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CreativeUsername
November 12th, 2014, 07:03 PM
I've already had some people answer this in another thread, but it didn't really give me much. And they didn't know the whole situation.

So here's the story. There's a girl that I really like, and I was trying to figure out how to tell her how I feel. I asked some of my friends, one of them is a year older than me and the girl that I like. I told them when I was going to tell her, but she brushed me off before I could say anything. The next day, I see him talking to her and trying to get closer to her. Within a week he told her almost exactly what I was going to say. They went to homecoming together, and I'm pretty sure they're dating now.

How do I tell him that I'm kinda pissed at him?

SethfromMI
November 12th, 2014, 09:14 PM
say "dude I am pissed off at you."

what he did was not cool. it is not his fault she is interested in him, but he still kind of screwed you over. I would not be afraid to say I was pissed off at him and if he doesn't care, then he is not a friend worth having

Decim
November 13th, 2014, 03:14 AM
I've already had some people answer this in another thread, but it didn't really give me much. And they didn't know the whole situation.

So here's the story. There's a girl that I really like, and I was trying to figure out how to tell her how I feel. I asked some of my friends, one of them is a year older than me and the girl that I like. I told them when I was going to tell her, but she brushed me off before I could say anything. The next day, I see him talking to her and trying to get closer to her. Within a week he told her almost exactly what I was going to say. They went to homecoming together, and I'm pretty sure they're dating now.

How do I tell him that I'm kinda pissed at him? You're being way too passive. Tell him to screw off and don't worry too much about the girl, because honestly you're going to find many more women that you like. Just don't ask for "help" next time, go for it. You might get turned down, but that is the worst that can happen.

Seafood
November 15th, 2014, 08:46 AM
Punch that guy in the fucking face, with words, of course.

Uranus
November 15th, 2014, 09:15 AM
Punch that guy in the fucking face, with words, of course.

I agree yet the last part I don't agree with :D

CosmicNoodle
November 15th, 2014, 10:00 AM
Tell him "I'm pissed off", how complex was that?

Just tell him, you'll find it's a lot easier to just be up front about things in life than beating around the bush. Lesson for life.

Melodic
November 15th, 2014, 05:11 PM
You know what, I'm gonna disagree a little with the last few people who gave advice. You may be pissed off, and yes you can tell him directly that your pissed off. But what problem would that solve? He still has the girl. It would just create a further argument that wastes time that you could spend moving on. Honestly the best thing you can do is move on from the situation and keep your so called friend at a reasonable distance.