Porn and Sex

[RRay99]

While watching porn is one thing, how many of you think porn has affected the way you have sex, whether you or your bf/gf? Think for the guys I've been with it has in terms of what their expectations are. Do you think there are any ways porn has made your sex life better or worse?

[Juana]

It can affect real sex in a good and a bad way. Boys can expect too much from a girl by thinking she will act and behave herself like in a porn movie, but maybe some girls have also a kind of expectation from a boy, cos they saw how men in porn movies act and behave.

And porn can make the sex life better, when you try out something new, you saw in a porn movie, but also what I alread said, when the expectations are too high and one of the partners doesn't want to do something. The other wants to force maybe and then you're getting the troubles.

[Daniella98]

Its definitely made it better. There are many things I wouldnt have tried or considered if it wasnt for porn. Many people say porn isnt reality.
Much of it can be if you want to try and have the guts to pull it off.

Those who are sure it cant be done, I hope you are satisfied under the blanket with lights off and few positions.

Juana is right about the expectations part. Of course its best to have some kind of agreement on expectations.

I for one think its silly to moan and scream only for the sake of sound. Faking is annoying and boring

[Jamie48169]

While watching porn is one thing, how many of you think porn has affected the way you have sex, whether you or your bf/gf? Think for the guys I've been with it has in terms of what their expectations are. Do you think there are any ways porn has made your sex life better or worse?

I agree with the other comments about expectations. My partners and I have both changed out expectations because of watching porn. With that said, I have learned a lot of tricks from watching porn that I can use to drive boys and girls wild.

[Sminkelaks]

Sex is real. Porn is fiction.

[Cangirl]

yeah i agree to about expectations. My bf watches it and he's been pressuring me to have sex or anal sex because everybody does it and its no big deal anymore and I'm like ummm not a cock up your bum lol. But it has shown me what others do and also nice to see how things are done to.

My gf and me watch it and its fun then.

[RRay99]

Guess I see it both ways - sometimes its really unrealistic, but other times I do find it good ;)

[BCgirl]

I agree with CANgirl, Hi

I watch it to learn, and want to try lots of things I think so for that reason it may be good...

I have not watched it with a guy but I did watch some girl girl with my friend that's been very exciting..

[Karkat]

I feel like porn has given me ideas on what the basic mechanics of sex are like (before I became sexually active), and now gives me ideas, etc.

However, I feel like it can, and does give people some highly unrealistic expectations.