowing someone else in your body than just getting them off.

[Techno Monster]

It depends on what you believe.

[Gumleaf]

i consider that you are still a virgin until you have virginal sex.

[dogman]

oral, i would say, yes you still are
anal, no your not

[RaisingSand]

i consider that you are still a virgin until you have virginal sex.

... really. Tell us more.

[Antares]

Everyone believes differently but I think most people think that you are because they are too ashamed that they have said they are and they want to wait but they don't want too...so in my opinion no you lose your virginity if you do those.

[Zephyr]

Virginity, to me, takes on the traditional way of looking at it.
As a personal belief, oral sex does not count.

For Guys
If it's been anal or vaginal then your no virgin.


For Girls
If you've had vaginal sex, you're no virgin.

[japanman]

i have never relly thought much on this topic but for a guy anal or vaginal sex means losing your virginity
girls who have had vaginal sex lost there virginity
oral is basically not losing virginity at all its just another one of those it seems like it but its not things.

[Mzor203]

I think any type of sex is basically still sex, and so yeah I think you lose your virginity.

[dogman]

Virginity, to me, takes on the traditional way of looking at it.
As a personal belief, oral sex does not count.

For Guys
If it's been anal or vaginal then your no virgin.


For Girls
If you've had vaginal sex, you're no virgin.

would u be a virgin if a girl has had anal sex with another girl (ie with a strap on)

[The Entertainer]

i think oral sex is just a stronger form of masturbation...in effect its pretty similar, just you are using someone elses mouth, but anal sex simulates vaginal sex in a different part of the body...you are entering someone else.

For me, oral sex isnt as intrusive as anal sex would be. As well as that, someone who is gay would consider that to have anal sex is to lose your virginity. Therefore, in answer to your question, Id say that oral sex is not losing your virginity, and anal sex is losing it. The distinction however, is very fine.

[Close102]

ya i think its all about ur beliefs i agree with the Entertainer that there is a very fine line so i think

anal:no
oral: no

no ofence to any1 else

[ThatCanadianGuy]

would u be a virgin if a girl has had anal sex with another girl (ie with a strap on)

I don't think so. See you don't consider a girl that has used a vibrator to not be a virgin, even though it goes "inside". For her to lose her virginity, the penis has to be REAL. :yeah:

[Texmex21]

Yes your a virgin until your penis enters her vagina

[futuresexologist]

loosing your virginity in my opinion is vaginal sex

nothing else because that is the only kind of sex where usually a hymen is broken

[dogman]

I don't think so. See you don't consider a girl that has used a vibrator to not be a virgin, even though it goes "inside". For her to lose her virginity, the penis has to be REAL. :yeah:

yer that what i think to, but then that means that lezbians that have only ever had lezbian sex, are virgins, that cant be right

Yes your a virgin until your penis enters her vagina

loosing your virginity in my opinion is vaginal sex, nothing else because that is the only kind of sex where usually a hymen is broken

ok

i last things, does gay anal sex count as the man, so is the

recieving man not a vigin?

giving man not a virgin??