Is it unatractive to be a virgin?

[Eurasian guy]

Okay, so the title pretty much says it all.

Basically. I'm 18, and i'm still a virgin. Not because i couldn't get any but because i used to be a christian and was waiting for the right girl to lose it to. A girl i loved and could see a relationship with. Not waiting til marriage or anything, just the right girl.

So my question is, does being a virgin make me seem unattractive, inexperienced or any other negative things?.

What's your personal view on this?

[Saint of Sinners]

I don't think so? Personally I don't think it would be an issue for most people.

[Paladino]

I don't think girls care if you are a virgin or not, infact I think a girl would like it better if she was the only one you've had sex with. Yes, you might be inexperienced but any girl worth keeping would understand that and you can only get better, right? Don't worry about it too much because from my own experience, I lost mine to a girl I thought would be worth a decent relationship & she was 'experienced' and she seemed to like it!

[SethfromMI]

Okay, so the title pretty much says it all.

Basically. I'm 18, and i'm still a virgin. Not because i couldn't get any but because i used to be a christian and was waiting for the right girl to lose it to. A girl i loved and could see a relationship with. Not waiting til marriage or anything, just the right girl.

So my question is, does being a virgin make me seem unattractive, inexperienced or any other negative things?.

What's your personal view on this?

nope not at all man. just because some people have sex early (like me) does not make the person any less attractive (in my mind anyways)

[NiceGuyDave]

it doesn't make a guy unattractive. like Gbow said, most girls like to meet a guy so they can experience loosing their virginity together. she doesn't want to know that you've been with heaps of chicks. on the other hand...some girls do like a guy who can take control AND knows what they are doing, but as long as you have confidence in the bedroom when the time comes, you can learn all the tricks by reading :)

[Karkat]

Honestly, I find virgins somewhat MORE attractive, because I don't have to feel quite as intimidated in bed. But that's just me.

Plus there's a certain... Idk, it's nice to know you're someone's first ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[queenofcontrariety]

Zero fucks are actually given, if a girl likes you she'll like you and want you either way, I think I'd find there to be less pressure to move quickly. So just live your life, as long as you're okay with it and don't push it onto some rando you'll be fine. Girls like guys with a bit of a soft side, and this is proves you have feelings and chiz. So props to you, girls can dig it.

[BabyGMarie]

It doesn't make you unattractive I think its more attractive

[Melodic]

I think it's kinda silly to say you're unattractive because you haven't had the right experience yet.

[vittyvirus]

I'm a virgin.

I find it sexy to be virgin.

[chrisawesome]

Nah, not really. Hell you could always lie. Then no one could judge your attractiveness on that. Lol.

To be honest what girls find attractive: sexually are the 3 things... Penis, body, and face!
Umm... I think we discussed the 1st one before. A+ on that! Lol

[evan3638]

If a girl is a virgin I find it more attractive

[rioo]

Okay, so the title pretty much says it all.

Basically. I'm 18, and i'm still a virgin. Not because i couldn't get any but because i used to be a christian and was waiting for the right girl to lose it to. A girl i loved and could see a relationship with. Not waiting til marriage or anything, just the right girl.

So my question is, does being a virgin make me seem unattractive, inexperienced or any other negative things?.

What's your personal view on this?

I'm so agree with that. well I never been in long term relationship but doing sex with someone we love is great. This is something I never get in hook up situation. oh please give ma virginity back. )

I see ur pict there, u lookin attractive so don't worry.

[Philleeep]

I don't think it matters at all to be honest!

[Body odah Man]

Okay, so the title pretty much says it all.

Basically. I'm 18, and i'm still a virgin. Not because i couldn't get any but because i used to be a christian and was waiting for the right girl to lose it to. A girl i loved and could see a relationship with. Not waiting til marriage or anything, just the right girl.

So my question is, does being a virgin make me seem unattractive, inexperienced or any other negative things?.

What's your personal view on this?

Being a virgin shuld be a plus IMO cuz it shows ur not a super horny dude like most guys and are capable of love and virtue.

[churris]

I couldn't care less if someone is a virgin or not, as long as they're honest about it and well, STDs free. If you want to wait to the right girl then wait, it's your opinion that matters and I'm sure when you find her it'll be worth it and she will love you.

Then again, I lost my virginity at 19 and I don't regret it a bit, so yeah.

[Uranus]

I don't find anyone unattractive for being a virgin. It's a silly question really

[chrisawesome]

Oh and btw. If you were f-ing a virgin they would have no way of claiming it was bad sex! Lol

[leahmae]

There is nothing unattractive about being a virgin. In some cases it's more of a turn on.

[Zachary G]

being a virgin is not an unattractive thing, in fact, for some women its more of a turn on to know that the are going to be a guys first. i personally think its admirable that you are waiting for the right girl to come along, i wish i would have waited.

[lumiadots]

Okay, so the title pretty much says it all.

Basically. I'm 18, and i'm still a virgin. Not because i couldn't get any but because i used to be a christian and was waiting for the right girl to lose it to. A girl i loved and could see a relationship with. Not waiting til marriage or anything, just the right girl.

So my question is, does being a virgin make me seem unattractive, inexperienced or any other negative things?.

What's your personal view on this?

nope, it doesn't make you unattractive at all.
it makes you attractive to me, and probably a lot of other girls too, that you want to wait to lose it to a girl you really care about. i'm NOT trying to stereotype a gender here, but in my experiences (because yes i am a teen and yes i see this on a pretty much daily basis and experienced it with past relationships) guys, especially 13-19 year olds, have a tendency to just want sex and that's it and bang anything that moves.
so it's honestly a really positive, good thing that you want to wait because it shows that you're mature and in it for love, and trust me, that's what any respectable girl wants.

[RockyRoad]

No, honestly in the world of extreme promiscuity, seeing someone who is "pure" is kind of a breath of fresh air.