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RRay99
November 12th, 2014, 05:44 PM
It's just me and my mom. We're generally good, but she dates a lot and frequently sleeps with different guys. I guess I have mixed feelings about what she does, but can't help but feel uncomfortable in my own home when she is having guys over. Do you think I'm overreacting or do you think I am right to feel the way I do? What would you say or do in my position?

Zachary G
November 12th, 2014, 06:24 PM
i think you have every right to feel the way you do and if it were one of my parents, i would think that our relationship was open enough that i could come to them and talk to them about my concerns and feelings. how good is your relationship? sound like something you can do? good luck

Whiskers
November 12th, 2014, 06:47 PM
That's not overreacting that seems like a reasonable response to me

SethfromMI
November 12th, 2014, 08:57 PM
you have the right to feel that way. I am sure it can be odd at times and very uncomfortable. i think it is a perfectly natural response

RRay99
November 14th, 2014, 02:36 AM
Thanks guys!

Body odah Man
November 14th, 2014, 08:14 AM
It's just me and my mom. We're generally good, but she dates a lot and frequently sleeps with different guys. I guess I have mixed feelings about what she does, but can't help but feel uncomfortable in my own home when she is having guys over. Do you think I'm overreacting or do you think I am right to feel the way I do? What would you say or do in my position?

I understand that you feel uncomfortable cuz it IS very awkward when strange men are wandering around your home with your mother. I'd talk to her about it.

Eurasian guy
November 19th, 2014, 06:38 AM
It's just me and my mom. We're generally good, but she dates a lot and frequently sleeps with different guys. I guess I have mixed feelings about what she does, but can't help but feel uncomfortable in my own home when she is having guys over. Do you think I'm overreacting or do you think I am right to feel the way I do? What would you say or do in my position?

My mum has had many boyfriends over the past years. It's kinda weird when they come over. I generally stay in my room and try ignore whats going on.

leahmae
November 20th, 2014, 01:04 PM
I think that is reasonable. I think it would even make me uncomfortable if there was a different random guy around my house every day or every couple of days.

Paladino
November 20th, 2014, 01:52 PM
I would be fuming if my mum kept bringing guys over, but the way you feel about it is the way you feel about it and it probably won't change.