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matt_tgr
November 11th, 2014, 05:54 PM
What would you do if a guy you've been talking to for about a month stops talking to you? I've been trying to text him, sent snapchats, but he never responds back (I did ask him if something was wrong, too)
Any advice, smart people of VT?

queenofcontrariety
November 11th, 2014, 06:00 PM
He may be busy, or he may be trying to make a statement depending on how long he's been ignoring you. I know it's hard but one of my personal mottos is "never double text a guy", let him think you're a little unavailable. This is probably breaking your heart or will sting a little but you're still so fresh in the situation that you might be able to get away with a no collateral damage. Give it about a week before you give up entirely. Best of luck.

matt_tgr
November 11th, 2014, 06:36 PM
What a coward would someone have to be, sonthat instead of saying i don't want to talk to you anymore, they would start ignoring you big time? That's why i hate so many people haha

RRay99
November 11th, 2014, 09:22 PM
Sorry to hear Matt. It's happened to me too. I think everyone wants proper closure, but you don't always get it. You seem like a nice guy and cute (like the glasses :), so keep on fishing as my friends like to say :)

SethfromMI
November 11th, 2014, 09:24 PM
What a coward would someone have to be, sonthat instead of saying i don't want to talk to you anymore, they would start ignoring you big time? That's why i hate so many people haha

yea it is not fair man :(. you can keep trying, but if that is the way he is going to be, then he is not worth spending your time on. find someone who is going to appreciate you

matt_tgr
November 12th, 2014, 05:39 AM
Sorry to hear Matt. It's happened to me too. I think everyone wants proper closure, but you don't always get it. You seem like a nice guy and cute (like the glasses :), so keep on fishing as my friends like to say :)

yea it is not fair man :(. you can keep trying, but if that is the way he is going to be, then he is not worth spending your time on. find someone who is going to appreciate you

Thanks guys! 😊